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dumbing down of america
on October 25, 2012
I applaud the author for her work with young girls.
As someone who came through the US public school system in the early 80's I know how painful it can be and I think the initiative of this foundation is excellent.
Setting up meetings and big-sister type relationships amongst girls having bullying problems, is a great idea and probably works very well in the field.
However the translation into this book is rather disappointing.
The author spends a disproportionate amount of time discussing her own situation (she is not a mother just a young woman who came through school with the typical bullying girl meanness history many of us had).
The quotes from girls in the field are somehow empty, superficial, hollow and bland... I realize this is how these girls express themselves and the quotes are sincere and unabridged but I came away with a sense of embarrassment.
I wanted a book with specific tips and tricks for helping my daughter stand up for herself, when faced with a mean group of girls in her swimming team.
This was not the book that provided any real answers to me, besides 1) trying to find an older "big-sister" figure she could talk to, (2) doing community service so she realizes others are less fortunate than herself ...