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72 of 73 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
One of the best self help books. Way under-rated,
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
I have a library of over 300 personal development and consider this as one of the very best. I constantly refer back to it since buying it over ten years ago.SuperSelf shows you the person you have to be. It shows you how to flatten your fears and become more productive. I was hesitant to believe the claim "of doubling your personal effectiveness" but found that was indeed the case, I doubled my personal effectiveness and then some. In chapter 1-Where you is, is where you is Givens states that where you are is an okay place to be but where you are going is entirely up to you. You can create your own destiny. Mr. Givens talks about the three time zones; the past, the present and the future and goes on to say that your only point of power is in the present moment. In chapter 2-Playing to Win: The Ballpark Principle Givens explains how to win with other people even if you don't like the rules. In chapter 3-Trying is Lying Mr. Givens explains the difference between success and failure. Concerning failure Givens explains "Failure is the refusal to establish a plan and work toward it's acomplishment regardless of the obstacles." Failure is simply the refusal to establish goals or objectives in your life and to work toward their achievement. "Talk to people who have neither goals nor the motivation to succeed" says Givens "and you'll find that their lives have no excitement, no purpose." "To succeed" says Givens, "You will constantly find yourself sailing uncharted waters, doing things you have never done before, buut if you want anymore from life than mediocrity, then that's where you'll have to go." Givens also blows a hole through common programming such as it doesn't matter if we win or not, just as long as we try hard. "Trying is lying." exclaims Givens. "When striving to achive your goals, there is no such thing as trying." is one of Givens mantra's. Givens also suggests using near misses that you are off course, not that you have failed. In Chapter 4-Devloping Your Blueprint offers 5 steps that make up your blueprint or life plan. These include: 1) Dreams list "A full 50% of accomplishing what you desire in life" Givens tells us "And most important, enjoying the experience---is dependent on how well you have drawn up your blueprint." Givens goes on to state that if you haven't achieved what you want in life it's not because of a lack of ability, it's because of a lack of planning. In chapter 5-Discovering Your Dreams and then realigning those dreams with your core values. Interesting is that Givens mentions two dreams that he gave up; one was to walk on the wing of an airplane and walking the full length of the Shara Desert from east to west. After careful consideration, Givens relates that these dreams were not practical so took them off his list. "Defining what you are after is 50 percent of the battle in getting there." says Givens. But Givens also warns; "Accelerating your life by setting goals also accelerates but does not create the problems and setbacks that you'll encounter." Here is where most people get buried. They set a goal, encounter a reversal and then quit. SuperSelf is split up into 3 sections, 22 chapters and over 300 pages of good, powerful information. Other points that Givens makes that I believe stand out are not treating your family members as second class citizens, keeping agreements, doing discipline, managing the mundane, handling talkers and dumpers, fighting fatique and handling stress. While I loved Mr. Givens financial books, I truly believe that SuperSelf is by far, Givens best work and a must read for anyone who wants success.
65 of 67 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
I'm more in control of my time,
By A Customer
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
The strategy that had the most benefit for me was to "Hire Out mundane Jobs" and stopping those "Honeydo errands" You know, our spouses say; "Honey can you do this or do that?" You hate to refuse, what do I do? I hire out. I don't cut the grass, run to the store or do this or do that. I hire out and now I have the time to work that sidebusiness, manage my rental properties and my wife is thrilled because now we have even more time to spend together. I recommend that if you read just one part of this book, it would be the section of "Hiring out mundane jobs" and also read what your hourly worth is. A major mistake made by millions ofAmericans is spending, wasting time onmundane duties when your time can be invested more profitably elsewhere. Thank you Mr. Givens. Great strategy!
40 of 40 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
This book will show you how to design yourself,
By fred petersen (USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
While most people are on a misguided mission to find themselves, this book shows the winning processes necessary to design yourself---to get rid of limitations.Super Self shows you how to make things happen...instead of waiting for things to happen.To control your own mind...instead of trying to control or being controlled by others.To control your emotions...isntead of allowing your emotions to control you.To double the creative power of your mind.To create happiness, joy and aliveness...instead of waiting or wishing for them to happen.To focus on results ...in order to discover the processes required.Super Self focuses on producingimmediate positive results. Super Self treats the human system as a magnificent and powerful programmable machine, whose natural state is mental, emotional and physical balance with an unlimited capacity for accomplishment.Super Self is a must read for anyone who wants the most out of life.I also recommend Turner, Turner, Turner: The King of Network Marketing.
54 of 56 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Super Book! Held me overcome my fears.,
By A Customer
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
For me, public speaking was about as easy as jumping out of a airplane without a parachute! By using the advice in Superself on "Flattening Your Fears" I overcame this hangup. What appealed to me about SuperSelf, is that it is 1)an easy read and 2) easy to apply. Results come quickly. No hype or hoopla. Great book!
46 of 47 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Super Book - I doubled my effectiveness,
By A Customer
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
It's been said that to be successful, model the successful. If that is true, then who better to model than a man who turned $500 into $250,000,000 while living a live of passion, fun, service and prosperity?Most people talk about goal setting, but how many talk about balancing goals with values? If you want to be a entrepreneur, working for someone else would be very frustrating. If you value a job, starting and running your own business would be scary and in conflict with your values.How would you like to get twice as much done in half the time? In this book, Givens shows you how. How would you like to be always happy, excited and full of energy? To be ahead of schedule instead of behind? Givens will show you how.This book helped me get my life, emotions and time under control. I went from being super busy and super efficient to being super confident and super effective with more free time to enjoy the good things in life.Thank you Mr. Givens, great book. ...
53 of 56 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
This book will make you more effective,
By A Customer
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
Most people are concerned with efficiency, staying busy, this book is about effectiveness--getting things done. Before reading SuperSelf, I was one of those people who always lamented; "If only I had more time" Now I have the time. Givens provides actual strategies to get twice as much done in half the time and actually have even more time for family, recreation or whatever you want to do. Excellent book and a must read for anyone who wants to achieve more.
39 of 40 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Good book - but not as good as the seminar,
By Tony DeFrancisco (Central Florida) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
Super Self is an excellent book to show you how to take back your time, get more done, avoid interruptions, generate goals and achieve your dreams. What I like about Super Self, is that it's not just a "feel good" rah, rah book. It provides real strategies and delivers results.Ten years ago I attended a Super Self/Super Mind Seminar conducted by the late Mr. Givens. It was 4 days of fun and powerful. At that time, I was facing some tough financial and emotional times and carrying around a lot of mental garbage. The seminar, especially the alpha programming, helped me unload all of that garbage.This book can help do some of the same things. It is a condensed version of the seminar, although lacking the Super Mind (alpha programming) portion that was taught at the seminar.I would recommend The Silva Method to supplement this book along with Maximum Achievement by Brian Tracy, The Magic of Believing by Claude Bristol and Think and Grow Rich by Naplean Hill.
27 of 27 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A very helpful book,
By Barry Haney (University Park, Pa.) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
Although Charles J. Givens is world famous for his unique, practical, and powerful strategies that have helped millions of people along the road to success and financial freedom, it is SuperSelf: How to Double Your Personal Effectiveness that is his most important work and offers powerful, pragmatic strategies that will enhance your personal life and success.In SuperSelf, Mr. Givens shows you how to achieve your fullest personal and business potential with a set of proven strategies that serves as an actual "operations manual" for your life. "Of all the strategies I could share with you," says Mr. Givens, "the most important are those that let you take control and achieve success in the total experience of living. Just as there are winning financial strategies, there are specific strategies that will allow you to win in every aspect of your personal and business life." SuperSelf reveals how you can finally take control of your life, and stop others from controlling and dominating your time. Mr. Givens leads you through the process of setting realistic goals for your future and demonstrates how to achieve those goals by using commonsense "success strategies" in response to those life events you identify as problems. SuperSelf gives you a toolbox of practical strategies that will guarantee success in any situation. Mr. Givens shows us how to: -Win the game when you're playing in someone else's ballpark -Create a blueprint for your life and put it into action -Transform efficiency into effectiveness -Control your time line -Manage mundane details -Eliminate interruptions -Extend your peak performance period -Fight fatique, fear and stress -Become a victor instead of a victim Givens strategies will enable you to achieve twice as much in half the time, literally doubling your personal effectiveness. Not only have they worked for Charles Givens himself, making him one of the wealthiest, most successful and happiest people in the world in his time, they have also worked for thousands of others that Givens has taught since the inception of this program back in 1975. Now SuperSelf makes it possible for anyone to learn the personal habits, the attitudes of mind, and the time saving strategies that create success. SuperSelf is an excellent book full of uncommon knowledge and I highly recommend it.
31 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Boy ! it's a must read!,
By A Customer
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
This book is gauranteed to change you forever.Become the person you've always wanted to be, enjoy the ride while your Dreams come true, your Goals are achieved and your Personal Effectiveness is doubled!! Charles J. Givens,world famous for his unique, practical and powerful strategies that have led millions along the path to financial freedom, shows in this book how you can achieve your fullest personal and business potential. He provides a set of proven strategies that are an actual "operations manual" for one's life. Super Self strategies will enable you to accomplish twice as much in the same time...and it is possible for anyone to learn and implement the personal habits, attitude of mind and time saving strategies that create success! The pith of the book lies in the "Giveniser"- the planner for your future. Your Giveniser will consists of five separate sections : Dreams List-what you would do with your life if you had unlimited time,talent,money and family support. Goals List-specific results you want to achieve in the next year in one sentence statements. Values List-the beliefs and things you value most as they relate to your dreams and goals. Action Plan-specific objectives that must be completed for the accomplishment of your goal. Daily Activities List-one calendar month of daily activities. Maintaining focus is of prime importance and you should be disciplined "by choice".Givens rightly points out that you will thus increase your level of effectiveness and will earn the respect of others by keeping to your commitments. Out of the 168 hours in a week, you are left with only 42 hours (including weekends) after accounting for routine activities like sleep, meals and work. So, take control of your time, lest time should take control of you! Avoid the "no slack principle"-Murphy's well known law that what can go wrong will go wrong and at just the wrong time! Don't let phone calls and door-bells distract you from doing what you are doing, afterall, what you chose to do with your time has to be of more importance than what somebody else wants you to. Powered with these effectiveness strategies, you are surely going to feel more satisfied as you attain happiness and satisfaction in all that you do. This book is a "must read" for all those who while wanting to achieve success find at the end of the day that they haven't utilised their time well. The strategies are put forth in a simple language aided powerfully by real life examples,the most striking of which is ...now hold your breath...the author himself! A disturbed childhood with alcoholic quarrelling parents who eventually separated did not give Givens the kind of start a billionaire would have liked to have. But Givens did not carry the "emotional baggage" of the past - he "Givenised" his schedule to become rich, famous and happy! I've made my "lists" and believe me , doing that itself gave me immense satisfaction and a profound sense of direction. This book has made me my "Super Self"!
30 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS!!,
By A Customer
This review is from: Super Self: Doubling Your Personal Effectiveness (Hardcover)
I read More Wealth without Risk and Financial SelfDefense. Givens writes in a easy to read, entertaining and excitingstyle. His strategies are full of common sense, but not necessarily common knowledge. I own his "Money Strategies" & "Success Talk" Programs that he did for Nightingale-Conant. Givens offers equally effective strategies for personal growth and success as he does for personal finance. Givens is the best motivator. Buy this book. You'll be glad you did!
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