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How to Stop Being a Doormat and Get the Love You Want (EPIC Dating, Love & Relationships Book 1) [Kindle Edition]

Dina Z Colada
4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)

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Book Description

Hi, I’m Dina Z Colada . . .

I’m a nationally known romance and relationship expert who’s helped tens-of-thousands of women (and men) with juicy advice and tips on how to have EPIC Dating, Love and Relationships.

I have cracked the code to go from feeling like a doormat to becoming an EPIC empowered woman or man. . . .

You will learn the methods from a woman who was once a doormat (but not for long, because she developed these super powerful tools).

There are also ancient methods in the pages of this book that have helped thousands if not millions of people.

The combination of the old techniques combined with the new ones are, well . . . EPIC!

* Even a “Doormat” who will sleep with a man thinking this will get her the love she wants, will be transformed into an EPIC woman who know exactly how to be herself and feel confident enough to say NO.

* You will learn the 14 things about the dirtiest F-Word of all, and the havoc it will wreak on your life and how these things will turn you into a doormat.

Here is what else you will learn in this amazing book . . .

• You will discover the symptoms of Doormat-itis from a specially developed Quiz.

• You will receive the epic action starter kit to help you find out how you got to this doormatesque phase in your life.

• This book is tiny but powerful. It is EPIC. It is RAW and you WILL get dirty. But don’t be afraid. The tools in the pages will help you get through any rough patches.

• A simple trick you can do to with your heart to stop your bad doormat behavior.

If you are single, dating or in a serious relationship you can stop being a doormat wherever you are right now. Today is the beginning of the rest of your EPIC life.

Product Details

  • File Size: 2090 KB
  • Print Length: 43 pages
  • Publisher: EPIC Love Publishing; 1 edition (December 5, 2013)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B00G5WZ1KQ
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Lending: Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #382,725 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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3.0 out of 5 stars Not for men! June 15, 2014
By Tesla
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She is writing only from women's perspective. Even talking about your own dress.

The information she is giving are good, but nothing revolutionary. She makes kind of funny statement call it doormat'itis as a disease. She claims it is caused by fear. Then she explains we need to set boundaries and respect ourselves. Then she relates to Lousie Hay and her ideas of affirmations (which I used for years and they are decent). And that is it.

Frankly I was disappointed by the book. Did not learn much. Except that there are women that are so crazy about pleasing their men. If I only had that kind of women who would please me like that I would not only reciprocate but also be the happiest men on earth.

Overall, I did not learn much.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great relationship advice inside. November 17, 2013
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This is a book that has principles that can work for both men and women. The primary audience is women, however the author does a great job of letting men know how it can apply to their lives. What this book really did a good job of reminding me of is how important it is to always make sure our spouse knows how important they are. This book really speaks to the emotional pain women can have as a result of the things men can do. Seeing this helps remind me to make sure I do my best NOT to do those things so I can always show my spouse how much I love her.

Overall, I feel this is a good book that men and women can benefit from.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Love the Book! November 15, 2013
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Love the book! I am in a happy relationship but bought it to help my daughter and really learned a lot.
I loved Dina's casual style and the way to presented the information.
I already told my daughter she needs to read it!:-)
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5.0 out of 5 stars A very workable plan November 13, 2013
By Vickie
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There are many women who sell themselves short by allowing themselves to be used and taken advantage of by men. While there are many reasons for this, most have no idea how to change the abuse they experience.

In Dina Z. Colada's book on How to Stop Being a Doormat, she walks the reader through the symptoms of what it means to allow yourself to be taken advantage of, and how to break free of the abuse. (Dina invites men to read her book as well.)

If you are looking for encouragement and hope to break free from allowing yourself to be used, I highly recommend this book. It is easy to read and to implement the principles she presents.
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5.0 out of 5 stars such an eye opener! November 10, 2013
By cd
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great read for many, especially women, single ladies this is a must read not to mention I love Dina's humour! best book for a sunday afternoon :) keep writing Dina!
thank you!
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The style is cute and funny and I am sure the advice given is very helpful to the misfortunes who seem to gravitate to relationships that end up being losing propositions. My only criticism: I feel the advice is one dimensional and that the subject requires more in depth psychological analysis to really cover the subject properly. None the less I am pleased to have the book in my collection and intend to offer the book to my daughter who tends to gravitate to the types of relationships as depicted in the book. Thank you Dina Z Colada!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Would recommend! November 7, 2013
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Full of interesting tidbits and exercises- would recommend this book to anyone who is involved in the dating and relationship scene
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5.0 out of 5 stars No Nonsense November 7, 2013
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If you want a relationship book that tells you you're not to blame or that lets you off the hook, this isn't for you. This is a no nonsense book that forces you to take a close look at your participation in a relationship. Tough, but sensitive. The author draws upon her personal experience, so there is no lecturing. A good contribution to the genre.

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More About the Author

Dina Z Colada is a dating who helps people have EPIC Dating, Love & Relationships. She teaches and writes with a saucy sweet flair that will keep you entertained while you read. She specializes in helping people overcome doormat-itis and creates fabulous online dating profiles that attract romance and love.

Her newest book "How to Stop Being a Doormat and Get the Love You Want," is now out on Kindle along with her first book "Meditations and Affirmations in 3 Simple Steps: My Meditations Stations in AM, FM and OM."

She is also a co--author in paperback book with some of her favorite authors "In The Spirit of Success: Inspiring Stories From Entrepreneurs Around the World," with Deepak Chopra, Esther and Jerry Hicks, Wayne Dyer, Sandy Forster, and Neale Donald Walsch is also available in paperback and harcover.

Dina lives in mountains of West Virginia with her amazing son, and her Chihuahua Paco. She is an expert at Your Tango and has been featured on Yahoo Shine!, The Stir, College Candy, Care2 and many others.

You can connect and learn more about her work at


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