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Surviving Separation and Divorce

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Last week my husband came home and out of the blue announced he was leaving me. I was shocked, devistated, angry, hurt...you name it. Right away my friends and family were there to support me and help me realize that I'm better off without this man. I deserve someone better. I read this book in two days and I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I'm in for a rough time ahead but I know that in the long run my life will be so much happier! I recomend this book to anyone facing the pain of separation or divorce.

This book is a great support to women, definitely no signs of being anti-male. From from a caring perspective, I appreciated the hope of reconciliation offered, and yet the firm advice on what life might look like ahead, carving out a new future for myself. Really enjoyed the lawn care humor and the chapter about lightening up during such a stressful time. In fact, I'm buying an extra copy for a friend whose marriage is in turmoil. It may help her make better decisions, too. Thanks much!

This book has helped ease the pain of a separation never planned for. A friend in her own troubled marriage agrees after reading several chapters too. Oberlin's style is easy to read, warm and friendly. While she doesn't say it's easy to start over, she's upbeat about the future for those facing a possible divorce or life as a single. And the sense of humor is great -- helps you lighten up when you really need to. Good tips on dating, taking care of yourself and what to look out for. If you're a woman facing separation or divorce, read this book or offer it to a friend who can use it.

You know, when you are alone suddenly and scared, not to mention disillusioned by all you thought you had that really wasn't, it's really comforting to read a book that puts you at ease. That's what I felt reading Ms. Oberlin's book. It was just the right balance of empathy, friendly support, and facts you need to know to make better decisions during this difficult time. The chapter on learning to laugh was very welcome too. I'd recommend for all women facing this and plan to buy one as a gift for a friend I know who is still struggling with a separation and pretty ugly divorce.

Finally, an easy to read, practical guide written by a woman who has survived the tramatic experiences of separation and divorce. It's a great book for woman faced with the many challenges of living alone and raising children. The author writes from the heart, first-hand, what is important at this time, what steps should be taken, what others can do, what legal actions are necessary, and much more, to survive this painful journey. This book provides a pathway for women to take charge of their situation and to grow from their experiences.

I must correct Tim McWeeney who writes that this is a book about taking an ex husband for all he's worth. He DIDN'T READ the book. He couldn't have. It says so right up front in the introduction, and throughout the text. For all I read (and I'm half-way through it, at least), it's a great support for women reeling in shock when separation is forced upon them. And I see in the table of contents there is indeed information about reconciling a marriage as a possible outcome.

If you only judge a book by its cover, you're missing out. You won't be disappointed if you read this book, I assure you. I know the author is appearing locally at my nearest bookstore soon. I'm looking forward to learning more.

My niece is separated from her husband and going through a divorce. This is a difficult time for her and her two young children. I had recommended Surviving Separation and Divorce to her as a great resource and to offer her some guidance during this difficult time, knowing the author had experience some of the same situations as my niece.