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Taking Charge of Anger: How to Resolve Conflict, Sustain Relationships, and Express Yourself without Losing Control Paperback – October 30, 2003


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Product Details

  • Paperback: 245 pages
  • Publisher: The Guilford Press; 1 edition (October 30, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1572306807
  • ISBN-13: 978-1572306806
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.1 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #828,897 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"'Taking charge of your anger is a journey,' Robert Nay observes. Your patients who have problems with anger control and aggression could not do better than to take this journey by reading this practical, engaging, user-friendly guide. It blends instructive anecdotes and case material with self-help suggestions that are based on empirically validated procedures. Strongly recommended!"--Donald Meichenbaum, PhD, Distinguished Professor Emeritus, University of Waterloo; Research Director, The Melissa Institute for Violence Prevention and Treatment of Victims of Violence, Miami, FL

"Rarely does one find outstanding scholarship and clinical wisdom wedded in one book. Such is the case in Dr. W. Robert Nay's exciting text. The writing style is highly engaging and the text is filled with numerous relevant examples. This book is a ‘must read' for anyone who wants to learn to utilize anger reactions more effectively, whether in personal relationships or the work world. It is a self-help goldmine from a very wise individual who is also a scholarly expert in the anger control field."--James P. McCullough, Jr., PhD, Department of Psychology, Virginia Commonwealth University

"Dr. Nay presents clear, effective, and nonjudgmental road maps for identifying and gaining control of anger. He is a skilled clinician whose work is comprehensive, and helpful. Following this program is likely to help you improve your communication and closeness with the important people in your life."--Stephen Winter, President, American Healthcare Institute

"If anger is a problem for you, Dr. Nay offers a step-by-step, practical model for what sets off your anger, what happens once you ‘lose it,' and how you can gain control. With control, anger will no longer have a negative impact on your personal, social, or work relationships. I can attest to Dr. Nay's abilities as a teacher and trainer. Now he brings his expertise directly to readers in this excellent book."--Larry B. Silver, MD, Department of Psychiatry, Georgetown University Medical Center

About the Author

W. Robert Nay, PhD, is a clinical psychologist in private practice in McLean, Virginia, and Annapolis, Maryland, and Clinical Associate Professor at Georgetown University School of Medicine. The author of two psychology textbooks, Dr. Nay has taught thousands of mental health professionals nationwide to conduct anger management training with their clients. He has appeared repeatedly on national television to discuss media violence. His website is www.wrobertnay.com.


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The methods used are sensible, easy to apply and effective.
John K
I highly recommend this book as tremendously helpful if anger has become a problem, or if you are in a relationship with someone who has an anger problem.
William C.
I found Dr. Nye's book on anger management extremely helpful.
C. Wheatley

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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful By Midwest Book Review on August 8, 2004
Format: Paperback
Taking Charge Of Anger is a straightforward self-help guide to learning how to experience and even use anger without letting it take control. Licensed clinical psychologist W. Robert Nay covers how to identify and prepare for common triggers of anger, learning how to dampen anger or identfy and change thoughts that fuel anger, skills for staying cool under fire, establishing new habits for managing anger instead of falling back into destructive old patterns, and much more. A "must-read" for taking back control over one's life, especially for anyone whose temper has cost them a job, a great opportunity, a relationship, or more.
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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful By John K on January 4, 2006
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I have been greatly helped by this book. I've read others and had lackluster results mainly because they focus on identifying and classifying issues but fall short when it comes to weponizing the reader with techniques that achieve results.

This text (like some others) begins by drawing the reader in with situational examples mapped to a breakdown of the underpinning anger types. There are self assessments to help guide the reader into better insights. This is further (and nicely) developed in Chapter 4 to give powerful techniques that allowed me address my own particular issues. By the time I completed Chapters 6 and 7 I was actively engaging effective methods that had real positives impacts on my life. The methods used are sensible, easy to apply and effective.

I am a slow reader by comparison to most; however, I believe that I was served well by this. I would suggest reading this book at a pace that allows time to reflect and apply the techniques. It seems logical to me that the process of behavioral change is much slower than the process of understanding my issues, so taking the material in chunks allowed me time to manage these methods in an effective way.

"Taking Charge of Anger" is allowing me to reframe the world in away that I can effectively cope; likewise, I am better equipped to be a more comfortable person to be around.

Good luck on your particular journey.
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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful By C. Wheatley on July 7, 2005
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I found Dr. Nye's book on anger management extremely helpful. The book offers a pragmatic, organized approach to confronting anger that has set my life on a new track. Following the recommendations in the book has helped me not only rethink situations that affect my day, but also better see how situations affect others, and allow me to grow into a more compassionate human being. His ordered approach provides for an immediate improvement in handling anger. Each time I would reach a new roadblock in growth, the next chapter was there to help me reach the next level. In reading the book I found it vital to allow a brutally honest self-assessment in order to reap maximum benefit from Dr. Nye's recommendations - but there was no reason to cheat myself here since it was my life and my relationships that were on the line.

If you have a serious anger problem, buy this book. If you don't think you have an anger problem but can't explain why your relationships are not as good as they might otherwise be, buy this book. If you believe your heritage or your childhood experience is a cause for your problems, buy and USE this book!! Being true to yourself, read and faithfully apply Dr. Nye's book, chapter by chapter. This method works!
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Steven Lance on October 6, 2007
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Before writing my review, I read the others. Some wrote that this book was the same old, same old, nothing new. The contents may not be altogether new,however, the way Dr. Nay presents the material is helpful.

Over the past five years, I went to numerous counselors asking for help with my angry outbursts and my continued disgust for some peoples behavior. These counselors only offered me handouts.

One counselor provoked me to see how expressed my anger. I caught on to what she was doing. I asked her if she was actually trying to Piss me Off. She said yes. I asked her why. "I wanted to see how you would react." Regardless of her credentials, I immediately stood up and left.

In this book, Dr. Nay states that anger has five basic faces: Passive-aggressive, Sarcasm, Cold-Anger, Hostility, and Aggression. After taking his brief questionnaire in this book, I found that I fit into all five categories at one time or another.

Growing up in The Bronx, New York, I learned to wear many masks in order to survive. Dr. Nay does not offer excuses to continue in my "wild and crazy" behavior. He offers me solution.

If someone truly wants answers to the anger problem, try this book. It is no magic pill. In fact, I leave my copy on my kitchen table and read a few pages a day. I use a yellow highlighter and numerous pens.

After completing my college degree in 2002 at age forty-seven, I had a lot of knowledge, but I did not have a solution for my emotional problems, especially my anger.

In defense of my education, I am using the tools of studying in my approach to this book. Without controlling or taking charge of my anger, my degree will do me little good if I cannot get along with people.

Conflict is everywhere.
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Hoofa24 on January 16, 2006
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I read all the reviews for this book and carefully thought about before purchasing and I must say that this book is a must for anyone who has anger issues. Obviously everyones opinion is different as well as mine is from yours but after finding myself bullying my family for "no" reason I was recommended this book by a friend. After reading it my family has since tried to "push" my buttons and so far has not succeeded in getting me to succomb to the pressure. I would recommend this book and also feel that the other reviews that have been submitted did an injustice for this book but thats where freedom of speech comes in I guess. Good read, Great book, Wonderful info to apply to your everyday life.
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