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The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq [Hardcover]

Helen Benedict
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April 1, 2009 0807061476 978-0807061473 1
The Lonely Soldier--the inspiration for the documentary The Invisible War--vividly tells the stories of five women who fought in Iraq between 2003 and 2006--and of the challenges they faced while fighting a war painfully alone.

More American women have fought and died in Iraq than in any war since World War Two, yet as soldiers they are still painfully alone. In Iraq, only one in ten troops is a woman, and she often serves in a unit with few other women or none at all. This isolation, along with the military's deep-seated hostility toward women, causes problems that many female soldiers find as hard to cope with as war itself: degradation, sexual persecution by their comrades, and loneliness, instead of the camaraderie that every soldier depends on for comfort and survival. As one female soldier said, "I ended up waging my own war against an enemy dressed in the same uniform as mine."

In The Lonely Soldier, Benedict tells the stories of five women who fought in Iraq between 2003 and 2006. She follows them from their childhoods to their enlistments, then takes them through their training, to war and home again, all the while setting the war's events in context.

We meet Jen, white and from a working-class town in the heartland, who still shakes from her wartime traumas; Abbie, who rebelled against a household of liberal Democrats by enlisting in the National Guard; Mickiela, a Mexican American who grew up with a family entangled in L.A. gangs; Terris, an African American mother from D.C. whose childhood was torn by violence; and Eli PaintedCrow, who joined the military to follow Native American tradition and to escape a life of Faulknerian hardship. Between these stories, Benedict weaves those of the forty other Iraq War veterans she interviewed, illuminating the complex issues of war and misogyny, class, race, homophobia, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Each of these stories is unique, yet collectively they add up to a heartbreaking picture of the sacrifices women soldiers are making for this country.

Benedict ends by showing how these women came to face the truth of war and by offering suggestions for how the military can improve conditions for female soldiers-including distributing women more evenly throughout units and rejecting male recruits with records of violence against women. Humanizing, urgent, and powerful, The Lonely Soldier is a clarion call for change.


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As a 29-year army and Army Reserve colonel, I urge everyone-especially women considering joining the U.S. military-to read this important book. Through unforgettable stories, The Lonely Soldier explains the shocking frequency of sexual assault and what can be done.—Army Reserve Colonel Ann Wright

"It is hard to determine what is most disturbing about this book-the devious and immoral tactics used by leaders and recruiters to get women to join the military, the terrible poverty and personal violence women were escaping that led them to be vulnerable to such manipulation, the raping and harassing of women soldiers by their superiors and comrades once they got to Iraq, or the untreated homelessness, illnesses, and madness that have haunted [these] women since they came home. The Lonely Soldier is an important book, a crucial accounting of the shameful war on women who gave their bodies, lives, and souls for their country."—Eve Ensler, playwright, performer, activist, and author of The Vagina Monologues

"It's outrageously immoral that our female soldiers have to fear many of the male soldiers they serve with, as well as being let down by the very Veterans Affairs system that's supposed to help them out. Thanks to Helen Benedict, the world is watching!"—Roseanne Barr, Emmy Award-winning actor

"Once again, Helen Benedict reports what others sweep under the rug, and reveals a pattern where others see random events. The Lonely Soldier will shock you and enrage you and bring you to tears. It's must reading for everyone who cares about women, justice, fairness, the military, and the United States."—Katha Pollitt, award-winning columnist, the Nation

"The Lonely Soldier tells an important and often ignored story about our military women. Benedict writes with skill and compassion, helping us understand what it feels like to be a women soldier in Iraq. I recommend this book to everyone who cares about our soldiers."—Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia and Seeking Peace

"No matter your politics, this book is vital. Helen Benedict's brilliant and compassionate reporting is neither left nor right-it's human. For a man reading The Lonely Soldier, you know these women-they are your mother, sister, cousin, daughter. Their stories of injustice in the U.S. military will tear your guts out."—Dale Maharidge, author of the Pulitzer Prize-winning And Their Children After Them

About the Author

Helen Benedict, a professor of journalism at Columbia University, has written frequently on women, race, and justice. Her books include Virgin or Vamp: How the Press Covers Sex Crimes and the novels The Opposite of Love, The Sailor's Wife, Bad Angel, and A World Like This. Her work on soldiers won the James Aronson Award for Social Justice Journalism.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 280 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press; 1 edition (April 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807061476
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807061473
  • Product Dimensions: 6.2 x 1 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #412,168 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Helen Benedict (www.helenbenedict.com) is the prize-winning author of eleven books, the last two of which are about the Iraq War. Her latest novel,"Sand Queen," about a female soldier and an Iraqi civilian in the war, came out in paperback in August, 2012 from Soho Press.

Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist Robert Olen Butler said about the book, "Every war eventually yields works of art which transcend politics and history and illuminate our shared humanity. Helen Benedict's brilliant new novel has done just that with this century's American war in Iraq. Sand Queen is an important book by one our finest literary artists."

"Sand Queen" is based on Benedict's research for her most recent nonfiction book, "The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq" (Beacon Press, 2009 and 2010). She won three major awards for that book and her articles on soldiers: The 2010 Exceptional Merit in Media Award from the National Women's Political Caucus, The Ken Book Award from the National Alliance on Mental Illness for 2010, and the 2008 James Aronson Award for Social Justice Journalism.

Benedict's writings on women in the military have inspired an ongoing lawsuit against the Pentagon on behalf of women and men who were sexually assaulted while serving in the military, and also inspired the award-winning documentary, The Invisible War. Benedict has also testified twice to Congress on behalf of women in the military. She is a professor of journalism at Columbia University.

Further early praise for "Sand Queen":

"Helen Benedict's compelling story provides an intimate picture of what it means to be a soldier, what it's like to live on the battlefield, and what the ethical choices are that our troops have had to make in Iraq. At times funny, at times grimly painful, Sand Queen offers a new chapter in contemporary American history." -- Roxana Robinson, author of Cost

"Anyone who claims to value the lives of our soldiers should read this powerful, harrowing, and revelatory novel." -- Valerie Martin, author of The Confessions of Edward Day and Trespass

Benedict's earlier novels are The Edge of Eden, The Opposite of Love, The Sailor's Wife, Bad Angel, and A World Like This. The Los Angeles Times and New York and Chicago Public Libraries have named her novels best books of the year, and she has received fellowships from Yaddo, MacDowell, the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts, and the Freedom Forum.

Her nonfiction includes Virgin or Vamp: How the Press Covers Sex Crimes, Portraits in Print and Recovery: How to Survive Sexual Assault.

Helen Benedict's other articles and essays have appeared in the New York Times Book Review, the Washington Post, Glamour, The Women's Review of Books, and in many other magazines. She has been published in many countries and is included in several anthologies. www.helenbenedict.com.

Photographer Copywright Credit Name: Emma B. O'Connor, 2010.

Customer Reviews

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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Must Read, Stunning Accounts June 13, 2009
Format:Hardcover
As a female who is considering joining the military I wanted to read everything I could about the current environment. I purchased this along with others such as Band of Sisters (which is the complete opposite of this book - women who did enjoy the military, even making careers), Joker One, and I Love My Rifle More than You. I could barely put down this book reading horrifying accounts of not just the war in Iraq but the sexual assaults occurring. There is some obvious liberal bias but NOT in regards to what the women say in their own words. All wanted to join the country to do something patriotic and most to elevate themselves out of poverty so it was beyond disappointing to hear how the military treated these women. I believe all the women covered in these stories were in the Army or National Guard- you didn't hear from women in the Air Force, Navy, or Marines (which Band of Sisters). It's also not about just sexual assaults - the parts of Halliburton not getting the soldier's armor for their cars or vests or even food makes you so angry you have to take a deep breath to continue. Even if you're not considering joining the military - this is a good read to see what our military goes through on a grueling basis. These are strong women from all races and income levels who did not wimp out in any shape or form. Very eye-opening.
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20 of 23 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read March 24, 2009
By R. Ard
Format:Hardcover
Being a female in the military myself, I can truely relate to these women and there situations. It's about time someone give the female view of how it is to serve and be under-minded and not looked at as an equal. To civilians that probably have no idea. Please read this book and maybe just maybe this could be addressed. Believe it or not the military will listen and take action faster if the concern comes from a non military personal. And what an owesome! title because at times, that's actually what I felt like.
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16 of 18 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Brutal, painfully honest and necesssary reading May 2, 2009
Format:Hardcover
Benedict's book is well-written and engrossing, as one would expect from a journalism professor. The book is hard to put down but at the same time, it's extremely painful to read.

Benedict interviews five enlisted women who served in Iraq. The interviewees provided graphic accounts of their experiences, sparing no one, including themselves. At a time when joining the military seems to offer unique economic benefits and stability, it's helpful to realize that the military can also offer painful, life-changing outcomes that destroy the soldier's physical, mental and economic health.

For example, civilians rarely hear about mandatory vaccinations. I met a young female Air Force veteran in my local dog park. She loved the Air Force and her job with the military police, but she was forced to take a medical discharge after getting diabetes from an anthrax vaccine. She will live with this condition for the rest of her life, yet she was denied medical disability benefits until she got a congressman to intervene.

While I suspect these women are not unique, it would be helpful to include at least a couple of stories from women who had positive experiences with the military. In the resource section, the author notes that commanders who treat women respectfully will make a difference. Maybe we could hear from women who served with those commanders. We can learn from strong examples as well as painful ones.

The author provides a long list of recommendations based on what the military "should" do. They're good ideas but unlikely to be heard. It's also unlikely that young women who are considering the military will find this book and read it.

I would suggest that readers write to their congressional representatives, urging them to read this book. Elected officials take even a small number of letters seriously.

As for anyone who wants to enlist, male or female, I've heard first-hand stories of recruiters who changed their spiel after being challenged by someone who knew the ropes. In this book, one woman says her recruiter became more honest after her father asked some direct questions. High school guidance counselors seem to view the military as a solution to problem kids and they're hardly in a position to act as an advocate for their students.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Essential
This incredible collection of essays is thoughtful, meticulously researched, and crucial. Helen Benedict has single-handedly done the work that should have been done decades ago by... Read more
Published 4 days ago by Katey Schultz
5.0 out of 5 stars Heart breaking
This book is heart breaking. I did not know that this was going on. It just makes you think twice about sending someone you love into the military. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Terry Silva
5.0 out of 5 stars Helen Benedict could have called this the double war of women...
Helen Benedict is able to pull from her interviews the commonality shared by women serving different branches and at different times in Iraq, with the myriad problems they had to... Read more
Published 5 months ago by D. L. Griffey
4.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read
An eye-opening account of the female soldier's experience in Iraq. This read made me mad and at the same time, appreciative of learning first hand accounts of this dirty little... Read more
Published 6 months ago by S. R. Skolnik
3.0 out of 5 stars Women in the military
I have a daughter who is leaving for basic training in the National Guard in about 2 weeks. I found this book very interesting and disturbing about what happens to women in the... Read more
Published 8 months ago by L. Garr
4.0 out of 5 stars Disturbing but informative
The book is timely as the documentary 'The Invisible War' is also helping to highlight the injustices inflicted on these brave men and women who suffer under an implicit and/or... Read more
Published 11 months ago by JYK
1.0 out of 5 stars "social justice" story lines
I haven't finished reading this book, but I will. I find it hard to believe this "author" chose women that are seriously disfunctional. Read more
Published 12 months ago by Beverly J. Runnion
1.0 out of 5 stars Undercut by bias, sophomoric writing
This could have been a powerful, cutting, informative indictment of a legitimate, widespread issue in the military. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Vera
2.0 out of 5 stars Vivid stories undercut by strong anti-military bias
Benedict, a journalism professor at Columbia University, focuses on five American servicewomen who served in Iraq in the two years following the U.S. invasion in March 2003. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Edison McIntyre
1.0 out of 5 stars A Lost Opportunity
I am about to deploy to Afghanistan for the first time and I bought this book thinking it would help prepare me for the task ahead. I was very disappointed. Read more
Published 21 months ago by ccook
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