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Michele Howe (Author)
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December 2008
Still Going It Alone addresses issues common to women who have been at the task of single parenting for some seasons. These unique women now face the prospect of sending their children off to college, to a distant career site, or to be married and must continue to fulfill their ever-altering parental role. Moms with grown children also realize the need for wise financial planning and career re-assessment. Each single mom understands they may never re-marry, that growing old and retiring alone is a very real possibility. For many, the future looms in uncertainty. This resource book will provide practical hope and continually redirect women to the source of all comfort, God and His word.

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Howe (a reviewer for PW) wrote her first book, Going It Alone, for newly divorced moms who faced raising their young children alone. Now she helps mothers take steps farther down the road as children leave the nest and begin families of their own. It is my hope and prayer that this book offers single moms a safe place—a community—where they find rest and renewed hope, strength, and shelter, the author says. She addresses many unique challenges facing single moms as they enter a new phase of life: an empty house, helping young adult children set goals and building new relationships with them, in-laws, new career options, finances, grandparenting and more. Her chapters on caring for elderly parents and aging are especially helpful. Howe laces her book with real-life stories and adds hands-on action steps in each chapter's Ready, Set, Adjust! sections. Chapters also include a prayer and final thought taken from a pertinent book. Howe targets an audience not often aimed at and hits it dead on. (Dec.)
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About the Author

Michele Howe is a manuscript review editor for the Christian Communicator and a copy writer for New Growth Press. She has reviewed books for Publishers Weekly, FaithfulReader.com, Aspiring Retail, TeenReads.com, KidsRead.com and Foreword Magazine, and has published over 1000 articles/reviews. Her work has appeared in Midwest Living, Radiant, Discipleship Journal, Christian Single, Christianity Today, Group, Virtue, Christian Parenting Today, and Parentlife. She writes a women's lifestyle column, Embracing Life's Curves, and also writes an inspirational column, "Prayers to Restore the Soul,." Michele has published eight books for women including: Going It Alone: Meeting the Challenges of Being a Single Mom, Prayers for Homeschool Moms, Prayers for New and Expecting Moms, Prayers of Comfort and Strength, Prayers to Nourish a Woman's Heart, Successful Single Moms, and Pilgrim Prayers for Single Mothers.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 126 pages
  • Publisher: Hendrickson Pub (December 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 159856241X
  • ISBN-13: 978-1598562415
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,482,476 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Michele Howe is a reviewer for Publishers Weekly, FaithfulReader.com, Retailers + Resources, Foreword Magazine, TeenReads.com, KidReads.com, among many others national and international publications. She has published over 1300 reviews/articles and has been featured on numerous radio shows across the country speaking on topics such as parenting and a diverse range of women's health issues. Her work has been published in MORE, FIRST for Women, Good Housekeeping, SheKnows.com, BettyConfidential, HelloWorld, Christianity Today, Discipleship Journal, Midwest Living, Parentlife, Fullfill, Christian Single, Single Parent Family, Focus on the Family, and Connections. She also does copywriting and manuscript reviewing for several publishing houses including New Growth Press.

Michele is the author of eleven books for women. Her book, "Going It Alone: Meeting the Challenges of Being a Single Mom" (Hendrickson Publishers), provided hope and practical helps for single moms new to parenting solo. She has also authored "Pilgrim Prayers for Single Mothers" (Pilgrim Press) and a third book of helps for single mothers titled, "Successful Single Moms" (Pilgrim Press.) In addition to these resources for single mothers, Michele wrote four separate titles combining real life stories with inspirational prayer retreats. These titles published by (Jossey-Bass) include: "Prayers for Homeschooling Moms," "Prayers to Nourish a Woman's Heart," "Prayers of Comfort and Strength" and "Prayers for New and Expecting Moms."

Her newest books include a follow-up resource to "Going It Alone" titled, "Still Going It Alone: Mothering with Faith and Finesse Once the Children Have Grown" (Hendrickson Publishers) and "Burdens Do a Body Good: Meeting Life's Challenges with Strength and Soul" co-authored with orthopedic surgeon, Dr. Christopher A. Foetisch (Hendrickson Publishers). Just published, "Prescription for Life: Making Meaningful Choices, Building a Healthy Life" also co-authored with Dr. Foetisch and upon which Michele bases her new weekly radio health segment of the same name.

In addition to her article and books writing, Michele writes a weekly women's lifestyle and single parenting column at Bizymoms and contributes to the health column on BlissfullyDomestic.com. She is also featured in the new Single & Parenting Resource Video Series as a parenting expert. In line with her passion for working with single parents, Michele's resources offer encouragement to women of all ages by challenging them to exercise their combination of strengths, skills, and life wisdom in pursuit of a healthy and fulfilling lifestyle. Recognizing that life is often difficult, women can learn how to recognize (and find solace in) significant life-markers and by so doing, acquire the strength to embrace their daily challenges.


 

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Lot of Food for Thought for Every Mother and is Well Worth Reading, June 10, 2009
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This review is from: Still Going It Alone: Mothering With Faith and Finesse When the Children Have Grown (Paperback)
STILL GOING IT ALONE is an ideological book providing direction and guidance to parents as well as narratives of the real-life experiences of many mothers. Inspirational sections at the end of each chapter, titled "Every Mother's Prayer" and "Thought for the Day," offer Christian-based spiritual guidance. Author Michele Howe tackles the many issues related to raising older children and acclimating to the inevitable change of the empty nest, particularly in the case of the single mom. Howe approaches parenthood as a privilege and a multi-faceted responsibility that never ends, and illustrates beautifully the bond between parent and child at any stage of life and the value of family in every mother's legacy.

The best thing about this book is that it offers insightful, ethical, sound advice for dealing with a variety of situations in life, and the personal narratives are real-life experiences that each of us can relate to and smile at. I would expect these stories to hold great humor and irony for many moms who have been through similar experiences with their own kids. And for those who have yet to experience them, we can only laugh, try to gain some wisdom and hope for the best.

One mother's son, for example, drops out of college after losing his hard-earned scholarship because of simple lack of direction. He takes out student loans that he has yet to pay back, but then decides to abandon all education or job plans and dash off to Europe with his buddies to do who knows what while his friends go to school. One can only imagine the angst of his poor mom as he glides through young adulthood seemingly oblivious to reality. This particular mom chooses to kick him out and make him pay his own way rather than foot the bill for the ridiculous trip while he puts his life on hold.

One mom who wishes to teach her adult daughters about the responsibilities and challenges of marriage decides to start a weekly role-playing session with them, where they act out the role of a married couple while splurging on fudge ice cream. Another mom whose daughter was suddenly off to college went to clean out her room and found that she felt empty and saddened by all the seemingly discarded items strewn about haphazardly. However, upon looking more closely at her daughter's various possessions dating from young childhood all the way to adulthood, she gained a larger perspective of a childhood well spent and a job well done, and, with that, peace and fulfillment.

This well-written book is unique in that it is based on an ideology of hopefulness and acceptance in the face of adversity, focusing on substance and reason rather than emotional affectation. It is written for a specialized audience, particularly Christian single mothers, and offers a distinctive spiritual background to parental approaches. Howe does an excellent job of exploring many subjects that people don't commonly think about, like caring for an aging parent or how to deal with your in-laws. STILL GOING IT ALONE offers a lot of food for thought for every mother and is well worth reading.

--- Reviewed by Melanie Smith
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Wise, Warm & Wonderful, January 17, 2009
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Dr. David Frisbie (Rancho Santa Fe, CA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Still Going It Alone: Mothering With Faith and Finesse When the Children Have Grown (Paperback)
This book is unique in the literature of single parenting: The first book we've read (in 25 years as family counselors, specializing in single parents and divorced adults) that talks about single parenting AFTER the kids are grown and gone.

Author Michele Howe is well known to us from her previous books (you can find them right here on Amazon!) that are excellent resources for any single parent. Now she has created a brand new book that serves a niche market NO ONE has served before.

"Still Going It Alone" is wise, warm and wonderful. Here's the kind of candid and sincere advice you might get from a close personal friend, if you had one, who was experiencing the empty-nest syndrome as a single mom. She'd confide in you, enlighten you and encourage you --- which is just exactly what this book does for the reader.

This is a five-star book and would make a wonderful gift for any single mom you know who has grown (or almost-grown) children to care for.

Dr. David & Lisa Frisbie
The Center for Marriage & Family Studies
Authors of ten books, including:
Raising Great Kids on Your Own: A Guide and Companion for Every Single Parent
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Something for midlife moms!, January 17, 2009
This review is from: Still Going It Alone: Mothering With Faith and Finesse When the Children Have Grown (Paperback)
Finally a book for that large segment of midlife moms who are still parenting but their children are older. Most books address parenting young children, but Michele has hit the mark with a large and growing audience. This is much needed and welcome by us who find these years daunting. Michele writes with a sweet spirit and touches the issues moms face with practical and Biblical advice.
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