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Systemic Parenting [Paperback]

Mark MFT Gaskill (Author)
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"Its almost as though this book is about everything - or maybe everything is about parenting." -- Dr. Janet M. Shaw, Ph.D. - University of Utah

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There are many parenting books on the shelves today. Systemic Parenting was written to stand out from the crowd. Parenting well seems more like an art form than anything else. It requires a lot from the parent. Yet, most resources for parents attempt to boil the process down to a few "points", "ultimate solutions", and "step-by-step plans". I have worked with hundreds of parents in my practice of family therapy and have recognized that attempts to oversimplify healthy parenting are rarely very helpful. Systemic Parenting is a book for parents wanting to get serious about parenting. It presents a lot of information and was written to be reference for the entire parenting process (from toddler, through adolescence, into adulthood). Systemic Parenting explores the bigger picture of parenting and supports the parent develop greater levels of intimacy, empathy, emotional safety in this most important relationship. Systemic Parenting is appropriate for any parent. It supports parents dealing with everyday parenting challenges as well as parents struggling with severe behavioral problems. I would also recommend that Systemic Parenting be read by parents whose children are excelling, as there is always room for improvement. Good luck and good parenting!

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  • Paperback: 424 pages
  • Publisher: Aventine Press (August 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1593300859
  • ISBN-13: 978-1593300852
  • Product Dimensions: 8.7 x 6.2 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,195,033 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

 

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43 of 45 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Solid Parenting Advice, January 22, 2004
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David B. Haynes (Utah United States) - See all my reviews
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Gaskill writes an excellent book from the perspective of a practicioner for parents. He skips over the deep theory and confusing language of psychology to focus on a long list of pragmatic maxims for effective parenting. As the father of twins boys, I have already put some of his advise to good use.
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36 of 38 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Focuses on a parent child relationship rather than how-tos, November 16, 2004
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Basically the approach in Systemic Parenting to focus on building a relationship with your child. It isn't a how-to book in terms of discipline them this way, potty train them by this age, etc. So it will more help you to see the "big picture" than give you immediate advice on what you need to do. Of course with a grasp of the big picture you can figure out how to treat specific situations. So the advice in Systemic Parenting is more verstile, but less immediate.

I really appreciate the focus on the relationship and bond between parent and child. It is something that tends to be taken for granted in lieu of more immediate issues. However the advice here is not immediately practical, and the presentation is text-booky and dull.

I recommend passing on Systemic Parenting. ... The premise of Systemic Parenting is an excellent one, but the presentation is not so hot.
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39 of 52 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Too technical, November 25, 2004
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This book was not our cup of tea. My husband and I like more practical guidance that does not read in such therapeutic terms. We have a 3 year old.
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A parent once telephoned my office desperately seeking an appointment for her 14 year-old son: I am a family therapist. Read the first page
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artful parent, having greater intimacy, least emotional resistance, pixy stick, extreme emotional reactivity, internal antagonists, secondary emotional reaction, emerging cognitive skills, assertive interactions, emotional alliances, incongruent situations, external antagonists, parenting tactics, less desirable behaviors, parenting opportunity, systemic picture, emotional reservoirs, uncomfortable emotions, systemic variables, considerable time exploring, parenting opportunities, helpful patterns, passive interactions, natural loyalty, parenting process
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Mark Gaskill, North Philadelphia, Micro-Parenting Influences, Little League, Macro-Parenting Influences, Other Group Member, Was Manuel
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