Pavao is a nationally known family and adoption therapist who works with adoptive children and their families. Her authority and insight come from her combined experience both as a professional therapist and as an adopted child. In The Family of Adoption, Pavao describes the grief processes, dilemmas, and potentials for healing of birth mothers and adoptive parents. A strong advocate for adopted children, she discusses the difference between secrecy and privacy--a crucial distinction in adoption--and lends a strong voice to the movement for openness. Pavao is the first specialist to clearly identify and demonstrate predictable, understandable developmental stages and challenges for every adoptee (pointing out, for example, that adopted children tend to daydream, and may have a more challenging adolescence), and elucidates patterns that adoptive parents may witness as their children grow.
As adoption becomes more discussed and less taboo, the emotional road maps become clearer for adoptive families, birth mothers, and children of adoption. The Family of Adoption is a gentle, essential addition to the literature that will help guide families of adoption along the path. --Ericka Lutz --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
This gives a good overview of a broad range of aspects of adoption. Also, Helpful for young adult siblings of an adopted family member.Published 10 months ago by Patricia D. Keenan
This was a recommendation from my sister in law as we prepared for our adoption. It was helpful in identifying some potential challenges adoptive children and parents may face,... Read morePublished 19 months ago by M. Proctor
Coming from being adopted and now becoming an adoptive parent my husband and I have learned a lot from this bookPublished 24 months ago by troup11x3
The book makes a good case that the way we handle adoptions needs to be more concerned with everyone involved. Read morePublished on March 4, 2013 by Keri J. Knorpp
If my parents could have read only one book on adoption, The Family of Adoption is the one I would have chosen for them. Read morePublished on July 16, 2012 by Lois Godel
This book was a good quick read. It was recommended by my agency. I felt like it was kind of a downer, not very positive, but it was the first book I read about thsi topic before I... Read morePublished on March 9, 2011 by Beth305
I may disagree slightly with other reviewers of this book, but as a pre-adoptive parent, this book has been slightly difficult for me to read. Read morePublished on August 2, 2009 by Gillian Cooper
This is a MUST READ for truly understanding adoption from the adoptee's perspective.
I highly recommend this book as it provides so many insightful examples and... Read more