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The Bolter (Vintage) [Paperback]

Frances Osborne
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May 4, 2010 Vintage
A San Francisco Chronicle Best Book of the Year
An O, The Oprah Magazine #1 Terrific Read

In an age of bolters—women who broke the rules and fled their marriages—Idina Sackville was the most celebrated of them all. Her relentless affairs, wild sex parties, and brazen flaunting of convention shocked high society and inspired countless writers and artists, from Nancy Mitford to Greta Garbo. But Idina’s compelling charm masked the pain of betrayal and heartbreak.
 
Now Frances Osborne explores the life of Idina, her enigmatic great-grandmother, using letters, diaries, and family legend, following her from Edwardian London to the hills of Kenya, where she reigned over the scandalous antics of the “Happy Valley Set.” Dazzlingly chic yet warmly intimate, The Bolter is a fascinating look at a woman whose energy still burns bright almost a century later.

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From Publishers Weekly

Starred Review. Osborne's lively narrative brings Lady Idina Sackville (an inspiration for Nancy Mitford's character the Bolter) boldly to life, with a black lapdog named Satan at her side and a cigarette in her hand. Osborne (Lilla's Feast) portrays a desperately lonely woman who shocked Edwardian high society with relentless affairs and drug-fueled orgies. Idina's story unfolds in an intimate tone thanks to the author, her great-granddaughter, who only accidentally discovered the kinship in her youth with the media serialization of James Fox's White Mischief. Osborne makes generous use of sources and private family photos to add immediacy and depth to the portrait of a woman most often remembered as an amoral five-time divorcée: the author shows her hidden kindnesses at her carefully preserved Kenyan cattle ranch—a refuge from the later destructive Kenyan massacres. Still, Osborne unflinchingly exposes Idina's flaws—along with those of everyone else in the politely adulterous high society—while ably couching them in the context of the tumultuous times in which Idina resolved to find happiness in all the wrong places. The text, most lyrical when describing the landscapes around Idina's African residences, proves that an adventurous spirit continues to run in this fascinating family. 66 photos, (June)
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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“Engrossing and beautifully written. . . . [An] affecting story.” —San Francisco Chronicle

“Intoxicating.” —People
 
“If notorious relatives make for the best dinner-party anecdotes, then Frances Osborne should be able to dine out for decades…. Enthralling.” —The Plain Dealer

“Idina Sackville . . . could have stepped out of an Evelyn Waugh satire about the bright young things who partied away their days in the ‘20s and ‘30s, and later crashed and burned. . . . Frances Osborne . . . conjure[s] a vanished world with novelistic detail and flair.” —The New York Times

“An engaging book, drawing a revealing portrait of a remarkable woman and adding humanity to her ‘scandalous’ life. . . . Ms. Osborne has succeeded in her stated aim, to write a book that ‘has in a way brought Idina back to life.’ And what a life it was.” —The Wall Street Journal
 
“Vibrant. . . . Osborne connects vast expanses of the dots that formed Idina’s reality: the gender inequalities in Edwardian England, the economic imperatives of colonialism, the mores of upper-class adultery, the differences between Idina’s aristocratic father . . . and her merely wealthy mother.” —Newsday
 
“Intelligent, moving, and packed with exquisite detail.” —Providence Journal
 
“[Idina Sackville’s] life story, speckled with the names of the rich and famous, is a miniature history lesson, bringing into sharp focus both world wars, the Jazz Age, and the colonization of Kenya. . . . Sackville’s passion lights up the page.” —Entertainment Weekly
 
“[A] rumbustious and harrowing biography that takes us from London to Newport to Kenya. . . . A feast for the Anglophile.” —The New York Times Book Review
 
“Brilliant and utterly divine. . . . A breath of fresh air from a vanished world.” —The Daily Beast
 
The Bolter is a biographical treat.” —Good Housekeeping
 
“Fascinating. . . . Paint[s] an interesting picture of Edwardian England, its social mores and rigors giving way to the wildness of pre-depression Europe.” —Minneapolis Star Tribune
 
“An engaging, definitive final look back at those naughty people who, between the wars, took their bad behavior off to Kenya and whose upper-class delinquency became gilded with unjustified glamour.” —Financial Times
 
“A sympathetic but evenhanded portrait of a woman driven by needs and desires even she didn’t understand.” —The Columbus Dispatch
 
“Truly interesting. Osborne paints an enthralling portrait of upper class English life just before, during and immediately after the Great War. Frivolous, rich, sexy [and] achingly fashionable.” —The Observer (London)
 
“Even today Lady Idina Sackville could get tongues wagging. . . . A lively portrait of the UK-born troublemaker, a woman who took countless lovers, raised hell in England and Africa, inspired novels by Nancy Mitford and carried around a dog she named Satan. . . . Through [Idina’s] story, we not only get a sexy and difficult-to-put-down read, we also get a good look at the shadow side of this prim and proper era and the real women who defied convention to live in it.”—Jessa Crispin, “Books We Like,” NPR
 
“A racy romp underpinned by some impressive research.” —The Sunday Telegraph (London)
 
“Passionate and headstrong, Lady Idina was determined to be free even if the cost was scandal and ruin. Frances Osborne has brilliantly captured not only one woman’s life but an entire lost society.” —Amanda Foreman, author of Georgiana: Duchess of Devonshire
 
“Told very much like a novel, The Bolter introduces readers to a world where every rule is broken and creating a scene is the latest fashion accessory.” —The Daily Texan
 
“Not only is it a beautifully written, intriguing chronicle of a frenetic, privileged, and profoundly sad life, it catches a social group and the mad-cap lives they led—so luxurious, so wasted. . . . Superb.” —Barbara Goldsmith, author of Obsessive Genius and Little Gloria. . . Happy at Last
 
“Drawing on family letters, Osborne’s portrait creates sympathy not for Idina’s reckless behavior but for the emotional emptiness that provoked her far-flung, self defeating yet undeniably glamorous search for love.” —More
 
“Fascinating. . . . Beautifully written. . . . Frances Osborne brings the decadence of Britain’s dying aristocracy vividly to life in this story of scandal and heartbreak.”—Simon Sebag Montefiore, author of Young Stalin and Stalin: The Court of the Red Tsar
 
“Sex, money, glamour, and scandal make Idina Sackville’s story hard to put down.  What brings that story to life is the courage of an incorrigibly stylish survivor. Searching for the woman behind the legend, Osborne [gives us] a heroine impossible to resist.”  —Frances Kiernan, author of The Last Mrs. Astor and Seeing Mary Plain: A life of Mary McCarthy

Product Details

  • Paperback: 368 pages
  • Publisher: Vintage; 1 edition (May 4, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0307476421
  • ISBN-13: 978-0307476425
  • Product Dimensions: 5.2 x 0.8 x 8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (49 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #125,938 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Idina had a very interesting life and I definitely recommend the book. Jane  |  18 reviewers made a similar statement
A most entertaining book, extremely well written and researched. H. P. Barclay  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
Wish I had been there then, well, along with many other places - life is too short! Verne'  |  2 reviewers made a similar statement
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66 of 66 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Lady Idina Sackville's Exciting and Sad Life July 30, 2009
Format:Hardcover
"You don't want to be known as `the Bolter's granddaughter'," warned Frances Osborne's mother. Osborne was the Bolter's great-granddaughter, and the mother was worried about how people might have spoken about herself. The thirteen-year-old Osborne had come across a photograph of the ravishing Lady Idina Sackville, and wanted to know more, for the existence of the scandalous Idina was a dark family secret. "My mother was right to be cautious: Idina and her blackened reputation glistened before me. In an age of wicked women she had pushed the boundaries of behavior to extremes." And thus Osborne was set on years of research, looking into family troves of diaries and letters, as well as society newspaper stories, and conducting interviews of those who knew Idina. Now in _The Bolter_ (Knopf), she has given a biography of the highly-spirited, sad woman whom she never knew. It is sort of a family biographical exorcism, but the book stands well on its own, as a portrait of Idina as well as of the heady times which were her heyday. There is mischievous fun here, and great sadness as well, and the charming and flawed Idina could not have gotten a more sympathetic evaluation.

In 1913, Idina made what has to be considered a conventional marriage to Euan Wallace, a cavalry officer and a millionaire heir. They were blissfully rich, and at least initially were blissful in other ways. "Idina completed her introduction to sex: an activity for which she discovered she had a talent, but which she clearly found so intensely enjoyable that it rapidly became impossible for her to resist any opportunity for it." She was quickly pregnant, and bore Wallace two sons. The couple were busy with a social life in London, and building a mansion in Ayrshire. Then came World War I, and Wallace fought right through it. He did come home on leave, and the reunions were good, except that Idina was ill and could not keep up with Euan's socializing. He fell for another woman, and she determined she would not stand for that sort of abandonment without taking her own lovers. When she fell for Charles Gordon, Euan confronted her, insisting that she had to give up the affair or to divorce. She bolted with Gordon, and in so doing, abandoned her young sons, with whom she would have no contact until they were adults. Gordon was her introduction to British East Africa, later Kenya, where she would live on and off for the rest of her life. Her third marriage was to a sexual equal, Josslyn Hay, Earl of Erroll, who was eight years her junior. Both of them enjoyed having a variety of sexual partners and needed the variety. People who came to parties at their plantation could not just come for an evening; it was a trek to get there, so the gatherings went on for days. Guests could expect to find pajamas and a bottle of whiskey ready on their pillows on arrival. Joss, a teetotaler, filled everyone else's glass and Idina served as the mistress of ceremonies which included games of chance to determine who would bed whom for a particular night. Idina bore Joss her third and final child, a daughter, but he became devoted to another woman and the marriage ended. There were fourth and fifth marriages, and divorces. Idina was to have many other trials. She met both her sons when they were young men. She was charming to them, and they were generous toward her, and she was grateful. Euan died in 1940 of cancer, only 48 years old, and though they had not had contact in decades, she felt the loss. Both the sons with whom she had begun to share affection died during the Second World War. Josslyn Hay was murdered under scandalous circumstances. A reconciliation with the daughter who had been raised by an aunt was cut short by Idina's own death. She died of cancer at age 62, a portrait of Euan at her bedside.

In addition to giving a full picture of Idina's life, Osborne has skillfully described such things as the protocol of Edwardian England, British colonialism in Africa, the accepted standards for adultery, and the grounds for divorce. Idina became memorialized in fiction; she was the model for The Bolter in the novels of Nancy Mitford, and was the model for Iris Storm in Michael Arlen's novel _The Green Hat_. The real Bolter, Osborne shows, had a provocative, exuberant, and eventually sad life that defies imagination. It is good to have this heartfelt biography of the original, a woman who dreamed of a better life and worked to make it happen, and sadly failed. "Whenever she reinvented her life with a new husband," Osborne pointedly writes, "she believed that, this time round, she could make it happen. Yet that better life remained frustratingly out of reach."
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5.0 out of 5 stars The Bolter March 14, 2009
Format:Hardcover
A most entertaining book, extremely well written and researched. The Bolter is the author's great grandmother, although she of course never met her and was only told about her when she was in her early teens. However she become fascinated with Dina's story and somehow has managed to find almost all the details of her life and some very good pictures, which she has made into this fascinating book. Dina was married five times and had three children. She came to live in Kenya after divorcing her first husband, and then spent most of the rest of her life there, living a very `racy' lifestyle, and entertaining her many friends to drink and drug fuelled weekends. She became known as the leader of the `Happy Valley' set, which was the valley where her farm was, in a mountainous area far from Nairobi.

As her story unfolds, one gets more and more sympathetic to Dina and her unusual lifestyle. She became very depressed as she approached middle-age with no close family ties, although she did start to get to know one of her sons just before he was killed and renewed her friendship with her married daughter. The final blow for her, which she never recovered from, was when her first husband and both her sons died within a short time of each other. She herself died about ten years later.

A riveting unputdownable book, especially if you know the country and the people there that are mentioned, as I do.
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47 of 56 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Making sense of a decadent life June 20, 2009
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Book review: The Bolter by Frances Osborne
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The author's intelligent Youtube promo parallels the span of this fascinating book: modern sensibilities stretching the boundries of old guard traditional values, encompassing all with as much reason as abandon.

The book well answers our appalled collective gasp of- how could these real life characters act so?

Those of us who were adolescents or young adults in the 1960's will have no recourse but to identify with the decadent counter-culture within the times profiled in this book. Also, I myself have been to Kenya and understand firsthand its incredible sway.

For the rest, all material whether emotional or historical, no matter how exuberant or painful for subject or reader, is well explained within its context, in Osborne's eminently readable prose.

Thus the book is best for two types of readers: completists of the Happy Valley, Kenya goings on via James Fox' "White Mischief" or Errol Trzebinski's parallel tome, and everyone else in the world with an interest in social history of the first half of the 20th century via well-heeled (and occasionally just heels) Brits and Brit expats.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars okay read
It was a bit too descriptive of the surroundings and less about the people themselves than I expected. At times it was tedious to read. Read more
Published 7 days ago by deborah
2.0 out of 5 stars disappointing
I wanted to like this book but I got about two-thirds of the way through and didn't want to invest any more time reading about idle, self-centered rich people with nothing... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Hope Di Piazza
5.0 out of 5 stars Have we changed
Frances Osborne's well researched story of one of the famous Sackville clan, Idina, is one of those "you can't put it down" books. Read more
Published 4 months ago by brenda
4.0 out of 5 stars The Bolter
The author of this book disovered purely by chance that she was related to Idina Sackville, a woman who spent much of her life involved in, and causing, scandal. Read more
Published 4 months ago by S Riaz
4.0 out of 5 stars Good Read - Tragic Story
Edwardian England's colonial society, perfectly pious on the surface, but randy and reckless in behind-the-doors behavior, focuses on the life of one lady but has enough history to... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Brian G. Eastman
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting and Informative!
This is my third book based on England before, during, and after WWI. I thoroughly enjoyed Osborne's informative book about her great-grandmother. Read more
Published 4 months ago by J. Barnes
3.0 out of 5 stars The difference between Edwardian England and Happy Valley
I spent 2 years in Kenya during the 1980s and knew nothing about Happy Valley or Lady Idina. Even so, among a number of the expats I met, there lingered an air of impermanence. Read more
Published 5 months ago by S. Hunter
4.0 out of 5 stars Fun and games
Great insight into the social behaviors and liaisons inspite of the supposed stiff upper lip and so called propiety of the time. Money and social position all.important!
Published 7 months ago by Peter W R Gardner
3.0 out of 5 stars Men & booze, infidelity & booze, rinse & repeat
Was there any group less happy than the 'Happy Valley' crowd in Africa? I have yet to find one happy member in that valley. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Rebecca
4.0 out of 5 stars The Bolter
The book arrived quickly and was in very good condition as advertised. I was very pleased and would definitely order from this vendor again. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Jane
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