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The Art of Asking: Ask Better Questions, Get Better Answers [Kindle Edition]

Terry J. Fadem
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Ask the Right Questions in the Right Ways...And Get the Answers You Need to Succeed!

Discover the core questions that every manager needs to master...how to avoid the mistakes business questioners make most often...ten simple rules for asking every question more effectively. Learn how to ask tough questions and take control of tough situations...use questions to promote innovation, drive change, identify hidden problems, and get failing projects back on track.

 

Ask better questions, get better answers, achieve better results!

 

“Required reading for every leader who wishes to see his or herorganization flourish and career progress.”

Garry A. Neil, MD, Corporate Vice President, Johnson & Johnson

 

“Asking, listening, understanding the real meaning of the answers, and taking actions based on facts are really the essence of managing. This book has helped me in connecting the dots in my understanding (and lack thereof) of why things really did not work the way I expected them to.”

Pradip Banerjee, PhD, Chairman and Chief Executive Officer, Xybion; retired partner, Accenture

 

“The framework and techniques provide outstanding ideas for executives to both gain better information and develop the analytical skills of their teams.”

Terry Hisey, Vice Chairman and US Life Sciences Leader, Deloitte

 

We’ve all met the corporate inquisitor: the individual whose questions seem primarily intended to terrify the victim. The right goal is to solve the problem--and to build a more effective, collaborative organization where everyone learns from experience, and nobody’s too intimidated to tell the truth.

 

That means asking the right questions in the right ways. This book will teach you how to do precisely that. Terry J. Fadem shows how to choose the right questions and avoid questions that guarantee obvious, useless answers...how to help people give you the information you need...how to use body language to ask questions more effectively...how to ask the innovative or neglected questions that uncover real issues and solutions.

 

You’ll learn how to adopt the attributes of a good questioner...set a goal for every question...use your personal style more effectively...ask tough questions, elicit dissent, react to surprises, overcome evasions, and more. Becoming a better questioner may be the most powerful thing you can do right now to improve your managerial effectiveness--and this book gives you all the insights, tools, and techniques you’ll need to get there.

 

  • Evaluate your current “questioning” skills...
    ...then systematically improve them
  • Choose better questions...
    ...and ask them the right way
  • Ask tough questions more effectively
    Get at the truth, uncover the real problem, and solve it
  • Master the crucial nonverbal aspects of asking questions
    Finding your best style and the right body language


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About the Author

T.J. (Terry) Fadem is a veteran manager with 25 years of experience ranging from supervising steel workers (J&L Steel) to managing in a major corporation (DuPont) to working with start-up companies. His business venture teams have been profiled in books and periodicals, and he has also been a frequent speaker and consultant on strategic management issues. Fadem is currently the managing director, Corporate Alliances at the School of Medicine at the University of Pennsylvania where he is also a member of the Core Team of the Mack Center for Technological Innovation at the Wharton School. In addition, Fadem is president of the Biomedical Research and Education Foundation.

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The Art of Asking

The Art of Asking

Ask Better Questions, Get Better Answers

Preface: Corporate Inquisitions

The Not-So-Grand Inquisitor

He sat behind a desk holding a pitchfork, as all upper-level managers do when they are bedeviling their employees. Well, at least that's how many people picture the boss. This guy was actually holding one that resembled an implement of the devil—a long black handle with a red trident at the end. An appropriate accompaniment for a kid in a Halloween costume, it was out of place with the corporate blue suit of the middle-aged business director. But, as you will see in a moment, this was a manager who was out of step with his business.

Managing business development efforts for a major electronics company with worldwide supply chains is a daunting job for anyone. He had responsibility for overseeing a major growth initiative for the company—one that would likely determine the future of the division. His infrequent visits to the facility that housed the main business unit were as welcome as the arrival of bird flu.

The project he had come to review was beset with problems. The marketing organization criticized research, believing that the product design would not meet customer expectations. Every redesign that satisfied the demands of marketing added costs to the product that threatened to price it out of the market it was targeted to reach, thus making the salespeople very unhappy. And they all argued with manufacturing because no matter what design was settled on, no one in the plant had any confidence the product could be manufactured reliably. The project was woefully behind schedule and so far over budget that the likelihood of recovering development costs had become a major concern for management.

The desk that he was using, as a physical barrier between himself and the team as much as anything else, rested on a concrete platform, about a foot high, in an old factory warehouse. He actually needed the desk because this particular group of employees was known to hurl chairs when they disagreed with each other. Who knows what they might heave at this guy? Although the original purpose of the elevated floor was to keep gunpowder dry, it now functioned as a stage on which the manager attempted to transform himself into an inquisitor. He had come to visit a business team that was producing a seemingly unending stream of problems rather than products.

This meeting was convened to find solutions to the problems the development team had been having so that production could be scheduled and the sales force could start to take orders. In reality, the director was holding an inquisition. He believed he knew the answers—he just wanted to ask the questions. So, with evil scepter in hand, he conducted an investigation, calling on his victims by pointing his pitchfork at them as if to skewer each respondent on one of the barbs.

He pointed to the engineering supervisor.

Inquisitor: What do you mean you can't get the boards to work? Who designed them? Who built the prototypes?

He paused here to catch his breath. No one was going to speak.

Inquisitor: What's wrong with you people? Can you explain this?

The silence continued. There was no answer to his bullying, except for one of the engineers who entered the room late. A particularly brilliant designer, "Doctor Doom" accepted the verbal challenge.

Inquisitor: The project is now overdue by six months. Not one part can be produced for the original forecasted cost. What is the final projected cost of the production model now?

Dr. Doom: About four times what we planned at the start!

Delivering bad new was Dr. Doom's specialty, hence the nickname. He appeared to enjoy telling managers the truth, as he saw it, and seemed especially pleased if it was very bad news that was not expected by management—and this was indeed, very bad news.

Inquisitor: We're losing time, and now you tell me that we have lost any hope of having a price advantage? Do any of you think this makes sense? Can you explain this?

He pointed to one of the marketing people in the room.

Inquisitor: What's wrong with you people? How could you let this happen?

Although offensive by most standards, this particular inquisitor was a small i inquisitor in this company. He was threatening to lower-level people, but in reality, he had only a limited ability to dismiss staff or end careers. This company had an abundance of inquisitors in training.

The business director worked for a general manager who was the real "Grand Inquisitor" of the company. The GM was so good at inquisitions that careers spontaneously combusted under the intense pressure of his examinations during business review meetings. There was no need for any burning at the stake. He was known to extract resignations on the spot.

If you work in a company or any organization long enough, you might eventually attend or participate in an inquisition or two. I have seen a number of them, and I believe most if not all inquisitions are unnecessary. Although hopefully not commonplace, they do happen, and they represent many of the worst characteristics of inappropriate questioning conducted by managers in their daily work. One of the reasons that unsuitable questioning occurs is that the skills employed when conducting inquiries tend to be those that are passed on by example.

If mentors or senior managers are particularly good at asking questions (and if they are also personally successful), their skills are passed on to those who want to emulate them. As in the case just discussed, however, if managers' skills are tactless and the company is still successful under this kind of leadership, the reverse happens. Poor habits are perpetuated. People are fooled into thinking that bullying, intimidating, or torturing by "elocutioning" employees can bring success just because they see these traits in managers of successful enterprises. Even when a business fails, if people had no other mentors to learn from, they have few positive skills to take forward in their career.

Unfortunately, as discussed in the next few chapters, not all successful managers, including those who possess excellent questioning skills, excel at asking questions all the time.

Managers ask questions for a wide variety of specific reasons. For purposes of our discussion, I have boiled the reasons down to three general categories of inquiry:

  1. Questions asked because the answer is important

  2. Questions asked because the question is important

  3. Questions asked because the process of asking is important

In the first category, the answer is more important than the question, so all questions need to be asked with that fact in mind. A manager might want to learn about an idea, or, as in the previously discussed case, the issue under investigation may be "what went wrong" (even though the management devil in this example had no real interest in the answer). In addition to asking questions effectively, managers need simultaneously to employ listening skills.

In the second category, the question is more important than the answer. A manager might want a particular line of reasoning to be used to evaluate projects, or perhaps other considerations should be addressed and the question is a tool to be applied to the situation. There might be no answer to some questions because they are designed to generate discussion rather than answers. This practice is common in many classrooms where questions are designed to get students to think about the question or sharpen their analytical skills rather than supply a correct answer. The business director in the short example mentioned previously actually didn't care about the questions either.

For him, ...


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  • Publisher: FT Press; 1 edition (December 1, 2008)
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56 of 56 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Pretty Good Start October 30, 2010
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I initially thought that author Terry J. Fadem approached his topic in too dry and declarative a manner, so that this book would be more useful in analyzing questions than in asking them. I thought he handled the Socratic method too axiomatically to be really useful. I felt he really didn't do his topic justice.

Then, just for laughs, I used his tips to jot possible questions in the margin of a meeting agenda. Though I can't say Fadem revolutionized the meeting experience, or breathed new life into a dead endeavor, it was one of the more productive meetings I have attended. I got straight, useful answers from participants who had been habitually evasive or vague. I emerged feeling like my time had been well spent.

I wish Fadem wasn't so narrowly prescriptive. I wish his language style wasn't so starchy. I feel he should have spent less print space on lists of boilerplate questions, and more on exercises to help us create our own questions. But as an introduction to the use of dialectic method in a business setting, this is a pretty handy book. Just be prepared to use it as a launch pad, not a throne.
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43 of 49 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Art of Asking Helps Managers Get the Right Answers February 16, 2009
Format:Paperback
We've all been through "inquisitions" - on both sides of that equation. This book explores the process of asking - and answering - and describes how this skill set is essential for managers in any industry.

I was surprised by how many ideas I got from this interesting book - ideas for how to conduct meetings, how to get the information I need from colleagues and my staff, and some ideas for projects that came to mind while reading the book.

At first glance, this book looks like a taxonomy of "asking" - every possible type of question you might consider asking. Reading the descriptions and discussion opens more insights into the second theme of the book, getting the right ANSWERS, which is core to any business.

This book is a must-read for anyone involved in business, entrepreneurship, R&D, and especially human resources. I think this book would make a nice handout for a training class in human resources or general management, in a company or school. I can see how this book might also help balance questions and answers in someone's personal life. I am using the ideas in this book in my professional life and highly recommend this book.
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31 of 36 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Occasionally good ideas, bad writing June 5, 2010
By picardo
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book has some interesting information, but does not offer clear and unambiguous guidance. It's written in manner that makes your eyes glaze over, and you can tell it's been written by the numbers (sometimes literally): a theme sentence, an anecdote, five paragraphs of drivel, and finally a summation paragraph. Its most important ideas are scattered observations, often presented as lists; but the problem with that is there is far too much raw observation and not enough analysis. Don't give me a list, give me something I can follow!

That's why the book is not worth the effort.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book
After reading this book and understanding the types of questions and the different ways to ask them, I am learning how to implement them so that I can get exactly the information... Read more
Published 7 days ago by MsHeim
4.0 out of 5 stars Good information on what to ask.
Good information on what to ask, i shared information with others and they loved the questions and importance of what to ask?
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Published 4 months ago by P. D. Nguyen
3.0 out of 5 stars Some pretty good ideas
It's a pretty simple read but has a few good ideas that I took away. I bought the book when it was offered for free so I can't complain.
Published 6 months ago by Gadget Maven
4.0 out of 5 stars Why are you asking?
I got the book because my husband seems to have trouble with the questions I ask him. He has been in the corporate world for many years now. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Very good!
I was very enlightened by this book. It made me think about many situations and how I could've handled them and will undoubtedly help me with many future circumstances.
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I am pleased with the book. It was nice to get it for free. I recommend it to anyone who enjoys reading.
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4.0 out of 5 stars appropriately titled
Works to teach you how best to word things and gets the job done quickly and easily. Easy to follow and keep up with your success.
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This book started out with some good ideas. There were just too many senerios that may or may not have been a factor in asking questions. Read more
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