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The Boy Kings: A Journey into the Heart of the Social Network [Kindle Edition]

Katherine Losse
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Kate Losse was a grad school refugee when she joined Facebook as employee #51 in 2005. Hired to answer user questions such as “What is a poke?” and “Why can’t I access my ex-girlfriend’s profile?” her early days at the company were characterized by a sense of camaraderie, promise, and ambition: Here was a group of scrappy young upstarts on a mission to rock Silicon Valley and change the world.

Over time, this sense of mission became so intense that working for Facebook felt like more than just a job; it implied a wholehearted dedication to “the cause.” Employees were incentivized to live within one mile of the office, summers were spent carousing at the company pool house, and female employees were told to wear T-shirts with founder Mark Zuckerberg’s profile picture on his birthday. Losse started to wonder what this new medium meant for real-life relationships: Would Facebook improve our social interactions? Or would we all just adapt our behavior to the habits and rules of these brilliant but socially awkward Internet savants who have become today’s youngest power players? Increasingly skeptical, Losse graduated from customer service to the internationalization team—tasked with rolling out Facebook to the rest of the world— finally landing a seat right outside Zuckerberg’s office as his personal ghostwriter, the voice of the boy king.

This book takes us for the first time into the heart of this fast-growing information empire, inviting us to high-level meetings with Zuckerberg; lifting the veil on long nights of relentless hacking and trolling; taking us behind the scenes of raucous company parties; and introducing us to the personalities, values, and secret ambitions of the floppy-haired boy wonders who are redefining the way we live, love, and work. By revealing here what’s really driving both the business and the culture of the social network, Losse answers the biggest question of all: What kind of world is Facebook trying to build, and is it the world we want to live in? 


“Logging on to Facebook that first day, in retrospect, was the second, and to date the last, time that any technology has captured my imagination. The first was when Apple advertised the first laptop, the PowerBook, in the 1990s—with the words, ‘What’s on your PowerBook?’

“‘World domination,’ my teenaged self- answered instinctively. That’s what these devices were made for, I thought: so small and yet so powerful, so capable of linking quickly to and between everything else in the world. From the laptop, I could write and distribute information faster than ever before. It was intoxicating to imagine, and Facebook’s sudden, faithful rendering in 2004 of the physical world into the virtual felt the same. What could you do, now that you could see and connect to everyone and everything, instantly?

“But what, also, could be diminished by such quick access? In the realm of ideas, it seemed easy: Who wouldn’t want to distribute and discuss ideas widely? However, in the realm of the personal, it seemed more complicated. What was the benefit of doing everything in public? Is information itself neutral, or do different types of information have different values, different levels of expectation of privacy, different implications for distribution and consumption? Should all information be shared equally quickly and without regard to my relationship to it? And, finally, and most important, as we ask whenever we begin a new relationship with anything, would this be good for me?”

-- From the Introduction


Editorial Reviews


""The Boy Kings" needs a place on your summer reading list. Losse made me think twice about how I socialize with people, and how exactly that came to be--and it just might encourage you to hop offline and appreciate non-virtual reality." "--Glamour "

About the Author

Katherine Losse was born in Phoenix, Arizona, and holds a master’s degree in English from Johns Hopkins University. She lives in Marfa, Texas.

Product Details

  • File Size: 525 KB
  • Print Length: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Free Press (June 26, 2012)
  • Sold by: Simon and Schuster Digital Sales Inc
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B007MAXH38
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #534,280 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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36 of 42 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Not the tell-all it's portrayed as, but... July 9, 2012
Format:Kindle Edition
The media attempted to show this book as a tell-all about the culture of working for Facebook (which it does, to an extent) and seeing what really drives Mark Zuckerberg and makes him tick (which it doesn't). First and foremost, this book is about the adventures of Kate Losse and her journey up the ladder of Facebook, a story made all the more remarkable considering the male-dominated culture she worked in.

Losse takes us on a ride that begins with a Johns Hopkins graduate joining Facebook's customer-support team, through to her promotion to the Internationalization team, and shooting all the way up to being Zuckerberg's official ghostwriter. The story goes back and forth between reading like a description of her work culture and reading like a lengthy diary entry, as she goes from stories of AIM chats (using AIM at work was a requirement) and long hours into the night (as the engineers were often required when writing algorithms) to parties in Las Vegas and annual trips to the Coachella music festival.

Although the book is extremely well written, it is not particularly memorable and at times Losse's thoughts, although thought-provoking, become repetitive as she constantly questions whether Facebook is really bringing people together or turning the world into one big virtual reality. If you've seen the movie "The Social Network", then very little of the information presented here - about Facebook's work culture as well as Zuckerberg himself - will come as a surprise. That is the main criticism I have for the book - you don't learn much that you didn't already know or could guess at. The culture is very much like a frat house, with the guys often playing games like chess and beer-pong and sometimes sending erotic messages (usually in fun, but not always) to the female workers.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Facebook and Philosophy July 2, 2012
This is a thoughtful book about technology, our fetishization of it, and what that can mean in the long run. Clearly written by a person well-grounded in the humanities, this book explores the explosive growth of Facebook with its need for data and more data. The engineers are given free rein to come up with applications, such as photo and video, but never question why they are doing it or what the moral or ethical implications of it are. Users gleefully give over their private data to a company, they live their lives online and in public, but think little of it. Ms. Losse gives an example early on: at a party, she posed covered in a bearskin, doubled over with laughter as Mr. Zuckerberg points to her. The photo is posted on Facebook and the engineers are delighted that they can post the photo, since the app had just been developed; it's the technical achievement that is important, not what the photo is; it could have been a photo of a can of soup for all it mattered. But Ms. Losse considers how the photo could be (mis)interpreted by someone who doesn't know the context. This is not a tell-all; anyone looking for dirt won't find it here. She is grateful for the oppportunities she has had at the company and the financial security it has given her, but she begins to question the direction in which the company is going. The author wants us to consider that just because something can be done does not mean that it should be done. A very worthwhile read.
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4.0 out of 5 stars A thoughtful book, worth reading April 15, 2013
"Boy Kings" is a disturbing book about the early years of Facebook, the social network giant. Author Katherine Losse was employee number 51 at the company and only the second woman to start working there. She describes the prurient fraternity house atmosphere of the place, her oddball co-workers and their self-styled hacker ethos, and the breakneck pace in which everybody worked and played.

Some of this book is devoted to musing about social networking and whether on balance it is alienating or really does make connections between people. The author, as she spent more time at Facebook, became more and more disillusioned with the company's utopian mission to make information more available. She frets about loss of privacy. She frets about whether Facebook prevents what she terms "authentic connections."

To me what was most interesting (and disturbing) about the book were the portraits of her co-workers, including Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook. We learn that Zuckerberg occasionally ordered a "lock down" whereby workers had to stay in the office for many hours at a time (this is against the law and I wondered why Losse didn't remark on it in her book). He gave incentives to workers to live nearby the Facebook office so that they could always be on call. Altogether, this book makes Facebook seem more like a cult than a company. On Zuckerberg's birthday, the women employees were required to wear T-shirts with his face on them; the men to wear his trademark sandals. Details like this kept me interested in this book.

Facebook put author Katherine Losse through the ringer, but at least she was rewarded in the end when she cashed in her stock options.
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13 of 17 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Some truth, but mostly fiction April 6, 2013
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I worked at Facebook with the author during the era "chronicled" in the book. For the most part, I found that she took extreme latitude in her storytelling with a great deal of embellishments and exaggerations; some events actually never occurred or occurred in a very, very different way. For many of her former coworkers this was really disappointing to see.

I would enjoy a less fictionalized story of the early days at Facebook, preferably without the sophomoric meandering writing style and forced "heady" metaphors. If you want sensationalized fiction of the story, read "The Accidental Billionaires" by Ben Mezrich. If you want non-fiction, "The Facebook Effect" by David Kirkpatrick is good. Unfortunately this book's format sits between in a mess of truths and un-truths that are unfair both to the author and all the characters within.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Silicon Valley Culture, through the lens of Facebook
Facebook, as portrayed in Kate Losse's book The Boy Kings is a case study of Silicon Valley culture in the twenty-first century. Read more
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Book is really boring. It tells nothing interesting or new that hasn't been heard before. Seriously, there is not one exciting part in this whole book. Read more
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If you wanna know how Facebook was in its early days, this is the book you should read.
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If this book weren't classified as a "memoir" (according to Wikipedia), I would have given this book only 1 star. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars the philosophy of facebook
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5.0 out of 5 stars Interesting read, specially for anyone who's worked at a startup.
Katherine made an interesting and entertaining book. But that maybe because of the many similarities it had with the startup I worked in. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Jos Flix Scott Mrquez
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