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The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Suppose to Be and Embrace Who You Are [Kindle Edition]

Brene Brown
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Book Description

I wish my nose was smaller. I feel guilty every time I leave my kids in day care. I'm afraid to say what I really think. I hate these thunder thighs. I should be married by now. I sounded so dumb. Whether we fixate on our bodies, minds, personalities, or actions, every woman struggles with feelings of not being good enough. Each day we face a barrage of images and ideas--from society and the media--telling us who we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only change those flaws by looking perfect and leading a perfect life, then we'd no longer feel inadequate.

In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brene Brown, Ph.D., the leading expert on shame, reveals that it is actually our imperfections that connect us to one another as human beings and make us who we are. We are naturally drawn to those we view as authentic, real, and down-to-earth. It makes sense, then, that we should stop reaching for something "better" and, instead, strive to be who we are, fully owning every aspect of ourselves. Through essays, stories, inspiring quotes, meditations, and dynamic creative exercises designed for personal discovery and growth, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits in finding the greatness in our flaws and evolving our self-perceptions. She helps us develop the skills to accept our humanness with compassion and practice empathy with ourselves and others.


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From Publishers Weekly

Brown, author or I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn't), again urges us to expose and expel our insecurities in order to have the most fulfilling life possible. Her latest is a guidebook for pilgrims on the journey to wholehearted living, which she defines as containing courage, compassion, deliberate boundaries, and connection. She has defined 10 guideposts for personal introspection, which involve cultivating some positive quality, whether it be authenticity, self-compassion, or a resilient spirit, intuition, meaningful work, or laughter. Each guidepost is the focus of a chapter that contains illustrative stories, primarily from her own life; definitions, including the difference between shame and guilt; quotes from such diverse sources as Diane Ackerman and E.E. Cummings; and brief suggestions of activities that she pursues with the assumption that they might help her audience. Although these activities are highlighted in her introduction to the book, they are in short supply and the book functions more as a chatty meditation on the guideposts. Despite occasional moments of insight, this book's primary value may be in spurring thought and providing references to other authors that will provide further inspiration for those seeking a more meaningful life. (Oct.)

From Booklist

Human-behavior researcher and author of I Thought It Was Just Me (2007), Brown has made a career out of studying difficult emotions such as fear and shame. In this latest book, she emphasizes that above all other ingredients of living an emotionally healthy life is the importance of loving ourselves. In the grips of what she took to be a breakdown, or midlife crisis, Brown came to understand she was experiencing a “spiritual awakening” and worked to explore its significance and the interaction of knowing and understanding yourself and loving yourself. She intersperses her own personal journey with research and clinical observations of others of the work of living a “wholehearted” life, or “engaging in our lives from a place of worthiness.” The point is to embrace life and oneself with all the imperfections, releasing the stress of overdoing and overworking. Brown offers exercises for readers to plumb their own emotions and begin to develop the kind of resilience needed to stand up to unrealistic expectations of others and ourselves. --Vanessa Bush

Product Details

  • File Size: 1220 KB
  • Print Length: 158 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 159285849X
  • Publisher: Hazelden; 1 edition (September 20, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0043M678A
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • X-Ray: Enabled
  • Lending: Not Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #57,661 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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Very insightful and and easy to read! Cina Sherriff  |  59 reviewers made a similar statement
This book changed my life. wholeheartedjoel  |  45 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
280 of 300 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I loved this book with my whole-heart. September 30, 2010
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The Gifts of Imperfection is a little gem of a book that offers readers a way to change their lives through adopting the practices of "wholehearted" living. Brené Brown shows us how to live more authentic and compassionate lives, while learning to embrace our imperfections, and recognize what issues get in our way, such as shame and fear. Although the book is an easy read on one level, it is a complex blueprint for living could take a lifetime to put into practice. The author challenges long-held notions and helped me see the world in new ways. She unpacks concepts such as the difference between happiness and joy and courage and heroics. The journey to a wholehearted life can be a spiritual process, and Dr. Brown is a rather unusual guide, a cross between the Dalai Lama and Wanda Sykes. One moment her words inspire hope and compassion and then belly laughs. She is brutally honest about her own strengths and struggles, so her words come not from an elevated plane, but from walking right beside, or maybe a little ahead, of the reader. Words such as "life-changing" and "revolutionary" are too often used and very clichéd, but they do describe this book. It would be a revolution in this country, and this world, if everyone practiced wholehearted living. That is a world that I want to live in. I am signing up for the revolution today, with my whole heart.
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136 of 154 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Required Reading - A Living Guide October 2, 2010
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I have just purchased 40 more copies to give to my closest friends and clients! This book heralds the solid research of Dr. Brene Brown and leads us toward an authentic approach to living a life devoid of the many misguided concepts of "personal perfectionism". Every human on the planet should read this book, then read it again with your spouse and adult children. Both this and her previous book will live in my library for the rest of my life.
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256 of 296 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Reads like a blog; 130 pages, not the 260 Amazon lists February 20, 2011
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This isn't a bad book if you don't mind that it reads like a blog and is as deep as most blogs. First, it has 120 pages of text, plus blank pages, lots of white space, and some notes. Amazon has the page count completely wrong (as of Feb 2011, they list it at 260 pages). The author takes on large topics but doesn't go far with any of them. The chapter on "Cultivating Creativity" is about 4-1/2 pages. The one sub-titled "Letting Go of Perfectionism," presumably the focus of the book, is 7 pages. To be fair, there is a 17-page chapter. Within each chapter there's a brief discussion of the topic plus a few anecdotes--mostly from the author's life--some quotes from other people's work, a few references to the author's own research, and then a little advice. Although she says she's collected 10,000 stories in her research, she shares almost none of them here nor does she back up most of her assertions with evidence, studies, etc. For example, she says you can't have resilience ("the capacity to overcome adversity") if you aren't religious or spiritual ("recognizing and celebrating that we are all inextricably connected to each other by a power greater than all of us...") but gives no basis for it.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful book!
My first time seeing you was on u tube. I felt I could really relate to what you had to say. So I bought this book, it has been a wonderful reading experience . Read more
Published 5 hours ago by R. FLoyd
4.0 out of 5 stars I'm OK!
Brene's work gave me permission to accept myself the way I am - imperfections and all. And when I authentically embrace my flaws and show them to others, it gives them permission... Read more
Published 12 hours ago by Laura Deter
5.0 out of 5 stars Outstanding
I thoroughly enjoyed the book as the author shared her story in how to deal with meeting the criteria for the Gifts of Imperfection
Published 20 hours ago by Judith O. Nassmacer
1.0 out of 5 stars Little to it
Who wouldn't be able to embrace themself? Be able to embrace their real self and not be forced into a character? Too live Wholehearted? Read more
Published 3 days ago by THH
5.0 out of 5 stars Read it twice in one sitting!.
This is one of those books that half way through you say, "Hey, wait a minute! Did she just say.... Read more
Published 3 days ago by K. Sloan
5.0 out of 5 stars Read this first....
I am glad I read this book before reading Dr. Brown's Daring Greatly. This prelude to Dr. Brown's research on wholeheartedness brings the circle to a completion. I am a huge fan.
Published 3 days ago by lisa
5.0 out of 5 stars Another excellent book from Brené Brown
One thing that I absolutely love about Brené Brown is that she is not a self-help guru, but a researcher. Read more
Published 6 days ago by L. Robles
5.0 out of 5 stars Easy read with inspirational key points for daily living!
You can open the book anywhere and receive an important message for that day! I truly have enjoyed my book.
Published 6 days ago by ninette davis
5.0 out of 5 stars Review of The Gifts of Imperfection by Grandma!
What a great self-help book! I wish I had it when I was younger!! However, It is great book in helping me deal with
the people of today.
Published 6 days ago by Wilma McDermott
5.0 out of 5 stars Best Believe-in-Yourself Literature Out There!
We all need a big dose of acceptance of our selves, warts and all. This book, based on years of research and exploration by the author, sheds encouraging light on the value of... Read more
Published 8 days ago by J. Tretow-Schmitz
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More About the Author

Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. She has spent the past twelve years studying vulnerability, courage, worthiness, and shame. Her groundbreaking research has been featured on PBS, NPR, CNN, The Washington Post, and The New York Times.

Brené's 2010 TEDxHouston talk, The Power of Vulnerability, is one of the top ten most viewed TED talks on TED.com, with approximately 6 million viewers. Additionally, Brené gave the closing talk at the 2012 TED conference where she talked about shame, courage, and innovation.

Brené's newest book is, Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the way we Live, Love, Parent, and Lead (Gotham, 2012). She is also the author of The Gifts of Imperfection (2010), and I Thought It Was Just Me (2007), and Connections (2009); a shame-resilience curriculum being facilitated by helping professionals across the globe.

Brené lives in Houston with her husband, Steve, and their two children, Ellen and Charlie.



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