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3.0 out of 5 stars
Listen to Autism!, December 11, 2010
This review is from: Succeeding with Autism: Hear My Voice (Paperback)
Michael is the young man featured in this book. He displayed severely autistic behavior as a child and his language skills were delayed. Fortunately he was enrolled in a local school and had a lot of support services. He saw therapists for the majority of his early years.
Even with the support he received, Michael's behavior remained impulsive and erratic. He also had major meltdowns and violent episodes. Sadly, he served a 2-month hospital sentence when he was 9. The experience could not have been anything but traumatic. Michael describes being bound in sheets when he had meltdowns; he said that the same behavior that earned him a 20-minute time-out at home and in class netted him a 4-5 hour lockdown in the hospital. To make matters worse, he was not allowed to have visitors on days his behavior was out of control. It sounded like a truly heinous experience and Michael even saw his life as being before and after the sentence he served at 9. This was plainly the demarcating line in his life.
Meltdowns were an issue Michael spent years trying to control. He had a major meltdown at the end of his own Bar Mitzvah after a change in plans. Michael's behavior did not suggest Asperger's, which is the spectrum partner to autism. His behavior hollered autism and, over time, his autistic behaviors became less obvious. He had cognitively learned how to conceal many of them.
Michael became a brother when he was 6 and his relationship with his younger brother Scot remained rocky. Both sons as well as their teachers and therapists are interviewed and their voices flesh out and round out the experience of coping with autism. Scot, in addition to coping with his brother had ADD to contend with. He and Michael were vastly different in personality and interests. Unlike Michael, who was very introverted, Scot was an outgoing personality who could not understand why Michael had such lackadaisical grooming habits and little interest in meeting peers.
The boys would part company over the years; when their parents got divorced, Scot stayed with their mother while Michael moved in with their father. From the telling, the arrangement sounded like it worked well.
In time, Michael was able to mask his autistic tendencies in public. He graduated from college and, at last count was a mathematics instructor at a nearby school.
This book was, for the most part interesting, but lagged in parts. The best message it has to offer aside from how well a person with autism did academically is that it brings home the reminder to listen to people with autism. Being heard is very empowering.
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