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“Our AARP members tell us that one of the most difficult challenges they face is caring for a spouse or loved one who has become disabled or terminally ill. In The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook, Dr. Denholm provides the tools and practical advice caregivers need to navigate these rough waters and to emerge at peace with themselves and their loved ones.”

A. Barry Rand
CEO, AARP

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 168 pages
  • Publisher: Hunter House; 1 edition (January 3, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0897936051
  • ISBN-13: 978-0897936057
  • Product Dimensions: 0.5 x 5 x 8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (45 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #135,404 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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38 of 39 people found the following review helpful By Dee Long on February 6, 2012
Format: Paperback
We're sorry that author Denholm characterized this book as a "wife's handbook" because the sobering and solid advice she gives can apply equally to men and women and anyone faced with caring for a chronically or terminally ill loved one.
Denholm pulls no punches about the difficulties surrounding being either a full-time or part-time caregiver. She writes from personal experience and the experience of those who have been through the fire of frustration, guilt and exhaustion that accompanies the caregiver role.
The "Boulder Activity" outlined to help eliminate anger and pent up resentment, as well as her list of 50 "Do's and Don'ts" are well worth the price of the book alone. This is a must-have manual for anyone facing the dilemna of how to care for another while still caring about their own safety and sanity.
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19 of 19 people found the following review helpful By Amazon Customer on April 11, 2012
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If anyone is dealing with an elderly spouse, I highly recommend Diana's book, The Caregiver Wife's Handbook. Lot's of good, practical advice on how to let go without regret. I read it twice. Cried my eyes out and also laughed. It is a tough time and new territory for many of us. AVM - South Riding, Virginia
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful By Cathy S. Kohut on April 10, 2012
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A must read for all caregivers. The author has lived through the pathos of caring for an ill husband for 11 years.
Her personal story coupled with invaluable guidance makes this a book a healing companion for any caregiver.
I recommend highly
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12 of 13 people found the following review helpful By kelly on April 12, 2012
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I purchased The Caregiving Handbook because I thought that my sister-in-law, a caregiver, might find some suggestions and pathways to follow. After reading it, I knew that this book would provide her with a wealth of ideas and the support of a wise friend.
I asked for permission to send it, and a week later my sister-in-law called to say how much she had learned. Send this book to everyone who is at any step along the way of caring for someone else!
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful By David Hesse on April 11, 2012
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I just finished reading the good doctor's book and I have friends who have gone through similar situations as Dr. Denholm has gone through. I didn't realize the emotional anguish they went through until I read this book. I recommend it for everyone even if you don't have a loved one in need of special care. Some good advice on opening up and letting your loved one know your true feelings.
DH Roswell GA
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By Lost In Your Care on August 5, 2012
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Diana Denholm has written a frank, practical guide to managing the process of living with a terminally ill spouse. She provides clear and useful information. In addition to her impressive educational background, she has first hand experience as a caregiver and a widow.

While the book is written for wives living with terminally ill husbands, I found the personal stories and detailed advice useful for any long-term caregiver. The information included is honest and validating. Caregiving is a stressful, relentless role, which Ms. Denholm helps to make sense of, for anyone who wishes to get the answers. This book is a quick, easy read for busy caregivers.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By Victor Pfaus on August 10, 2013
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I always thought we'd live happily ever after...No bride ever thinks she will end up living with a chronically ill husband. Mine has multiple sclerosis, the progressive kind that just gets worse. This book is short on sympathy,but long on understanding and features many questions. I have been unable to find a Caregiver Support Group in my area, so this book has to fill in for me. The author is a "veteran" at this and has counselled many women with similar situations. Very helpful reading!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Julie on January 16, 2013
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If nothing else, it was worth reading this book because it gave me a new appreciation for the good-natured patient my husband is. As a caregiver, you tend to feel alone, and this book proved that there are MANY of us out here as well as gave practical guidelines of things to say or do in certain situations. I would recommend this to anyone, not just wives, who plays a large role in caring for someone disabled or chronically ill. The book focuses more on preparing for death than I would have liked, but, hey, who really LIKES to think things may never improve? Worth your time.
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