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Staying True [Kindle Edition]

Jenny Sanford
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BONUS: This edition contains a Staying True discussion guide.

In this candid and compelling memoir, the first lady of South Carolina reveals the private ordeal behind her very public betrayal—and offers inspiration for anyone struggling to keep faith during life’s most trying times.

She’s been a successful investment banker, a mother of four, and the campaign manager for one of American politics’ rising stars—her husband, Mark Sanford of South Carolina, once widely hailed as a possible candidate for president in 2012. Yet to most Americans, Jenny Sanford is best known for the one role she refused to play—that of conventional political spouse standing silently by while her husband went before the media and confessed his infidelity. Instead, she stayed true—to herself, to her faith, and to her highest ideals of parenthood and public service. She chose to let Mark Sanford deal with the embarrassment and political fallout from his own actions while focusing her own efforts privately on raising their children to be men of character, even in the face of the lies their father has told.

In Staying True, Jenny Sanford recalls her shock and anguish upon discovering that her husband was having an affair with a woman in Argentina, and the further pain when she learned—just a day ahead of most Americans—that he had not ended the affair when she believed he had. She reveals the source of her determination to be honest and forthright instead of the victim in the tabloid passion play that gripped the nation in June 2009.
But her story neither begins nor ends with Mark Sanford’s astounding fall from grace. Writing with uncommon candor from a deep well of spiritual strength, Sanford shares personal stories and life lessons from before and after she stepped into the public realm. She recounts the many stresses—as well as the myriad joys—that she experienced on a daily basis while living in the governmental spotlight. (Just try keeping four young boys out of mischief in the governor’s mansion!) And she describes the many ways that the seductions of power can drive apart even the most committed couples.

At every step along her journey, Jenny Sanford has made choices: She gave up her career, moved far from her home state of Illinois, even changed her religious practices. Every choice was a glad concession to harmonious married life and, in some cases, to the support of her husband’s political aspirations. But the one thing she never gave up was her sense of self, her inner moral compass. Her remarkable poise and decency make her a role model for men and women alike. Her story will empower anyone who has fought to maintain independence and integrity—within a marriage or elsewhere in life.

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"Our wedding day, November 4, 1989."
"Campaigning was always a family affair."
"Blake meets President George W. Bush"

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Sanford—the wronged wife of Mark Sanford, disgraced governor of South Carolina, who famously refused to stand by him when his affair came to light—delivers a crisp and affecting reading of her memoir of her family, career, faith, and the very public implosion of her marriage. She's surprisingly relatable and possessed of a very dry wit. When the news of her husband's affair broke, her husband asked her what to say in his first public appearance. She told him, Don't talk about your heart. Watching him sob (carry on in Jenny Sanford's words) during a mea culpa almost completely devoted to matters of his heart, she was surrounded by her posse of friends, one of whom observed, He wasn't hiking the Appalachian trail, he was getting some Argentinean tail. Even if Sanford's piety occasionally finds best expression in platitudes, she turns out a memorable listen; after a while her detachment and the edge to her voice seem less like drawbacks than signs of her admirable reserve and steeliness of character. A Ballantine hardcover. (Feb.)
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  • File Size: 3084 KB
  • Print Length: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Ballantine Books (February 5, 2010)
  • Sold by: Random House LLC
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0036S0FAS
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160 of 185 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Darned If I Know February 7, 2010
First, the good news. This book is available at a generally low price for a hardback and it is a fast, fast read. The ghostwriter and editor did a fantastic job in insuring that the prose never got too purple and the sentences stayed blunt and to the point. As reads go, it gets no easier.

Second, I have no idea why on earth I read this book. Although I live in South Carolina, I have to admit that I have never had any feelings about the Sanfords one way or the other. Until the "Hiking the Trail" incident, I thought he was a rather colorless but efficient executive, and Jenny Sanford a good public speaker. That's about all. And I did approve of her refusing to play the "martyred wife" when he disclosed his affair, choosing instead to go into semi-seclusion at the family beach home with her four sons and initially eschew voracious local media coverage. But when I finished this book, if half of it is true, I concluded that the title should not be "Staying True" as opposed to "The Weirdness of What Happens Behind Closed Doors." And, just to satisfy myself, I wrote a friend of mine who has been active in precinct level Republican politics in South Carolina for a long, long time. I was very surprised that he was less than flattering about both of the Sanfords, which, oddly enough, lent a certain credibility to what I read, even as he admits that he was disgusted by the whole affair and expressed the wish, in no uncertain terms, that the story would just "go away."

Jenny Sanford's biography reveals a tough, genteel woman of old New England aristocracy, about as blue-blooded as one can be. But as she tells her story about the failure of her marriage, I had to wonder why on earth she remained in it so long, something I don't think she explains very readily.
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51 of 62 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars SHE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER !!!! February 8, 2010
By Babs
When he left her the car and instructions on how to reach the house in South Carolina, that is when she should have headed north on the very next plane home.
Instead, she lost all sense of herself by marrying this man.
He is a manipulator and a control freak. She can talk all about how he is earnest in his beliefs for this country, but that is not the case.
He sees people as a useful tool for himself and a means to an end.
I think Jenny was a push over to all of HIS wants and needs.
The last straw for Jenny was the tan lines this jerk found in Argentina. I would not be at all surprised that the Argentina tan lines were not the first time he ever saw tan lines in this marriage.
I am just suprised she stayed in this so called marriage for 20 years. He told her what to do and she did what she was told. The old excuse that she did it for her boys has been used way too many times.
It would have been a different story if she would have stood up to him and let him know exactly how she felt about many situations he put her in and many things she was told to do by him. Love can blind a person and she sure was blinded throughout this marriage.
I would be curious to know just how much quality time he spent with his sons. Since he was hardly home I don't see what kind of father he could possibly be to the boys. His TRIP to his soul mate was on Father's Day weekend.
Throughout the entire book she describes his penny pinching ways. The diamond necklace was a shocker to me. What kind of a man and husband would do that to his wife? She put up with a bunch of BS from him since the very beginning of the marriage. She was a very educated woman that had tremendous self esteem and he tore that from her.
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22 of 27 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars don't bother March 16, 2010
this autobiography of a long suffering, very long suffering, spouse
is so boring it can be read in 10 minutes if you skip to about the end and finally breathe with relief that she has cut him free (he was going anyway! Jenny Sanford's constant forgiveness, coupled with her trust in the Lord, is unbearable to read over and over and over again as are all the tributes to Mark and how wonderfully supportive she has been to the "wonderful" man. Either she wrote the book to try to get him back as she extols all his virtues ad nauseum, or she's just not capable or willing to feel the anger that would have led her to leave years before. She is also the perfect mother with perfect friends and parents. Frankly, although I deplore Mark Sanford's actions, he may have found her a little too perfect...
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50 of 65 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful read- Inspiring Story February 5, 2010
I picked up this book this morning at the bookstore and tore through it! It is an incredible story of strength and integrity. It's sad, happy, romantic, heart-wrenching, and also quite a bit juicy! But, most importantly, it's a story of inspiration. Jenny exemplifies a mature, grounded woman who chose to stay true to herself rather than play victim to her husband's utter moral and spiritual failures. I also enjoyed the pictures inside the book. Regardless of her role as First Lady, South Carolina is blessed to have such a iconic woman!Staying True
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Great for Mothers with Daughters! February 19, 2012
I'm not sure why I read this book but I'm glad I did. The first sentence in Chapter One tells you why he cheated.

EVERY MOTHER should have their daughters read it because this is NOT love, far from it. No man treats a woman this way, he honors her, cherishes her, cares for her, protects her and I found none of that in this book. Mark Sanford did his best to tell Jenny that she wasn't worth it and she agreed for some reason?! Then wrote a book about the fact that she has no self-worth?! He buys her a diamond necklace but takes it back, which is fine but replace it with something else even if it was noodles he strung together himself, it would show her he cared... he did none of that and she stood by her man?! He forgot her birthday, we don't hear anything about emails, love notes, flowers, the fact that she can't wait to see him, misses him horribly, wants to take a trip alone with him, surprises him with a romantic visit, talks dirty to him, etc. He treated her like a business partner from the beginning because that's all she was. What's absent is love and real emotion and I was left wondering if she was emotionally bankrupt or passionless? She talks about his stinginess like it's flattering to them both then brags about support from her sisters and girlfriends. Where were they when she met him and why didn't they care enough about her to tell her to kick him to the curb? Somehow, stinginess, selfishness and being a dog screamed LOVE? Then she tries to pretty him up by talking of his honor?

The fact that he couldn't honor her as a woman from day one was a pretty big clue he wasn't an honorable man.

I think Mark is a cad for what he did to her. He lived his life 'duty bound' and did everything as 'service' for his family.
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4.0 out of 5 stars I liked the fact that Jenny Sanford did not use the ...
I liked the fact that Jenny Sanford did not use the book to plea for pity. She has taken responsibility for herself, her decisions, and her children, and she "stayed true"... Read more
Published 9 days ago by doris
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
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5.0 out of 5 stars ... hand knowledge of all this but Jenny did a beautiful job of...
I live in SC so have first hand knowledge of all this but Jenny did a beautiful job of protecting her boys and herself from her silly husband.
Published 3 months ago by Millie Kaat
5.0 out of 5 stars Perspectives from a Governor's wife
This is the autobiography of the wife of South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford. Her father and uncle was part owners of the Milwaukee Braves baseball team. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Leon Czikowsky
4.0 out of 5 stars If you like biographies, you'll love this book
Very interesting read. Well written. It exposes a side of Mark Sanford that no one knew but his wife. If you like biographies, you'll love this book.
Published 5 months ago by Donna L. Coleman
2.0 out of 5 stars it's not easy to accept the end of the marriage
I tried to keep an open mind about this woman. When one has been married to somebody for 20 years and had four children with him, it's not easy to accept the end of the marriage. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Judith
2.0 out of 5 stars mindless wandering
This is a poorly organized and pointless book. Quotes from the bible and public figures are thrown in willy nilly.
Published 6 months ago by Loretta Donovan
1.0 out of 5 stars Complete nutjob
Judging from recent info, don't support this lunatic. She's officially BSC and actively preventing her children's father from having any involvement in their life, solely because... Read more
Published 6 months ago by nattyg078
4.0 out of 5 stars Wanted More About Jenny's Career/Plans (Pre-Mark)
I purchased this book because I was curious about Jenny Sanford. Jenny had done so much for her husband's career, and I wanted to know more about her. Read more
Published 8 months ago by M. Liu
5.0 out of 5 stars Staying True
I would recommend this book to friends-very interesting!!! It was a very easy read and finsihed it with in two days!!
Published 11 months ago by Marjorie Montgomery
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