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The Bonobo and the Atheist: In Search of Humanism Among the Primates Hardcover – March 25, 2013

ISBN-13: 978-0393073775 ISBN-10: 0393073777 Edition: 1st

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  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company; 1st edition (March 25, 2013)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0393073777
  • ISBN-13: 978-0393073775
  • Product Dimensions: 9.5 x 6.4 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (110 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #212,903 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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“The perpetual challenge to atheists is that moral behavior requires religion—all that prevents tsunamis of depravity is a deity or two, some nice hymns, and the threat of hellfire and damnation. De Waal shows that human morality is deeply rooted in our primate legacy, long predating the invention of that cultural gizmo called religion. This is an immensely important book by one of our most distinguished thinkers.” (Robert Sapolsky, author of Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers and Monkeyluv)

“De Waal’s decades of patient work documenting the ‘building blocks’ of morality in other animals has revolutionized not just primatology but moral psychology. By revealing our commonalities with other species, he gives us more compassion for them and also for ourselves. It’s impossible to look an ape in the eye and not see oneself, de Waal tells us, and this beautifully written book is one long riveting gaze.” (Jonathan Haidt, author of The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion)

“Frans de Waal offers us a wealth of inspiring observations from the animal realm, combined with thoughtful reflections on the evolution of morality. He makes a convincing case for the natural foundations of a secular ethics that is fully independent of religion without being dogmatically against it.” (Matthieu Ricard, Buddhist monk, scientist, and author of Happiness and The Quantum and the Lotus)

“Frans de Waal’s new book carries the important message that human kindness is a biological feature of our species and not something that has to be imposed on us by religious teaching.” (Desmond Morris, author of The Naked Ape)

“Primatologist De Waal seeks to move beyond the faith-vs.-science divide in this reflection on the origins of morality,drawing from his famed work studying apes.... Readers will enjoy De Waal's affectionate, colorful accounts of animal behavior, and those of religious faith will especially appreciate the author's respectful attitude.” (Publishers Weekly)

“A well-composed argument for the biological foundations of human morality.” (Kirkus Reviews)

“This is a writer marshaling the evidence of his life, particularly his life as a scientist, to express a passionately held belief in the possibility of a more compassionate society.” (Meehan Crist - New Republic)

“A primatologist who has spent his career studying chimpanzees and bonobos, two of humanity’s closest living relatives, Mr. de Waal draws on a lifetime of empirical research. His data provides plenty of evidence that religion is not necessary in order for animals to display something that looks strikingly like human morality.” (The Economist)

About the Author

Frans de Waal is a Dutch/American biologist who has been named among Time magazine’s 100 Most Influential People. The author of Our Inner Ape among many other works, he is the C. H. Candler Professor at Emory University and director of the Living Links Center at the Yerkes Primate Center. De Waal lives in Atlanta, Georgia.

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I am curious to see where this will go in the future.
T. A. Smedes
His insight into primate behavior and the relationship and characteristics we share with other primates like the bonobo are truly enlightening.
Peter Daroczy
He also offers a very balanced view of both religion and atheism.
Laurencia Wright

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104 of 116 people found the following review helpful By Fifth Generation Texan on March 7, 2013
Format: Hardcover
Re: The bonobo, the atheist, the primatologist and the pope

I finished reading what the bonobo would say to the atheist just as the conclave of cardinals was preparing to convene in Rome to select Pope Benedict's replacement. What better time to have one of the world's wisest primate ethologists remind us of morality's "humble beginnings". Far from anti-religion, de Waal seeks to replace notions like original sin with a more scientifically justifiable "bottom up perspective" according to which "morality predates religion". Rather than "imposed from above or derived from well reasoned principles...", sensitivity to others, concern for "fairness", "love of harmony" and other "moral laws" derive from "ancient capacities" of apes with a deep history of social living. If our "incredibly superstitious species" is receptive to Christianity it is "because of our evolved grasp of the value of relationships, the benefits of cooperation, the need for trust and honesty..." Far from nihilistic, de Waal's wonderfully literate, disarmingly candid, and wonderfully entertaining romp though the animal origins of morality bears a potentially promising message. As the Australian anthropologist Les Hiatt once commented (writing about de Waal's predecessor, the evolutionary anthropologist Edward Westermarck who a century earlier, on the basis of far, far less evidence about other animals, similarly sought to trace morality's origins): "The policy of expanding amity symbolized by the dove, may be something of an evolutionary novelty; but when the hawks hover, it is comforting to remember that (amity's) roots in the human lineage run very deep". Nor is it just a matter of hoping so. As de Waal points out, there is considerable evidence that it is so. I loved this book.
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19 of 20 people found the following review helpful By Kevin on May 29, 2013
Format: Hardcover
Unlike de Waal's previous book, "The Age of Empathy", this new book lacks a unifying purpose; a cogent writer's vision. De Waal spends much of his book railing against the "neo-atheists", saving most of his vitriol for Sam Harris and the late Christopher Hitchens. At one point de Waal even sullies himself by suggesting that strident atheists may have perhaps suffered as altar boys. Of course, de Waal never seems to take into account all of those atheists who feel discriminated against or threatened by religious fundamentalists. If religious fundamentalists are feverishly trying to reshape public policy according to their anti-science dogma, then this is all news to de Waal. De Waal even downplays the war on science, and at times seems to suggest that it may be a phoney war. That de Waal happens to live in a state well-known for attacking science in public schools through anti-evolutionist, anti-science legislation, is really quite amusing. At times de Waal even directs his anger toward scientists and the scientific method. Oh, and amid all of this chaos, including a particularly annoying and recurring Bosch meme, the author even manages to find a bit of time to talk about the great apes. You know, I read this entire book and I still don't really know what it was all about. The Bonobo and the Atheist: In trying to do too much, Frans de Waal did nothing at all.
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29 of 33 people found the following review helpful By DJ Arboretum on August 21, 2013
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I was very disappointed that there was not more about the bonobos and their behaviour. The author diverged into diatribes against the active atheist movement and Richard Dawkins in particular. This detracted from his message and made me question his objectivity. I prefer my popular science with more science.
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148 of 184 people found the following review helpful By Dawn Forsythe on March 27, 2013
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Let me start with an admission: I didn't finish reading this book. Please take that into consideration when reading my comments...

I love bonobos and I'm an atheist, so I expected to submerge myself into a great read, but I'm struggling with this one. Reading de Waal's book is uncomfortable. I feel like I've walked into a private argument between people who evidently have spent years sniping at each other from afar -- but now de Waal has decided to take it to his opponents, personally.

I wanted de Waal's insights to help explain why people think they need religion to be moral, but I have no idea what the hell he's talking about. He'll write a bit about apes, and then take off into an argument with "theoreticians" or (gasp!) "scientists" who evidently have tried to make points with which he disagrees. Who are these people he is criticizing? Is this another one of those arguments between humanists, skeptics, free-thinkers, and atheists? And what did they say that has pissed him off so much?

I get it that he doesn't agree with the strident "new" atheists. I understand that a segment of the atheist community finds Richards Dawkins a bit, well... a bit too much. And Christopher Hitchens is an acquired taste, especially when he's at his angry best. (Disclosure: I enjoy reading Hitchens, and I value the time I saw him speak - a couple of days before he was told he had stage four cancer.) Are you with me, reader? If you don't know what I'm talking about, de Waal's book will make absolutely no sense to you. Even though I know some of the arguments of the popularized atheists Frans opposes, I still got lost when he started into people I don't know.

De Waal has so much insight to add to the discussion of evolution, science, morals, and religion.
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