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It Sucked and Then I Cried: How I Had a Baby, a Breakdown, and a Much Needed Margarita [Hardcover]

Heather Armstrong
3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (152 customer reviews)


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Book Description

March 24, 2009
To the dedicated millions who can’t get enough of Heather’s unique style and hilarious stories on her hugely popular blog, there’s little she doesn’t share about her daily life as a recovering Mormon, wife of a charming geek, lover of awful television, and stay-at-home mom to five-year-old Leta, newborn Marlo, and two willful dogs..

Now, Heather shares, with biting wit and unrelenting honesty, all the other minor details of pregnancy and motherhood that no one cares to mention—like anxiety, constipation, and postpartum depression. There are lonely days, sleepless nights, and endless screaming. There’s the boredom that comes with caring for someone whose primary means of communication is through her bowels. And there’s the heart-swelling joy and utterly irresistible and totally redeemable fresh baby smell that makes it all worthwhile..

It Sucked and Then I Cried is a brave cautionary tale about crossing over that invisible line to the other side (the parenting side), where everything changes, and it can get pretty unpleasant. But more importantly, it’s a celebration of a love so big it threatens to make your heart explode. .

--This text refers to the Paperback edition.


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About the Author

Heather B. Armstrong is an American blogger who resides in Salt Lake City, Utah. She and husband Jon Armstrong have a daughter and two dogs: Former Congressman Henry "Buck" Chucklesworth, called Chuck, and Dame Eleanor Ritzford-Fitzsimons Puffs, a.k.a Coco.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Gallery Books (March 24, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1416936017
  • ISBN-13: 978-1416936015
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.3 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (152 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #736,351 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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51 of 54 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Disappointed Fan May 8, 2009
Format:Hardcover
I'm a huge fan of Dooce but I couldn't finish this book. Between the CONSTANT RANDOM CAPITAL LETTERS and the fact that it was basically her blog, just updated to be in past tense, this book was overall a disappointment. I was really hoping for something more from Dooce. I know she does the capital letters thing on her blog but I had hoped she could do her humour and keep her voice without resorting to typical blog format.

Basically, if you're a newcomer to Dooce and missed all the drama surrounding Leta's birth, this book might interest you. But if you don't want to pay for it, just go peek through Dooce's archives - it's all right there.
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83 of 94 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars *shrugs shoulders* March 28, 2009
By Jana
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
Heather Armstrong, proprietor of Dooce.com is a funny and fantastic writer, but this fell really flat for me and left me truly, truly disappointed (even though she loves Morrissey). And although I knew many of her blog entries would be included in the book (duh, they would have to), she doesn't really delve into anything particular to give a NEW reader true insight; almost like she skimmed over cruicial elements of depression, PPD, her real past with said depression. I think she rushed to have it published.

If you don't read her blog, this would still be a funny, sweet book, but I really wanted to learn more about her-not just a reiteration of the blog.
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69 of 79 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars A little uneven... March 30, 2009
Format:Hardcover
I must preface this by saying that I am a huge Dooce fan. I have been following Heather for years, and feel like I know her family personally. The book is well written, however feels very uneven. In one breath she's talking about lack of sleep leading to generally melting down, and in the next she's out shopping, visiting family, and writing Leta her monthly "I love you" letters. (Which btw - I also do for my daughter...) I find Heather an amazing writer - quirky, smart, caustic... But this was either poorly organized, or badly edited. I guess I expected more.

In my opinion, the best part of the book was when she talked about Jon and how he helped her through her depressions. They obviously have a strong marriage - and that was the one part of the book that didn't feel even slightly embellished. Honest, raw, and loving.
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87 of 110 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Thought I'd enjoy it more. March 24, 2009
Format:Hardcover
I gotta say, if you've ever read her blog, which I have, this is more like a compilation book. I guess I was hoping for some newer material or else something a bit more inspiring than "creatively rearranged" blog entries. Darn.
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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Fell short of expectations August 1, 2009
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book could have been so much better. The topic of pregnancy, depression and life are all of great interest but the book felt rushed and skimmed over the critical points....particulary depression. For someone who has never experienced the trials of pregnancy, depression and post partum depression, this could be an acceptable surface read. But it lacks depth that could have, should have been there, but the author just didn't make it happen. I kept reading, hoping to get to the whole purpose of the story, but it never happened. It's like a movie that has no boiling point and, ultimately, no resolution. The author does not paint a pretty picture of being a mother, even after she is medicated with a cocktail of anti-depressants and anti-anxiety drugs. This is the best blog on the internet? Seriously?
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39 of 48 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Good read March 24, 2009
By D.K.A.
Format:Hardcover
I'm not a reader of Dooce.com, so I can't comment on whether this is regurgitated blog material, but I have to say, I found this an enjoyable, honest and quick read. I'll admit I hadn't heard of Heather Armstrong until a few weeks ago and while I am suspicious of blog to book deals, I was pleasantly surprised by how enjoyable I found the book.

I am not a parent, so it may be strange for me to read this, but a few of my friends have become parents in the last year (I'm 27, so the baby makin' has commenced among my group of buddies). I really found it refreshing that she doesn't try to paint pregnancy and motherhood as sunshine and rainbows and preach about how her child is just the best thing to ever happen in the history of the world, because in reality, over a stolen sip of wine, my friends are a lot more like Heather than they are those people on the Baby Shows that populate TLC.

The writing itself is not bad. If it's easy to read, then I'm A-ok with it! There are some authors (blog to book authors) like Jen Lancaster who I find just too darn quippy, and others (stephanie klein) whose style is really disjointed. She tends to jump back and forth in time and place (not very gracefully) and her books actually do read like blog posts, culled together at times. But I didn't find that at all with this book. It might be thanks to an incredible editor and if that's the case then Heather has lucked out and if not, more power to her.

Overall I enjoyed the book. She speaks about her emotions and a time in her life where very serious and exciting and devastating things are happening, and she still seems approachable, relatable and not like she is taking herself so seriously. There's no self aggrandizing and no "i just feel soooooo much, look at my pain! relate to my pain!
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15 of 17 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Disappointing August 4, 2009
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
I am a big fan of [...], and was especially fascinated by her blog's account of postpartum depression (even though I've never had a baby), but the book bored me and left me bereft of compassion for her suffering. I kept thinking, "Good lord, woman, your baby's missing sock is neither interesting nor urgent. Get a sense of perspective and an editor."
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars This book was meant for me
Heather Armstrong was speaking to me the whole time. I love her brutal honesty and how hilarious she is. I'm so glad I read this.
Published 13 days ago by Kirsten
5.0 out of 5 stars Shouldn't have put off buying this one...
I'd heard and read so much about this that I opted not to buy it. The word was it just copied from the blog, but those words were not true. Read more
Published 1 month ago by lee keown
5.0 out of 5 stars Babies are no luaghing matter...unless you're Heather Armstrong!
There's a reason she has the most popluar blog on earth, the woman can write! She will captivate you (if you're human) and amuse, entertain, enlighten and hit you right in your... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Aunty OG
2.0 out of 5 stars :o/
This book was kind of boring, I am sad to report I wasn't able to finsh it. I really wish I would've been able to, I was reading it while dealing with my own struggles with being a... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Jennifer McMurrain
3.0 out of 5 stars Not a kindred soul
I had trouble identifying with the author. Her reactions to new motherhood seemed immature, even making allowances for her mental illness.
Published 4 months ago by A. C. Griffiths
4.0 out of 5 stars Quick and Engaging Read!
I am a 6+ year follower of Heather Armstrong's blog (dooce.com) and enjoy her writing style and content immensely! I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in motherhood.
Published 4 months ago by Elly_4s
3.0 out of 5 stars Baby Blog AHOY!
It started out as an interesting, but then lost steam after she has the baby. I found it hard to be interested in anything about her wonder child. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Garland Griever
1.0 out of 5 stars What is going on
Terrible terrible book. Poorly written. She is just a narcissist. Sad anyone buys her stuff. It is hard to get through. Read more
Published 13 months ago by Lover of good reads
4.0 out of 5 stars Good and Not so good...
I read the book because I wanted to read about another woman who suffered from a postpartum mood disorder, as I have twice.... It was funny. Read more
Published 19 months ago by alison
5.0 out of 5 stars Humanity in the Humor
Heather Armstrong has power over her words. Her story is well-known on dooce.com and while her struggles with post-partum depression have all been told on her blog, her candid... Read more
Published 21 months ago by S. Teller
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I second wanting a book tour in Florida. You know she's gotta be dying to come back to Florida right about now!

I've been reading Heather's blog off and on for a good 6+ years now. I LOVE her voice so I absolutely can't wait to read her book. And I just adore her crudeness--she's HILARIOUS!

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Jan 9, 2009 by L. M. Blanco |  See all 3 posts
Go Dooce!!!!!!
Not jealous. I just hate her.
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