Stories of Adoption: Loss and Reunion (Family & Childcare) [Paperback]

Eric Blau (Author)

Product Details

• Paperback: 132 pages
• Publisher: NewSage Press; 1st edition (February 14, 1993)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0939165171
• ISBN-13: 978-0939165179
• Product Dimensions: 10 x 7.1 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,719,275 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A Window Into the World of Adoption, September 28, 1998

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Blair "blair52" (USA) - See all my reviews

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Eric Blau has done a superb job in introducing his readers to the often heart-breaking world of relinquishment, search and reunion. Touching insights are given into the lives of birthmothers and adoptees alike: the pain that some birthmothers still feel years after relinquishment is palpable; the isolation and shame that many felt while living in a time when being an unwed mother was a disgrace; the lack of support from family and friends; and the lies they were told about how easily they would be able to get on with their lives. Blau balances these stories with those of other birthmothers who are not so emotionally attached -- who feel that they have made the right decision and have moved on with their lives, and never looked back. Through Blau's deftly handled interviews the reader gains fascinating insights into the lives of adoptees, some of whom never knew they were adopted until adulthood; others who struggle with mixed race adoptions, and finally, those who search but will likely never find. Blau compliments the writing with black and white photographs, some of which are often stark and revealing. This is an excellent book, particularly good for sharing with others who have no insights to adoption and who have expressed an interest to learn more, but not to "study" the subject. As a reunited birthfather, I highly recommend it.

12 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars No filler, no psycho-babble. Voices from the triad speak out, August 31, 1999

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This review is from: Stories of Adoption: Loss and Reunion (Family & Childcare) (Paperback)

Photographer and author Eric Blau does the greatest service to all members of the adoption triad. With only simple introductions, Blau allows the adoptees, birthparents and adoptive parents the forum to tell their stories, relay their feelings, and share their worlds. The b&w photos are as telling as the text; some are particularly haunting yet poignant. Of particular note is the inclusion of several birthfather tales, usually absent from similiar volumes. It is an even-handed look into the good and bad of adoption, and allows the reader to make up his or her own mind without preaching any agenda (ditto the forward by Annette Baran). The only book I've come across that is perhaps suitable for non-triad members to read in the hopes of grasping what the rest of us have dealt with.

0 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Stories of Adoption: Loss and Reunion (Family & Daycare), February 13, 2011

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Book arrived later than I expected according to the date I was told it shipped out. But that has nothing to do with seller, just my expectations. I tried to cancel but was too late. I am not sure this is a proper book for me and my needs. The word "daycare in the tittle is what scares me as I am not interested in that factor at all.
They did offer a return, but after all the money considered, it would not be worth my while to return it so I shall keep it, read it and who knows I may find some very usefl info in it. I will post again after I have read the book!