Maribeth Fischer's, The Language of Good-bye, is a work of art. Sungae, a Korean-born woman who has left her great love behind to honor family duty is an artist. She paints her memories of Korea with great detail as she studies art and learns to speak English. Annie, Sungae's English teacher; Carter, Annie's ex-husband and childhood friend; Will, Annie's great love; and Kayla, the wife Will leaves for Annie, are characters that you will in turn love and understand as you get into each one's thoughts and desires. Sungae explains, "Duty is like an ancient tree which has survived many seasons. Love is only the blossom."
Fischer is a beautiful writer. Language swept me into it with characters that are so alive I missed them when I finished. Her detailed writing creates a world that made feel like I could not only see the motivations of her characters, but that I was a part of the story; I felt as though I were a player in this compelling world: I could see it, smell it, and taste it. I could taste the hazelnut coffee Will doesn't like, feel the chill of the autumn air I shared with the Trick-or Treaters, and I understood Annie's need to be loved and that she must endure her sadness: an inability to bear her own child. And her resentment toward Will, father of five-year old Brooke, the child he adores.
Often when literature is beautifully written, I am impressed by the skill and art of the writer, but still, I cannot wait for the book to be finished; there is a dryness when a writer loves words more than characters. As I read Language, I found myself wishing that it wouldn't end. The losses, passions, and joys of these people became my losses, passions, and joys as well.
This book made me ask myself how much I was willing to lose in order to follow my heart and made me review the losses of my life where I had no choice in the matter. I have heard that we read books to feel less alone, and when I read this book, I knew from the writer's great craft that I was safe, that I had found a book I could relax with. I could identify with these living characters; Fischer and her characters understand that throughout our lives, we will continue to suffer loss, and we will continue with to live our lives as though we are not in pain because that is what we do. And that nothing we gain comes without loss, that our lives are very complex indeed, if we choose to live them fully.
I am an English teacher by trade. I read books because I need them, love them, and live for them. This book touched me in a way few have. It reached me on an emotional level, and it touched my soul. It is a literary feast of the heart and of the senses not to be missed.