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Taming It Down [Paperback]

Kim McLarin (Author)
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August 1, 1999
The daughter of an ambitious mother and the product of an exclusive New England prep school, African-American journalist Hope Robinson is sick of proving herself over and over to white professionals...tired of the automatic distrust she gets from the black community...and has had it up to here with black -- and white -- men who don't think she's good enough. It will take both a crisis and a journey back into the worlds Hope grew up in before she can confront the roots of her rage -- and finally free herself to be who she wants to be....

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Defining a place in each of two competing worldsAone black, one whiteAis the burden and the triumph of the protagonist of this warm and absorbing first novel. Memphis native Hope Robinson, a scholarship student at a New Hampshire prep school, is as much of a puzzle to her classmates as those white teens are to her. Never quite fitting in, she finds both at college and in her first job that her education causes black peers to question her loyalties to other African Americans. A position at a prestigious Philadelphia newspaper promises a fresh start, but tensions there come early when an anonymous, unfriendly memo about affirmative action splits the newsroom. Hope soon begins a secret involvement with David Carson, a white editor at the paper and the boyfriend of Hope's seemingly perfect colleague, Stephanie Johnson. Assigned a beat in the city's largest black neighborhood, Hope works earnestly to overcome the residents' distrust of the press and finds new love with Malcolm Blackwell, a reporter for several black media outlets, who urges her to take an active part in the community she observes. Complications in her personal life and at the paper prove debilitatingly stressful, but, after a revelatory whirlwind assignment in Africa, she has a chance to see how much she has grown when she's confronted by an unexpected critical decision with lifetime consequences. Hope's observations are rendered in a pitch-perfect voice, and McLarin manages the complex narrative adroitly. This is an assured debut that accurately reflects salient concerns of many young people, blacks in particular. Author tour.
Copyright 1998 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Hope is a woman with every reason to be mad. Her editor at a Philadelphia newspaper thinks she got her job merely because she's black. Her white lover dumps her for another, blonder woman, and her African American boyfriend considers her a traitor to her race. But when her temper leads her to commit a desperate and irreversible act, she is forced to reevaluate her relationships with her colleagues, her men, her family, and herself. McLarin's first novel goes beyond the typical woman-in-the-Nineties-looking-for-happiness story to explore how rage can erode both individual lives and whole societies and how one woman's ability to let go and forgive can lead to healing. While the supporting characters, especially the men, are thinly drawn, Hope stands out as the perfect girlfriend: smart, funny, and caring, a woman you want to shake some sense into and hug at the same time.?Ellen Flexman, Indianapolis-Marion Cty. P.L., IN
Copyright 1998 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Grand Central Publishing; Warner Books ed edition (August 1, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0446675741
  • ISBN-13: 978-0446675741
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.3 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (31 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #601,317 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read. It was books that taught me that the things that tormented me most were the very things that connected me with all the people who were alive, or who had ever been alive."
-- James Baldwin

 

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Powerful, thought-provoking story!, July 12, 2003
This review is from: Taming It Down (Paperback)
I read McLarin's second book ("Meeting of the Waters") first and was so impressed, I couldn't wait to read "Taming it Down." McLarin's Hope is a woman on the verge, forced to be the voice of her people when she is just an individual. The book flowed so smoothly and honestly, I wondered if it was a memoir disguised as a novel.

If I have one criticism, it is that the obit incident where Hope incorrectly attributed the wrong medal to a deceased war veteran and was reamed by the widow was duplicated in both books (?).

It is obvious many of the "reviewers"--and I use that term loosely--are haters! Sign your names, cowards, and stand behind your words! These are the same people McLarin writes about in the voice of her character, Hope. They are the people who "just don't get it" and go through life without any real worries in the world, never thinking about race because THEY are the problem. Of course, Hope is the extreme case, but "Taming it Down" is a fictionalized version of what happens in the workplace--and the rest of society--when a certain people are left out of the equation. Had the U.S. constitution included ALL people when it was first written, we wouldn't have the problems we are having now.

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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Kim McLarin...A Work in Progress!!, September 18, 2001
It would be easy to be nitpicky and point out those aspects of Ms. McLarin's work that were still a little rough around the edges, but I choose to focus on the positive and say that Ms. McLarin tackled a very timely issue and illustrated it both sympathetically and without apology. TAMING IT DOWN illustrates the emotionally quagmire that many African Americans face when circumstances afford them the opportunity to move up and move out of their black community. As is the case with Hope, they are many times left feeling torn and displaced. Hope's emotional meltdown along with her quest to find herself and determine where she fits in the overall scheme of things has a kernal of truth that has to strike a cord in the consciousness of many African Americans. All in all, this was a good first novel. I hope to see much more from Miss McLarin.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars An Honest, Thought Provoking Read, October 11, 1998
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Ms. McLarin's book "Taming it Down" is one of the most honest books that I have read in awhile, since Danzy Senna's "Caucasia." In it she depicts the small battles that African-Americans, like myself, have to face on a daily basis when submerged in the sea of Corporate America. I like that she was unapologetic in this book. Sometimes on news programs and t.v. shows when talking about issues like Affirmative Action and facing racism on a daily basis as African-Americans, we try to brighten things up. We bury our feelings or disassociate from them, while putting on a smiling face daily assenting with our supervisors as we move in our corporate jobs. I have worked in the newsrooms myself, and they are anything but "objective." There are daily compromises or spins, put on by editors on the types of news stories that are released to the general public. I like also that she depicted the daily struggle that African-Americans have amongst ourselves as well as we are trying to come to terms with our own self-images and those we wish to have shown to the world. It was beautifully written. The only reason why I believe the "Philadelphia Inquirer" disliked her novel was because she worked for them. Did the truth hit too close to home?
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I looked around the grungy marble lobby of the Philadelphia Record in a daze, wigging out, thinking: How interesting. Read the first page
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North Philadelphia, Miss Ethel, Broad Street, New York, Hope Robinson, City Hall, Father Love, Taming It Down, Alex Webster, North Philly, Erica Kane, Martin Luther King, Mount Airy, Praise Him, Chestnut Hill, Pbiladelpbia Record, Stephanie Woodbridge, Temple of Divine Love, White Bobbsey, Black Bobbsey, Germantown Avenue, Lady Day, Miss Robinson, Richard Goldin, South Philly
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