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Thanks for Coming: One Young Woman's Quest for an Orgasm (P.S.) [Paperback]

Mara Altman
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Book Description

April 14, 2009 P.S.

By turns uproarious and touching, the memoir of a young woman's search for an orgasm—and for the elusive connections between sex and love

Twenty-six-year-old Mara Altman wanted to know what all the screaming was about. She'd lost her virginity at seventeen; grown up in southern California with sexually free parents; had lovers in India, Burma, and Peru; and spent a year in Bangkok observing all manner of depravity. And yet she was an attractive, successful, single woman in New York who'd never had an orgasm.

And so she embarked on a wildly funny, emotionally resonant odyssey—a journey both inside and outside herself—only to discover that, for Mara, orgasm was connected to a part of her that no vibrator could reach. Thanks for Coming is one woman's look at our obsession with and anxiety over the female orgasm. Her quest to get her own yields poignant results that will surprise even the sexually awakened among us. From sex shows to sex conventions, from a therapist's couch to her own couch, from the bedroom to the bar, Mara Altman proves to be a guide as hilarious as she is investigative.


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About the Author

Mara Altman received her M.S. in journalism from Columbia University in 2005. A former staff writer at the Village Voice, she has also written for the New York Times and New York. She lives in Brooklyn.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 400 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Perennial (April 14, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061577111
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061577116
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.3 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #751,278 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Mara Altman writes about issues that embarrass her (i.e. chin hair), because she has found that putting shame on the page diffuses the stigma, leaving her with a sense of empowerment and freedom.

Over time, Mara has become progressively fearful of airplane flights, but less concerned with getting fat (in the Spring of 2010, she started to eat bacon). She feels most inspired when walking across bridges and lives the perpetual Catch-22 of not being able to go to sleep without first drinking a glass of water, but then having to get up to pee at 3 a.m. She reminds herself that things could always be worse. Then she's stuck thinking about all the bad things that could happen. And then she can't get back to sleep.

Mara has published two best-selling Kindle Singles. Thanks for Coming, her first book, which follows her on an adventure to find her orgasm, was translated into three languages - German, Spanish and Portuguese. The book was also optioned by HBO. Before going freelance, she worked at daily newspapers both in India and Thailand and was a staff writer for the Village Voice. She is currently dabbling in stand-up comedy. You can see a recent set here: http://bit.ly/11t3y11

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Thanks for Coming August 19, 2012
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
I absolutely loved this book! Full disclosure: I'm a man. I was browsing the Kindle Store and happened upon a book about a woman's search for an orgasm. Don't ask what I was searching for. Okay, the subject matter piqued my interest. What could go wrong with a book about a woman searching for an orgasm? Plenty, actually. It could be boring, like she was shopping for the perfect pair of pumps (shoes, that is). She could blame all her frustrations on men. She could be a lousy writer. What I found was an incredibly engaging, almost painfully honest, hilarious, insightful book about human relations - physical and otherwise. Two pages into it, I was already hooked. I also thought: funny, insightful, neurotic as hell, liberal, guilt ridden, self-effacing - she's gotta be Jewish! Her humor lured me in, but her insights are what really set the hook. I couldn't put it down. I was amazed at her courage; her journey bordered on the dangerous, and she was often on the wrong side of the border. But she pulled through, with me slavishly following her through each of her incredible adventures. It was a great trip, a great read. In the end, I understood her, women, and myself just a little bit better. And isn't that the most you could possibly hope for in a book?
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8 of 11 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars should be required reading for all May 4, 2009
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
Seriously. Every female would have their life changed by reading this book. And men would finally lean something about women if they gave this book a shot. This is not a sleezy sex book. This is a journey toward discovering ones one self that all of us could only dream of having the guts to go on. Fortunately for us, we can learn a lot from Mara's incrediably brave journey. And it not all self-reflection and sex education. This book is damn funny and highly addicting. I could not put this book down. I think my boyfriend started to get worried.
Do the world a favor everyone, read this book!!!
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5 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Finally... July 5, 2009
Format:Paperback
In this era of "Girls Gone Wild," there's the expectation that women are supposed to be coming every minute. In reality most women have trouble orgasming with men, and many more have to "learn" to have an orgasm, like Altman. I'm surprised this topic hasn't been tackled before. Altman is brutally funny and she doesn't overwrite.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Humorous
This book won't be listed among the world's great works of literature. Still, I found it an entertaining read. Read more
Published 3 months ago by BlueTurtle
1.0 out of 5 stars What a Joke!
As I was reading this book considering whether to give it to an inexperienced younger person, I could not believe the naievety and stupidity of the author. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Karen Force
2.0 out of 5 stars left something to be desired
I was a bit disappointed. I was hoping for more of a memoir, a story that I could relate to. This was not that. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Amanda
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all females!
Wonderfully funny and educational too! It's not easy to write something this humorous and still teach people important things about sexuality. Altman does a fantastic job. Read more
Published 14 months ago by dorisa1989
1.0 out of 5 stars Painfully obtuse
I would have given the book 2 stars, but I'm blown away by how many reviewers gave it 5, so I'm downgrading it to one, just keep some balance here. Read more
Published on May 21, 2011 by Sanmalo
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read!
This a must read for anyone who loves to listen to stories on relationships/sex. It's an addictive book! Mara writes so fantastically. Read more
Published on June 17, 2010 by Michelle
5.0 out of 5 stars Hysterical and insightful
I am surprised that there are only 8 reviews, this book is insightful, honest and hysterical. Couldn't put it down.
Published on June 13, 2010 by EnglishBreakfast
5.0 out of 5 stars Book Review
This book is objective and to the point. One doesn't have to read between any lines. The author is completely open and honest about this topic. Read more
Published on August 31, 2009 by Joel Golden
5.0 out of 5 stars AMAZING...
Thanks for Coming is simply an amazing book. It is smart, insightful and laugh out loud funny. This book is not just about orgasm, Mara Altman takes you on a journey through her... Read more
Published on May 17, 2009 by C. Schwartz
5.0 out of 5 stars success
there is nothing inevitable about reaching climax, nor about this book succeeding.

and yet, through equal parts self-reflection, scientific investigation, and... Read more
Published on April 23, 2009 by S. Carpenter
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