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The Grace of Silence: A Memoir (Vintage) [Kindle Edition]

Michele Norris
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In the wake of talk of a “postracial” America upon Barack Obama’s ascension as president of the United States, Michele Norris, cohost of National Public Radio’s flagship program All Things Considered, set out to write, through original reporting, a book about “the hidden conversation” on race that is unfolding nationwide. She would, she thought, base her book on the frank disclosures of others on the subject, but she was soon disabused of her presumption when forced to confront the fact that “the conversation” in her own family had not been forthright.
 
Norris unearthed painful family secrets that compelled her to question her own self-understanding: from her father’s shooting by a Birmingham police officer weeks after his discharge from the navy at the conclusion of World War II to her maternal grandmother’s peddling pancake mix as an itinerant Aunt Jemima to white farm women in the Midwest. In what became a profoundly personal and bracing journey into her family’s past, Norris traveled from her childhood home in Minneapolis to her ancestral roots in the Deep South to explore the reasons for the “things left unsaid” by her father and mother when she was growing up, the better to come to terms with her own identity. Along the way she discovered how her character was forged by both revelation and silence.
 
Extraordinary for Norris’s candor in examining her own racial legacy and what it means to be an American, The Grace of Silence is also informed by rigorous research in its evocation of time and place, scores of interviews with ordinary folk, and wise observations about evolving attitudes, at once encouraging and disturbing, toward race in America today. For its particularity and universality, it is powerfully moving, a tour de force.


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From Publishers Weekly

In this eloquent and affecting memoir, Norris, co-host of NPR's All Things Considered, examines both her family's racial roots and secrets. Spurred on by Barack Obama's campaign and a multipart NPR piece she spearheaded about race relations in America, Norris realized that she couldn't fully understand how other people talked about race until she understood how her own family dealt with it, particularly with their silence regarding two key events. She intersperses memories of her Minneapolis childhood with the events that shaped her parents' lives: her maternal grandmother's short career as a traveling "Aunt Jemima," which always embarrassed her mother, and her father's shooting by a white policeman in Alabama in 1946. It is the shooting, which occurred soon after Belvin Norris Jr. was honorably discharged from the navy, that forms the narrative and emotional backbone of Norris's story, as she travels to Birmingham to try and piece together what happened. Though the quest is a personal one, Norris poignantly illuminates the struggle of black veterans returning home and receiving nothing but condemnation for their service. The issue of race in America is the subject of an ongoing conversation, and Norris never shies away from asking the same difficult questions of herself that she asks of others because "all of us should be willing to remain at the table even when things get uncomfortable."
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*Starred Review* Lauded journalist Norris, cohost for All Things Considered on NPR, intended to write a book analyzing the changing conversation about race in the Obama era. But once she realized that even within her own family, discussions about race were “not completely honest,” she changed course. The result is an investigative family memoir of rare candor and artistry that dramatically reveals essential yet hidden aspects of African American life. A fifth-generation Minnesotan on her mother’s side, Norris was stunned to learn that her maternal grandmother worked for Quaker Oats as a traveling Aunt Jemima, a revelation that sparks a paramount interpretation of this loaded icon. The next shock was discovering that when her father returned to Birmingham, Alabama, after serving in WWII, he was shot by a white policeman. This painful secret inspires a commanding exposé of the “scandalous violence against black men who had fought for human rights abroad” only to be denied freedom at home. A balance-beam writer, Norris looks at both sides of every question while seeking truth’s razor-edge. But she is also a remarkably warm, witty, and spellbinding storyteller, enriching her illuminating family chronicle with profound understanding of the protective “grace of silence” and the powers unchained when, at last, all that has been unsaid is finally spoken. --Donna Seaman

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4.5 out of 5 stars
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4.5 out of 5 stars
I read this as a recommendation from our book club. Barbara J. Anthony  |  11 reviewers made a similar statement
The story Ms. Norris tells is very thought out, and well written in great detail. Nick Traffie  |  14 reviewers made a similar statement
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51 of 51 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The Grace of Reflection October 31, 2010
Format:Hardcover
I've been a regular listener of Michele Norris for sometime, enjoying her stories on "All Things Considered". Never once, however, I did think or assume that there was such a deep and resonate story behind this voice that I love. In her stunning, reflective, and quietly beautiful new memoir The Grace of Silence, Norris not only covers her life, but her fathers, and dares to reflect upon the African-American experience in the United States. She produces a winning book on all counts.

President Obama's election serves as the catalyst for Norris coming out of the racial closet, so to speak. Many books nowadays have done the same thing, from Gwen Ifill's marvelous book The Breakthrough: Politics and Race in the Age of Obama to Obama's Race: The 2008 Election and the Dream of a Post-Racial America (Chicago Studies in American Politics) or Not Even Past: Barack Obama and the Burden of Race (Lawrence Stone Lectures) and maybe even The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks. The book fits snugly with these books, and yet, is different.

Norris' memoir is resolutely personal. She subtly weaves the narrative of her family, her childhood and growing up years, with the issue of race in a way that immensely instructive without ever feeling like it. Norris, born and raised in Minnesota, tells stories of her parents integrating an all-white neighborhood, which in turn, drove away many of the families who didn't want to live with a Black family. Her parents insistence that the children in the family always act in a certain way outside as to avoid any stereotypes. How her grandmother suffered the indignity of playing Aunt Jemima across the Midwest, a painfully racist character for African-Americans, and Quaker Oats refusal to address the stereotypes associated with top selling breakfast product. Norris also discovers a shocking family secret that compels her to look into the heart of Birmingham, Alabama's racist past in an all-to-familiar way.

Norris' writing style evokes eloquence beyond belief. Even dealing with incredibly painful revelations, Norris sails through the sentences and paragraphs as if she is talking to you directly. How challenging to open up her life, her pain, her thoughts about race in our country, and do so in an instructive and insightful way for this White reader. Norris is right. The more we talk about race, the more we can begin to address the issues that permeate our society, and the better off our citizens, and our country, will be. The Grace of Silence will serve as benchmark for future books on this topic to come.
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39 of 44 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
All of us know someone who is afraid of the shape the world seems to be in today, however, we seem to forget that this country and we as a nation has deal with trouble before and overcome. IN THE GRACE OF SILENCE, author Michele Norris shows us what can happen when one carries themselves in a way that mirrors the life they want to live.

Coming from a family that like many others have secrets about their past they would rather see left alone, Norris takes us through experiences that would have broken some but seemed to strengthen her resolve and even her faith.

THE GRACE OF SILENCE is a must read for anyone who is looking for a way to make the best out of their humble beginnings and shortcomings. Written as a true American story of endurance, there is no way that you can finish it and not be proud of who you are and the person you are becoming.
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18 of 21 people found the following review helpful
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Format:Hardcover
I read this book and went to Ms Norris in Sacramento. The book and the stories reminded me of my Italian family and their struggles. Like every 'new ethnic group or race' that enters an area, many people moved away when my dark skinned Italian immigrant grandparents moved into the neighbor near Buffalo NY. The shoveling the snow story before the neighbors left their homes made me laugh as this was one of the rituals for our family. My grandparents and parents lived with great dignity and integrity. They believe in and loved the United States. They taught us to strive for success but do it the right way. They also kept many stories of their trials from us so we would not become bitter or give up on the dreams that are possible to obtain in the United States.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Glad I read this timely nonfiction book
Well written and thought provoking and not just for a black audience. Great book club discussion read. I now plan on finding her other works
Published 3 days ago by CJD
5.0 out of 5 stars I loved this book!
Michele Norris had me hooked from the opening paragraph!
While the book is a personal memoir, it resonates with all of us... Read more
Published 9 days ago by alice thorner
4.0 out of 5 stars Review of The Grace of Silence: A Memoir
I found this book to be very thought provoken. I enjoy the author's honest accounts of her life. I felt similarities with the author's experiences. Read more
Published 15 days ago by Alice Knight
5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT READING FOR BOOK CLUB
DISCUSSED WITH THE GATHERING BOOK CLUB...REALLY ENJOYED THIS BOOK. JUST GREAT READING. KEPT ME INTERESTED THROUGHTOUT THE ENTIRE BOOK. GREAT
Published 25 days ago by Willa Cranston
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting Book
We read this book for a book club and it engendered good discussion. We are all white middle to older women so we tried to relate to what it was/is like being black. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Judith A. Lear
5.0 out of 5 stars The Grace of Silence: A Memoir
Michele Norris' heartbreaking memoir moved me to tears, as she wistfully recounts her family's quiet, dignified way of dealing with racism and discrimination. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Troy Johnson
4.0 out of 5 stars A Nice Piece of Hidden Black History
Well written memoir that touches on the hidden aspects of African American lives, especially in the bad old days, but perhaps all too true, at least in places in this country,... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Betti Vanepps-taylor
4.0 out of 5 stars Review
Michele Norris's The Grace of Silence is a memoir about her family. And more than that it is an exploration of how her and her family dealt with the issues of race and racism. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Cheryl
5.0 out of 5 stars The grace of silence review
Norris' parents were the first blacks on their block in Minneapolis. Her father was a Navy who raised in Birmingham before civil rights arrived, in order not to be looked down upon... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Wenting
4.0 out of 5 stars Awareness of the struggles of the black community
I heard Michele on NPR and found her story interesting. Also because the Norris family lived in Minneapolis made it even more interesting to me. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Marcus Hedlund
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