- File Size: 356 KB
- Print Length: 156 pages
- Publisher: Dog Ear Publishing, LLC (August 18, 2010)
- Publication Date: August 18, 2010
- Sold by: Amazon Digital Services LLC
- Language: English
- ASIN: B00403NT6U
- Text-to-Speech: Enabled
- Word Wise: Enabled
- Lending: Enabled
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,193,058 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
Starfish Leaders: Stories of Brokenness and Regeneration Kindle Edition
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More About the Author
These days, I live a more settled lifestyle with my husband, my flower gardens and our two Australian Shepherd mixed-breed dogs, in Durham, NC. It is here that I have built my executive coaching practice, working with local executives on refining their leadership styles to be more in sync with their personality styles. I'm a firm believer in life balance so I make every effort to spend relatively equal amounts of time playing and working, knowing that I've still got a long way to go before I'm ready to retire and take the slow road through life. It's all about pacing, in my mind, so I try not to rush anywhere.
I write because I love to, and not for any other reason. If my books are helpful to you, that fact is an added bonus, which makes me very happy, but it's not a primary driver. I've been writing since I was little and it's always been a great way for me to indulge and encourage my creative side. Now that I'm not running around the country in search of large mountains to climb and interesting people to meet, I like to climb metaphorical mountains in my mind. Of course, I'll never stop wanting to meet interesting people. That part of me will never change.
My favorite author, currently, is Martha Beck. I love her intellect, honesty and wit. I'd love to hear who your favorite authors are.
Top Customer Reviews
"Through pain and healing we can deepen our compassion, empathy and willingness to serve and to help others. We can also put ourselves back together again, after we've been broken by life, into a new pattern that shines with a more complex and beautiful artistry. Like glass that has been broken into a thousand pieces and transformed into a beautiful stained glass window, we, too, can be magnificently changed by life, with new facets that reflect love and light in more luminescent ways. If we will allow the process to happen, we can be regenerated into far more complex, beautiful human beings through the process of being broken and made whole again."
Merrill is talking about real transformation here. She calls it alchemy, this transfiguration of deep personal damage into a radiant, generative pattern of individual life expression. Shattered stars, some laboring under fear, shame or remorse, take responsibility for their lives and turn into shimmering stars. They become "strong in the broken places and at peace in the midst of their human frailties." And their ripple effects in the world "go on and on like a legacy of love that gets passed down through generations."
Starfish Leaders reminds us that everyone struggles, and that even the best among us sometimes fail and fall apart. More than this, it showcases a few of the infinite ways of remaking ourselves into something better--even when the only ground from which to rebuild is the ash we've burnt down to.Read more ›
The life experiences of five high level acheivers form the structure of her views and remedies...for areas of darkness and dysfunction in their living.She is patient and compassionate allowing the needed change to develop and prosper in each of her patients.She focuses on the ability of people to regenerate back to mindful and joyful living.She skillfully but simply illustrates the aportionment of life to the vital areas of development...allowing balance between them.She provides insights and answers to many personal difficulties..and guides with thought,compassion and affection..for her all to human clients.
It is a life experience transmitted to her readers that points the way onward to balance ,spiritual growth,joy and giving.
The first chapter which includes Rebecca's own story is the most riveting in Starfish Leaders and pulls you straight into a reading experience that you will relish.
I only wish some of the chapters were longer--Merrill spends more time with some characters than others and I kept hoping she would come back to those on whom she spends less time.
If you've been through a difficult experience recently or are facing some formidable obstacles in your life, this hopeful and fresh book will give you courage and direction for your journey. If you're happy as a lark, you'll still benefit from understanding how brokenness and regeneration can transform our methods and motivation for leading.
The five points of regeneration/alchemy that Merrill points to are classic components of wellness. The argument being that to be fully present and fully capable for our work, we must first remember ourselves and our own well being. Authentic leadership means showing up as you are; and to be most effective, we must wake up to our real life challenges, confront them in ourselves, and find a pathway through. Our personal growth effects the quality of our professional success.
This is an important read at an important time. We cannot afford to continue losing ourselves at the expense of our work. Navigating our leadership challenges successfully can be directly impacted by the concepts in "Starfish Leaders."
Most Recent Customer Reviews
Once you get past the "starfish" relativity and understand its meaning, the book takes over and owns you. Read morePublished 13 months ago by dmmjsm
In this touching compilation of short stories, Rebecca Merrill leads the reader on a personal journey of discovery. Read morePublished on August 25, 2011 by Fred Hathaway, Jr
"Rebecca Merrill reaches 20,000 leagues into your soul with an transformative approach for every `arm' of your little ol' starfish life. Read morePublished on July 25, 2011 by George Smart
Rebecca is not only a gifted facilitator, coach and consultant, but she is also a talented author. Her stories of "brokenness and regeneration" are filled with lessons, but are... Read morePublished on March 9, 2011 by MrsYertle
Through these five heartfelt stories, Rebecca Merrill skillfully leads us through the alchemy of suffering and hardship to healing and regeneration. Read morePublished on November 1, 2010 by John Hardman