Today's divorce epidemic reflects the rise of many social forces that can pull even the happiest couple apart. In fact, many of us hold deeply ingrained attitudes and assumptions that work against long-term marital happiness. From renowned family therapist Dr. William J. Doherty, this book helps couples pinpoint hidden marital problems and take positive steps to stay close and connected every day. Readers learn to break free of such common traps as confusing desires with needs, applying a trade-in-the-old-model consumer mentality to one's own spouse, or becoming overtime parents instead of full-time partners. They get suggestions for creating relationship rituals that stand the test of time; from mundane to celebratory, sexy to silly. For young couples who want to hold tight to happily-ever-after, or longtime marrieds on the brink of breakup, this book shows how to fight back to restore a marriage worth saving.
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To ensure that one's marriage lasts "as long as we both shall live" as opposed to the increasingly popular "as long as we both shall love," William J. Doherty (Take Back Your Kids) recommends that couples undertake daily "connection rituals" that facilitate "intentional marriage." In Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World That Pulls Us Apart, Doherty, the director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota, advises couples to avoid family and friends who undermine their marriage and to avoid sacrificing their relationship to their kids.
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"While it is primarily for married couples and those considering marriage, this book is also beneficial for therapists and professional leaders....it is applicable to those who are considering any type of partnership/relationship....chapters are inviting, engaging, and readable....a book for couples and can be used as a companion for those in therapy. It will also serve as an excellent text for marriage enrichment programs. Pastors and church educators will find Doherty's approach to marriage and family affirming of the work of their community of faith and practical for ministry within the congregation."--"Family Ministry"
"Doherty's book offers solutions."--"St. Croix Valley Press" and "White Bear Press"
"Doherty's book offers solutions."--"St. Croix Valley Press" and "White Bear Press"
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24 of 24 people found the following review helpful
By S. Richman
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I am a graduate student, this book was an assignment that required me to design a marriage enrichments program. So I approached this book with a very critical eye, wanting to find all the pros and cons. With that being said, I loved this book. The author William J. Doherty does an excellent job addressing issues and attitudes in marriage in a way that I have never thought of. The concept of a consumer attitude is a profound idea, and better yet it makes sense. The book is well written (but on a level that anyone can read and understand), with great examples, and ideas to apply the concepts presented in this book. This is a book that everyone should read; it is not just for marriages that are struggling. I feel that I have a very healthy and happy marriage, yet this book has helped me improve a relationship that I thought did not need improvement. It can also help newly weds who are juts starting out on their journey together. Over all this is a great book that will help any marriage as much as the reader is willing to allow it.
18 of 19 people found the following review helpful
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A wonderful exposé on the current trend of friends, marriage counselors, etc., encouraging those in marriages to leave "if you aren't getting your needs met." He skillfully shows that with a small change in both partners' (and sometines just one), many divorces could be avoided. He is careful to point out there are still cases that would require a divorce, such as abuse and repeated infidelity. But great hope is given that many can take back their relationships and enjoy each other.
21 of 23 people found the following review helpful
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Plenty of titles provide marital advice; but few so clearly outline the outside forces which tend to drive couples apart as William Doherty's Take Back Your Marriage, which tells how to stick together in a world which pulls people apart. Family therapist Doherty says today's divorces are the result of conflicting demands on time and money - troubles which can be overcome by determined couples. This tells how.
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Love it!
Very positive book on marriage! Most others concentrate on the bad things about marriage and not help the good parts
Published 5 months ago by Jill Powers
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I liked most of it. Some of the religious stuff was a bit over the top for me but other then that it has very good views on kindness, respect, & communication.
Published 7 months ago by debra
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How do you take back something when it's better to let go?
Bought the book, never read it. Why? Because some marriages are worth letting go. My wife wanted a divorce ~ 2. Read more
Published 16 months ago by Grubar30
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still scared but at least this book gave me hope
My marriage is in serious trouble and I have been reading and researching non-stop for months trying to find a solution. Read more
Published 22 months ago by Anne
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Marriage saver!
Anyone who is getting or who is married should read this! This book explains what true commitment really means and what marriage is really all about!
Published on May 2, 2011 by AmandaH
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Excllent book
I purchased this book because I have a friend that is in a failing marriage and was going to give it to them however, they have parted ways and therefor I still have posession of... Read more
Published on January 15, 2011 by C. Denton
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Amazing self-help book
This book takes an interesting (quite true) look at how people in our society view marriage. The author has many years of marriage under his belt and has helped (or tried to) many... Read more
Published on September 20, 2010 by Erin Briana
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A very good read
I think that this book is very helpful in presenting the issues that pull marrriages apart. It is comforting to know that daily stresses and "drift" are a common component of... Read more
Published on February 1, 2010 by A Manning
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The Future for a Stable Society
The first book I have read for a long time that recognises marriage as the key to the stability of our communities. Read more
Published on January 24, 2010 by Kevin Kettlewell
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Excellent Book... with many positive take aways
I received the book on Tuesday evening and finished it by Thursday...I couldn't stop reading all the fantastic observations of Married behaviors. Read more
Published on September 17, 2009 by Danny
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- Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J. Markman on page 108
- Reconcilable Differences by Andrew Christensen on page 46
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