In college, Jeff felt called to the ministry, but deferred that calling while trying to come to terms with being gay. In the meantime, he attended Harvard Law School, graduating with honors in 1983. Several years later, after intensive study of the Bible and homosexuality, Jeff came to peace with being gay. Soon he discovered the Metropolitan Community Churches, a Christian denomination that has arisen out of the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender community. There, Jeff realized he could fulfill his call to ministry. He completed his clergy training and was ordained in 1997.
Before his ordination, Jeff worked as an attorney for 13 years, last serving as a Deputy Chief Council for a federal banking agency.
Jeff lives with his spouse, David Zier. They were joined in Holy Union on September 8, 1990.
John Tyler Connoley is the son of Wesleyan missionaries. He spent most of his childhood years in Zambia, Africa, and has lived in Korea, the Philippines, and all of the West Coast states.
He came out to himself in 1991, while attending Indiana Wesleyan University, and has since sought to live a life that integrates his deep faith in God with his sexuality. While working on this book, Tyler completed his M.A. in Biblical Studies at Earlham School of Religion in Richmond, Indiana.
He is married to Rob Connoley.
Great book explaining the Bible verses that are used against the LGBT community.Published 22 days ago by Michelle Baeslack
Probably the best book on this subject I have read. I highly recommend it for people struggling to reconcile their sexuality and their faith. Read morePublished 2 months ago by D. Kayter
Amazing book, at first I have to say I was a little skeptical because it's a book about gay people and their problems being Christian written by a gay christian. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
I'm a preacher's kid and this was life changing! I convinced my parents to listen to the last half and they were speechless. Read morePublished 8 months ago by Juliannem
This is a gentle, irenic treatment of an issue (or series of issues) that raise all sorts of strong emotions, and often cause a lot of shouting but little dialogue. Read morePublished 10 months ago by glauber