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Swagger: 10 Urgent Rules for Raising Boys in an Era of Failing Schools, Mass Joblessness, and Thug Culture [Hardcover]

Lisa Bloom
3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (46 customer reviews)


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May 1, 2012
From Swagger:  "At this very moment, through no fault of their own, our boys are caught in the vortex of four powerful, insidious, often invisible forces which conspire to rob them of their future." We medicate, discipline, suspend and expel our boys from school at quadruple the rate of girls. We let double the number of boys drop out of high school than girls, and of those boys who do graduate, they are far more likely than their sisters to be illiterate, to fail to go to college, or to drop out of college if they do go.  Young American men are unemployed at the rate of their counterparts in Arab Spring countries.  Pop culture hammers our boys with the message that manhood equals emotional numbness, gun violence, rape, and drug use.  And we incarcerate more of our boys and men than any other country on earth, now or in human history.
 
SWAGGER is a wakeup call for parents about the real world our boys inhabit right now, but it offers solutions as well. From how to teach your boy humility (the swagger anti-venom), to "making your home a reading mecca," creating an expectation of college graduation, and how to teach your boy to be critical of the media onslaught in his life, this book is also packed with research-proven, parent-tested, teacher-approved practical solutions, delivered in the author's trademark no-nonsense, often humorous, take-charge voice.

Advance Praise for Swagger:



"A comprehensive and engaging piece of work. A must-read for today's parents." --Dr. Drew Pinsky
"Lisa Bloom always gives it to us straight. Swagger shows parents exactly how to keep their sons on the right track when the world our boys now inhabit so often lures them in the wrong direction. Packed with smart parenting tips that you can start using today, Swagger is both a passionate wake up call and a very useful handbook."  --DR. PHIL, television host and New York Times bestselling author
"As girls surpass boys in schools and universities around the country, this book could not come at a
better time. Lisa has long been a great attorney and with Swagger she is now a passionate advocate
for our boys."  --Dan Abrams, ABC News Legal Analyst and author of Man Down
"As the father of three sons (and sixdaughters), I am profoundly grateful to my friend Lisa Bloom for this timely and important wake up call. Every parent and anyone who cares about the next generation of boys should read this book, today!" --Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, New York Times bestselling author of 10 Conversations You Need to Have with Your Children


Editorial Reviews

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 "Swagger is essential guidance for any parent of boys. It's brutally honest, meticulously researched, and boldly impassioned. It reveals a truth that is hiding in plain sight all around us, calling for our wisdom and commitment and love. I couldn't put it down."-- Marianne Williamson, New York Times bestselling author of A Return to Love

“Lisa Bloom is a woman of brilliance, boldness, and beauty. One of the smartest and most erudite people in the American popular culture, you debate her on TV at your own risk. In her new book, Lisa deals with one of our nation's most pressing subjects: the need for women to use, and be appreciated for, their minds.  As the father of six daughters, I am immensely grateful to Lisa for this outstanding and riveting contribution.” --Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, New York Times bestselling author of 10 Conversations You Need to Have with Your Children

"SWAGGER empowers parents and anyone who cares about boys to get real about the culture we live in, and gives us the tools to do right by our sons." --Examiner.com

From the Inside Flap


 "There is a great deal we as parents can do at little or no cost to give our boys the advantages they need right now to jack up their odds of finishing high school, going to college, and leading a decent, free life in which they can not only support a family but also contribute to their communities. Because parenting can't wait. Our boys are growing up now, in conditions they did not create, and they deserve more than an adulthood defined by illiteracy, poverty, and reporting to a parole officer. Swagger will show you how." 
--From the Introduction 
IN HER FRESH and frank New York Times best-seller, THINK, Lisa Bloom issued a wake-up call to women all across the country, challenging them to push back against tabloid media and the beauty industry, and to reclaim their brains. Now, in her thought-provoking follow-up, Swagger, she turns her focus to her male counterparts, with a startling look at boys and the culture in which they are growing up, asking: 
* Why is your son struggling in school? 
* Why can't teenage boys find jobs? 
* How do our media get away with messages that being a man means being a thug? 
* Why are our prisons overflowing with young men? 
* And most importantly: how can we protect our boys, and give them the bright future they deserve? 
Acclaimed author, passionate advocate, TV host, attorney, and mother Lisa Bloom answers these questions -- and many more -- in her trademark hard-hitting, no-nonsense style. Swagger is a call to action for parents -- and anyone who cares about boys -- going in depth to reveal the forces aligned against our sons, then offering ten practical, inexpensive, proven solutions for raising healthy sons, starting today.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Vantage Point (May 1, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1936467690
  • ISBN-13: 978-1936467693
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.2 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (46 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #71,629 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Lisa Bloom is an award-winning journalist, legal analyst, trial attorney, and the daughter of renowned women's rights attorney, Gloria Allred.

A daily fixture on American television for the last decade, Lisa appears regularly on CBS, CNN, HLN and MSNBC shows such as Dr. Phil, Issues With Jane Velez-Mitchell, Dr. Drew, Anderson Cooper 360, Politics Nation and The Situation Room. She has been featured on Oprah, Nightline, Today, Good Morning America, Rachael Ray, and many more, and she was a nightly panelist on The Insider throughout 2010. From 2001-2009, Lisa hosted her own daily, live, national show on Court TV, and she has guest-hosted Larry King Live, The Early Show, and Showbiz Tonight.

Lisa has written numerous popular and scholarly articles for the Los Angeles Times, Huffington Post, the National Law Journal, CNN.com, the Daily Beast, and many more. She has also been profiled, featured, and quoted in hundreds of publications, including the New York Times, the Washington Post, Elle, Ladies' Home Journal, California Lawyer, Vegetarian Times, and Variety.

Lisa graduated early and Phi Beta Kappa from UCLA, where she was national college debate champion, and then from the Yale Law School, where she won the moot court competition. She currently lives in Los Angeles where she runs her law firm, The Bloom Firm. TheWrap.com recently named her one of the top five celebrity attorneys in Los Angeles.

Lisa's first book, the New York Times bestseller Think: Straight Talk for Women to Stay Smart in a Dumbed-Down World, was voted one of the top ten best nonfiction books of 2011 by the readers of Goodreads.com. Lisa has spoken to groups all over the world about the decline in American media and education, the negative influence of the beauty industry, the dumbing down of America, and how to reclaim our brains from our anti-intellectual culture.

A passionate vegan and animal rights activist, Lisa is a frequent world traveler. She lives in Los Angeles with her fiance and two rescue dogs.

Customer Reviews

This author makes me feel like we can turn things around. S. Lehman Carmichael  |  9 reviewers made a similar statement
I highly recommend this book for all parents. W. Brigmon  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
22 of 29 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
After reading THINK, I was excited (as a father of two girls, and two boys), to get a hold of this book. I was amazed at the fact that, although I feel I am a good father, I am missing the opportunity in a lot of ways to educate my sons on the RIGHT things in life. I think every father should read this book, as it can be used much like a road map to raising a boy to grow to be a man...not a felon!
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14 of 18 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Wow, this books should be read by everyone!! May 2, 2012
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Saw her for the first time on Dr. Phil, today and bought the Kindle edition. I was floored. I had reasd "Boys Adrift" By Leonard Sax a few years ago, and this hit the same bell. Something is wrong with our boys/men. Sax listed several factors and did a better job in that area. Bloom excels in looking at the social/psychological/economics impact these trens lead to. This shoulsd be required reading for every politician, teacher and parent.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Staggering swagger facts February 22, 2013
Format:Kindle Edition
The first half of this book was horrifying......the statistics are mind blowing. Thankfully it is more than balanced by an abundance of sensible and usable advice. Compulsory reading for parents, grandparents and caregivers
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars scary... September 20, 2012
Format:Hardcover
I now have a healthy baby boy born in April 2012 and I'm very concerned about how to expose him to the world but be smart enough to know when someone is selling him a bunch of crap.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Thinking Young Male's Manual September 9, 2012
By Miriam
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
Recommended to me by a grandpa who had given it to his grandson, but he felt there would be insights for my grand daughter, as well. I agreed and bought both this and Think, by the same author and written with the female in mind.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars keeping up with the times July 24, 2012
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book gives great insight into the challenges of raising boys in today's society and she gives great background information as to how we got into this situation and specific steps to help your child.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Important book for ALL mothers- daughters and sons! July 18, 2012
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This book transcends political party agendas and goes straight for common sense ethics. This book was very well researched. It could have been a bit more upbeat, the first 100 pages are pretty dismal, but then so is the reality of our childrens education. Well written and well worth the $$.
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18 of 24 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Read whole book in one sitting! AGAIN! April 21, 2012
Format:Kindle Edition
I have read both of Lisa Bloom's books in one sitting. Devouring them, choosing her ideas over sleep and feeling a sense of purpose and re-invigorated passion in the world after reading them.
Her words flow as i jump excitedly from paragraph to paragraph knowing that each sentence and paragraph will hold immense value. I feel that the words in this book can make an impact and ripple into the consciousness that informs us. I personally resonate with Lisa's social commentary in Swagger, specifically, the articulation and primary focus of schools, the economy and thug culture. It's filled with brilliant observations that like the bookThink: Straight Talk for Women to Stay Smart in a Dumbed-Down World in the sense that it brings our attention to things we all know as true but have become so used to it as a reality we don't respond or take outrage with the awareness it truly deserves. This book changed and evolved the way I think about our culture for men. I've already told every mother I know and people in my community that Lisa has done it again and written a book that honors the upward hill journey of boys being raised in our culture and inspires a call to action to what we can all do. Most importantly, remembering, that we are all stronger together.
Soulful. Practical. Necessary. Page Turner. My highest recommendation.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read! - Outlines problems facing our boys & gives solid...
"Because parenting can't wait. Our boys are growing up now, in conditions they did not create, and they deserve more than an adulthood defined by illiteracy, poverty, and reporting... Read more
Published 1 hour ago by Trista Hendren
3.0 out of 5 stars Good Information
Another good reference book for parents. This gives a diffent approach to raising boys. On point and gives good suggestions.
Published 2 months ago by JUDITH T
1.0 out of 5 stars Simplistic
I purchased this book with high expectations and was completely underwhelmed. I am surprised it has received so much positive feedback. Read more
Published 3 months ago by RoseMarie Dispensa
1.0 out of 5 stars Don't waste your money
The first half of this book is almost completely arguement for a liberal agenda and against conservatism. The back half of the book has mostly common sense advice. Read more
Published 4 months ago by oldhercdriver
4.0 out of 5 stars even if you don't have boys
I don't even have sons but I can be a immature adult, so I thought I'd try it out. I'm going to keep it around so I can go back to it when necessary. Read more
Published 4 months ago by deeznuts
3.0 out of 5 stars Highly recommended
I enjoyed this book, but it is only one of several other books (including the Bible) that give you insight on boys today. I have read books that give more practicals. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Charisse L. Cowan
1.0 out of 5 stars Disappointing
The first half of the book is devoid of logic, and though the author makes some valid points, she contradicts herself more often than not. Read more
Published 5 months ago by C
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent read for anyone dealing with boys
As someone, who is raising and working with boys, this book confirms so much of what I see each and every day in the "system" (educational and juvenile justice): OUR BOYS... Read more
Published 5 months ago by A. Matos
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read
A must read for any parent with boys or any one interested in our society today. Statistics bear out the need to reduce "swagger"
Published 6 months ago by Bob Jakeway
4.0 out of 5 stars Concerned Parent
I was concerned for my 5 year old son and his desire to attend school recently. After reading SWAGGER I am even more concerned for my son and boys in this country. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Reading Tom
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