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"Tressed Out", July 27, 2001
This review is from: Tenderheaded: A Comb-Bending Collection of Hair Stories (Hardcover)
.... Black women and their hair -- it's a loaded feminine topic, say Juliette Harris and Pamela Johnson (respectively editor of International Review of African-American Art and a columnist at Essence Magazine), in Tenderheaded, a wise, joyous anthology. All their sisters are "tenderheaded," or sensitive about their hair one way or another. Some could never stand the heat of a curling iron, while others feel their scalps sting at the mere sight of a fine-toothed comb. Others, reading W. E. B. Du Bois' comment that a woman "black or brown and crowned in curled mists" is "the most beautiful thing on earth," pat their own misty crowns and mutter, "mailman's hair: every knot's got its own route." Reading this anthology feels a little like talking with your girlfriends, grown daughters, or favorite aunts on a lazy afternoon. Now and then a simpatico male drops by--maybe Peter Harris, gloating at finally having learned how to box-braid his six-year-old daughter's curls, or maybe Henry Louis Gates musing on the "kitchen," which isn't just the place at home where your mother and her sisters tended each other's hair but the place at the nape of the neck that's "Unassimilably African" because, says Gates, nothing can "de-kink" it. Kinks can be a trial in a world where the fluid, silken tress is beauty's trademark. From the Sixties through the Eighties, if a black woman straightened her hair or wore extensions or a weave she was routinely accused of hating herself or insulting her race--the righteous and the rappers loved to diss fake or processed hair. Having naturally straight "good hair" has never been a picnic, either. Even if the "lucky" woman's friends weren't resentful, she missed out on the intimacy and catharsis of hair-wailing sessions, and if she decided on a short style she was said to have thrown her luck away. Opinions are still divided, and everyone in these pages has a different one, whether the writer is Alice Walker or the great-great-granddaughter of Madam C.J. Walker, America's first black woman millionaire, whose hair care system gave dignified employment to thousands of impoverished women during Jim Crow times. Angela Davis discusses the Afro that made her a media icon, and bell hooks argues that hair-straightening is not about wanting to be white but about longing to grow up--the practice marks the graduation from braided girlhood into womanhood. Art historian Judith Wilson links the pompadours, hair extensions, turbans, and long fingernails popular in some American communities to African aesthetic traditions in which the self is ritually extended through deliberate overabundance and artifice in bodily decoration. Cherilyn Wright, in "If You Let Me Make Love to You, Then Why Can't I Touch Your Hair?" offers the hilarious survey she took among her friends, male and female, about how they handle lovemaking when a hot, damp breath can snap a woman's expensively sleeked hairstyle right back into its original "b-b's." The book has a marvelous array of photographs, from archive-quality portraits of 19th-century toddlers to Topsy cartoons and Aunt Jemima ads, to Ugandan foreign minister Elizabeth Bagaaya in splendid basket-braids. A New York City matron wears a Muslim head-wrap, and Grace Jones a gorgeous fade. Whoopi Goldberg sports a spoofy yard-long platinum wig. Best of all, Tenderheaded brings to life the millions of women who give each other their touch and their attention (if sometimes also heartaches or a headache) through the intimate rituals of washing, combing, trimming, oiling, braiding, pressing, winding, wrapping--caring for--each other's hair.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
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This is a WONDERFUL WONDERFUL book, January 25, 2001
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This review is from: Tenderheaded: A Comb-Bending Collection of Hair Stories (Hardcover)
I picked up this book yesterday and have not put it down since! In is a wonderful collection of personal stories, historical tid bits, poems, articles, etc, about Black peoples and how we relate to our hair. I'm 'happily nappy' myself, and it's great just to be able to read some candid stories about my people and our feelings and struggles with our hair. There is a wonderful story about the first woman to go natural at Hampton University that mad me proud and want to cry at the same time; a story about a father who had to learn to braid his daughter's hair that mad me laugh out loud; a woman talking about why she loves her permed hair; Black women, their hair and sex, etc, etc. Whether or not you're natural, permed, texturized, sporting a wig, weave - whatever, this book is a must!!
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
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Excerpts from Black Issue Book Review, May 1, 2001
By A Customer
This review is from: Tenderheaded: A Comb-Bending Collection of Hair Stories (Hardcover)
Hang on to our horse hair, 100% human hair, relaxed, natural, dreadlocked or hot combed tresses. It's time to get down to the nappy truth about all the pros and cons of black hair. Harris and Johnson's "comb-bending collection" is a tell-it-like-it-is compilation of essays which give insight into what we and others think about it, the history behind our hair, and how it affects our lives... In a society where European-style beauty still dominates, black women and men have had to deal with the fact that their hair is often quite different than the "ideal." We have, for this reason, struggled with our own self-esteem, questioned our beauty and ultimately, found ourselves fighting internalized racism... It is seen when we give special attention to the cute, little black girl with long, wavy hair, over the cute, little black girl with short, "nappy" hair.... The editors look at all varieties of black hair from a sociological and anthropological point of view, combing through how the hearts and minds of our diverse community feel and think about it.... An opinion held by one of the essayists is that relaxed hair is a survival strategy. It is not the pursuit of white beauty, but the pursuit of white power - the power that goes along with having these accepted white characteristics. There is even an essay written by a white woman who expresses her love of black hair and the hurt she felt in realizing that her young black friends were ashamed of their hair. The book is comprised of diverse ideas including anecdotes reminiscent of African folktales and tidbits of information, like a "Love Drawing Spell to attract the guy/girl you've got your eye on - using his or your own hair"... Readers will be moved to feel and think, as the book brings buried sentiments to the surface... Althia Gamble
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