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Surviving a Shark Attack (On Land): Overcoming Betrayal and Dealing with Revenge Hardcover – January 18, 2011


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  • Hardcover: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Harper (January 18, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061992127
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061992124
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.9 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #357,256 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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With her trademark no-nonsense approach and building on the principles developed during her long career as a licensed therapist, New York Times bestselling author Dr. Laura shows readers how to survive enemies—traitors, backstabbers, and saboteurs—at work and at home.

In her previous New York Times bestsellers, author and renowned radio host Dr. Laura Schlessinger has helped countless men and women become better husbands, wives, parents, and people. She's helped them cope with grief; encouraged them to be moral, compassionate, and considerate individuals; shown them how to handle adversity; and set them on the path to understanding and living happy, well-adjusted lives.

Now, in this long-awaited book, Dr. Laura turns to an emotionally explosive subject that has touched all our lives: betrayal and the desire for revenge. And for the first time, she shares her own personal experiences with betrayal, humiliation, and pain, which have led her to a powerful desire for revenge. Intimate and honest, Dr. Laura connects with her readers as never before and puts this subject into context:

I concluded that betrayals are frightening, destructive, painful, humiliating, demoralizing, and so very, very hard to repair. Betrayals undermine people, relationships (marriages and families), institutions (churches, schools, businesses, government, politics)—everything. The entire fabric of humanity depends upon people depending upon each other for their word, honesty, and loyalty.

Millions of Dr. Laura's listeners struggle with the idea of taking revenge and how to accept when it cannot be achieved. For many who have been betrayed, justice may never be served, she reminds us. Empathetic yet never saccharine, direct yet never harsh, Dr. Laura encourages readers to explore their feelings and learn to get beyond them, supplying tools they can use to achieve fulfilling, contented lives free of rancor and the need to settle scores.

Powerful and thought-provoking, Surviving a Shark Attack (on Land) gives readers the emotional defenses they need to overcome the worst life will throw at them, whether it's a cheating spouse, a lying sibling, or a ruthless colleague.

About the Author

Dr. Laura Schlessinger, a licensed marriage and family therapist, is one of the most popular talk-show hosts in radio history and the only woman to win the prestigious Marconi Award for syndicated radio. She is the author of twelve New York Times bestsellers, writes a daily blog, and is a regular Newsmax columnist. She is heard daily on Sirius/XM Channel 155 live, and her program is streamed and podcast on www.drlaura.com. Dr. Schlessinger has her own YouTube Channel (YouTube.com/drlaura). She is also the skipper and driver of a racing sailboat program that won the 2010 international race from Newport Beach to Cabo San Lucas. She and her husband live in Southern California.


More About the Author

Dr. Laura Schlessinger received her Ph.D. in physiology from Columbia University and holds a post-doctoral certification from the University of Southern California and licensing in Marriage and Family Therapy. She is the author of nine New York Times bestsellers, including THE PROPER CARE AND FEEDING OF MARRIAGE. Her award-winning radio program is internationally syndicated by her Take On The Day company. It's broadcast every day on more than 250 stations, XM Satellite Radio, and the Armed Forces Network, and is stream-linked and podcast on www.drlaura.com.

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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful By Dallas_Dog_Owner on February 21, 2011
Format: Hardcover
I read this short book and found it kind of all over the place. Revenge is good. Revenge is bad. Revenge can be good, if it stops harm. Or maybe though, revenge will just make you feel worse.

Which is it?

Well, it depends on which chapter of the book you are reading. As Amazon reviewer Beth Smith said, the book is heavily anecdotal, so how effective or desirable revenge (or no revenge) will be seems to depend on each individual case. Moreover, there are all types of "revenge," but again, the "best" revenge--if any--apparently depends on the unique circumstances of the betrayal.

Me, I was hoping--having been nastily betrayed by a couple of people in recent years--to pin down a set of "steps" or a plan for working through feelings of anger, wanting revenge, etc.

Unfortunately, while Dr. Laura makes some good points in the book--for example, that the time you spend being angry and bitter toward your betrayer can negatively impact not only you but the ones you love--she simply does not provide a consistent, practical set of guidelines for dealing with betrayal. So 3 stars is being charitable, I think.

Frankly, Dr. Laura's book seemed less like a helpful "how to" guide than like a "stream of consciousness" exercise in expressing (1) her frustration with her many years of feeling betrayed by colleagues, supposed friends, etc. , and (2) the things she's been doing to get beyond this frustration.
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37 of 47 people found the following review helpful By Beth Smith on January 24, 2011
Format: Hardcover
The quotes in the chapter bylines are the best part of this book. I like Dr. Laura, listen often to her show, and have read other of her excellent books. This fell far short of what I was expecting or hoping to get out of her book. It is mostly anecdotal in nature without any real deep analysis of how to handle betrayal. She does give some of her personal experiences, but in the end, I was shocked to see that her final reaction is "I don't give a damn." That really surprised me because that reaction means you still really do care. I also just read "Unbroken", a true story by Laura Hillenbrand about an American POW in Japan during WW II. Now that is a book that deals with overcoming betrayal. "Unbroken" made me feel deep contemplation. After breezing through Dr. Laura's short and uninspiring book, I feel like I sat down to the dinner table and was served cotton candy. Unsatisfied, disappointed, cheated. The 2 books are about the same in price. "Unbroken" will actually give you some tools to deal with betrayal and some real inspiration for dealing with betrayal, disappointment, and difficult times.
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful By starlinechix on February 22, 2011
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I just got this book and have already read it twice. For anyone dealing with a "shark" it helps you deal and realize there are just plain evil people out there that do not and will not accept that what they are doing is wrong and so very hurtful. It has made me look at myself and how I have let this woman torment me for almost 20 years. I could never understand why family would not stand up to her and seemed to accept her lies as gospel but now I do. Why they do not want to be her next victium and it is easier to just look the other way.
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If you disagree with Dr Laura, it isn't because of her candor. She is on the mark and straight from the hip. All her books are practical and no nonsense. Let's face it. "Life is tough and it's tougher if your stupid" (John Wayne) People are fickle and short sighted. This book will help you deal with being Betrayed , let down, and offended. If you don't need this book, one of your friends do... or will. Be prepared to help them... show wisdom and be proactive. No one has ever said I wish I wasn't as wise as you.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Julie Rodenhuis on March 11, 2012
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It was good. She told her side.. That way she feels better at least her side is heard.. She has always helped me with her books.. I get something out of each one.. This one was more for her.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Kris on May 13, 2013
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Dr. Laura is a genius this book will enlighten inspire you it will change your life. We don't always understand backstabbing but we all know what happens every day
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Marilyn G. Hill on January 30, 2012
Format: Hardcover
I just read this book. I wish I hadn't. I'd bought it because of some issues I'm dealing with, and the title does contain the words "Overcoming Betrayal" after all. But there is little about overcoming anything, just her venting about people who supposedly betrayed her in the past, and how she's survived and thrived in spite of it while they ultimately didn't. And then there was the thing at the end about the incident with her repeating the n-word on national radio, which sounded incredibly whiny to me. She didn't even take her own advice that she gives when she's talking down to callers: take some responsibility. It was the free market at work there, not her First Amendment rights being threatened, but I'd be surprised if she ever acknowledged that. For someone who doesn't want to see herself as a victim, she certainly writes like one. I don't normally care for Dr. Laura, but I did pick up the book thinking there might be some common sense advice but I ended up feeling more tense than I did before. I seemed to have forgotten that she is, first and foremost, an entertainer. If you're looking for advice and dealing with the after-effects of a betrayal, or "shark attack," save your money and look elsewhere.
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