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The Longest Way Home: One Man's Quest for the Courage to Settle Down [Hardcover]

Andrew McCarthy
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Book Description

September 18, 2012
WITH AN IRREPRESSIBLE TASTE for adventure, candor, and a vivid sense of place, award-winning travel writer and actor Andrew McCarthy takes us on a deeply personal journey played out amid some of the world’s most evocative locales.

Unable to commit to his fiancée of nearly four years—and with no clear understanding of what’s holding him back—Andrew McCarthy finds himself at a crossroads, plagued by doubts that have clung to him for a lifetime. Something in his character has kept him always at a distance, preventing him from giving himself wholeheartedly to the woman he loves and from becoming the father that he knows his children deserve. So before he loses everything he cares about, Andrew sets out to look for answers.

Hobbling up the treacherous slopes of Mt. Kilimanjaro, dodging gregarious passengers aboard an Amazonian riverboat, and trudging through dense Costa Rican rain forests—Andrew takes us on exotic trips to some of the world’s most beautiful places, but his real journey is one of the spirit.

On his soul-searching voyages, Andrew traces the path from his New Jersey roots, where acting saved his life—and early fame almost took it away—to his transformation into a leading travel writer. He faces the real costs of his early success and lays bare the evolving nature of his relationships with women. He explores a strained bond with his father, and how this complex dynamic shapes his own identity as a parent. Andrew charts his journey from ambivalence to confidence, from infidelity and recklessness to acceptance and a deeper understanding of the internal conflicts of his life.

A gifted writer with an unsparing eye, Andrew relishes bizarre encounters with the characters whom he encounters, allowing them to challenge him in unexpected ways. He gets into peculiar, even dangerous situations that put him to the test—with mixed results. Disarmingly likable, Andrew is open, honest, and authentic on every page, and what emerges is an intimate memoir of self-discovery and an unforgettable love song to the woman who would be his wife.


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Who knew that McCarthy, a familiar face on the big screen (St. Elmo’s Fire, Pretty in Pink) and the small (Law & Order, Monk), is also a noted travel writer! An editor at large for National Geographic Traveler and winner of several awards (including Travel Journalist of the Year), he contributes travel articles to numerous publications, and his work has appeared in the anthology The Best American Travel Writing. This is not some memoir written by an actor who fancies himself a world traveler. McCarthy really is a world traveler—and a damned fine writer, too. The book features eight destinations—New York, Patagonia, the Amazon, the Osa, Vienna, Baltimore, Kilimanjaro, and Dublin—and, along the way, McCarthy explores himself, too, introducing us to a man whose love for life is matched only by his love for the woman he would eventually marry (and whose growing importance to McCarthy is a thread that runs throughout the book). To readers who think, “Andrew McCarthy? Really?” the answer is a resounding and emphatic yes. Really. --David Pitt

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“Soulful and searching . . . McCarthy’s prose shines with intelligence and intimacy . . . A long, strange trip on the direction of full-throttle love.” (Cheryl Strayed New York Times Book Review)

“A candid, touching, and often humorous new memoir.” (The San Francisco Chronicle)

"Combining the best aspects of Paul Theroux’s misanthropy in books like Old Patagonian Express and Elizabeth Gilbert’s emotions in Eat, Pray, Love, this book is hard to put down.  Bound to be popular, this compelling and honest chronicle will not disappoint readers." (Library Journal)

“Andrew McCarthy treks from Baltimore to the Amazon, exploring his commitment issues as fearlessly as he scales Mount Kilimanjaro." (Elle )

"Brave and moving...McCarthy’s keen sense of scene and storytelling ignites his accounts...[t]hreaded with an exemplary vulnerability and propelled by a candid exploration of his own life’s frailties." (National Geographic)

"McCarthy ponders some of the biggest and most frightening questions surrounding intimacy: How does a loner connect? How does a traveler settle down? How do we merge into families without losing ourselves? The answer seems to be that all these things are impossible...and yet somehow we do it anyway. There is much to be learned, and much to be admired, in this elegant, thoughtful story."—Elizabeth Gilbert, bestselling author of Eat, Pray, Love



"This is not some memoir written by an actor who fancies himself a world traveler. McCarthy really is a world traveler – and a damned fine writer, too…To readers who think, “Andrew McCarthy? Really?” the answer is a resounding and emphatic yes. Really." (Booklist)

"Rarely have I seen the male psyche explored with such honesty and vulnerability. This is the story of a son, a father, a brother, a husband, a man who finds the courage not only to face himself, but to reveal himself, and, in so doing, illuminates something about what it is to be human, fully alive, and awake.” --Dani Shapiro, Author of Devotion

"It's hard to write books that are both adventurous and touching, but Andrew McCarthy manages to pull it off and more! A smart, valuable book." --Gary Shteyngart, bestselling author of Super Sad True Love Story and Absurdistan

"Where lesser writers might reach for hyperbole and Roget to describe such exotic lands as Patagonia, Kilimanjaro and Baltimore, in The Longest Way Home, McCarthy leans on subtlety, a straightforward style and hard-won insights to allow his larger stories to unfold. It’s not hard to imagine him as the solitary figure in the café, scribbling in a notebook by candlelight, making the lonely, tedious work of travel writing look romantic and easy."--Chuck Thompson, author of Better Off Without 'Em and Smile When You're Lying


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Free Press; 1 edition (September 18, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1451667485
  • ISBN-13: 978-1451667486
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 1 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (79 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #77,578 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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48 of 49 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A deeply personal book for the traveler in all of us September 18, 2012
Format:Hardcover
Actor/director Andrew McCarthy may be universally acknowledged as a member of the Brat Pack for roles in such films as Pretty in Pink and St. Elmo's Fire, but it's his second, less mainstream career as a travel writer that takes the helm of his new memoir, The Longest Way Home: One Man's Quest for the Courage to Settle Down. At the book's beginning Andrew and his fiancé, affectionately referred to as D, have finally embarked on the decision to marry after years of courtship. For the solitary, commitment-claustrophobic Andrew this is the sort of gigantic leap that requires a great deal of confidence, and perhaps an even greater deal of anticipatory panic. Having used travel all his life as a means to escape into an anonymous sort of blissful freedom, he embarks on and recounts several journeys that ultimately lead him to his biggest confrontation: his wedding day.

While he occasionally features an anecdote or two from his movie star days - the Brat Pack, he reveals, was never as close-knit of a group as society perpetuated - it's his life as a traveler that takes the spotlight in his memoir. A single comrade on one of his voyages expresses that Andrew's face looks familiar, but otherwise there's no Hollywood glamour to be had, and the book is all the more enriched by its absence. What results is something much more human, much more relatable: the story of a man with fears and the woman, the family, and the destinations who push him out of his comfort zone and into his ultimate happiness. His reflections on his own struggles in life - from the grasping anxiety of turbulence on a plane to the more philosophical issues he's loathe to confront - make for an especially engaging commentary, and result in an emotional evolution that leaves the reader self-aware and inspired. I could genuinely feel his determination grow throughout the book, his understanding of himself becoming more and more vivid. It was truly a journey of personal growth.

Andrew's travels in The Longest Way Home take him from New York to Patagonia, the Amazon, Costa Rica, Vienna, Baltimore, Kilimanjaro, and finally to Dublin where his wedding day lingers in wait. A very prominent focus in his thoughts as he travels (usually alone) to each destination is his fiancé, the fiery and spontaneous D. In writing about her Andrew paints a picture of warmth and wit, introducing the reader to her quite personally - a charming endeavor that makes the documentation of their wedding day all the lovelier. Throughout the book it's as if he's explaining to the reader, "This is why I had to go out there and find my courage: I *have* to marry this woman." And in his efforts the reader cheers him on while experiencing beautifully written glimpses into the tremendous wonders of the world - from the vastness of Patagonia to the strength of Kilimanjaro - and coming to understand just what it is about traveling that can actually change a man for the better, and finally make him long to come home. A very entertaining, modestly celebratory, and deeply personal book for the traveler in all of us.

(Review © Casee Marie, originally published on September 18, 2012 at LiteraryInklings.com. I received a copy of the book for the purpose of review.)
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24 of 24 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A powerful, moving, and enlightening memoir September 19, 2012
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I picked up Andrew McCarthy's latest memoir because I was always a fan of his as an actor (particularly LESS THAN ZERO and ST. ELMO'S FIRE) and director (I'm an unapologetic GOSSIP GIRL fanatic). I had no idea that he was also a world-class writer capable of profound insights and at times harrowing honesty. With unflinching self-examination, McCarthy looks at his own intimacy and commitment issues and makes them universal; no matter where you are in your life or what kind of relationships you've had, you'll find something to relate to here, and you'll be made a better person for having considered the questions McCarthy raises. The author keeps his tale from becoming solipsistic or self-indulgent by placing his emotional journey in the context of a travel book, in which he ponders large questions while traversing the world; the result is a book that is both exciting travel guide and deeply moving memoir, with just enough tidbits about the making of movies like CLASS and PRETTY IN PINK to satisfy movie buffs as well. A must-read.
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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful deep and satisfying memoir and travel book September 22, 2012
Format:Hardcover
The longest way home is fantastic! It is a thought providing work with wonderful travel segments interwoven with Andrew McCarthys internal struggle and life journey. There are many times that one can identify with McCarthy while he travels on his deply personal journey. I found the book to be very moving and inspiring without being remotely self indulgent. The sense of remove and isolation that McCarthy portrays diminishes over the course of his journey with a fitting conclusion on Kilimanjaro. The warmth and love that emanates from a family trip to Vienna reaches out to the reader and covers you like a warm blanket. Patagonia, the amazon, the OSA etc have all come alive for me having read this book. The personal and travel are beautifully enmeshed and of course the recurring theme of journey excites the reader as you want the writer to succeed in his quest for commitment and happiness.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars E book on Kindle
Book downloaded well, story was ok not the best enjoyed all the travels but thought that Andrew McCarthy came off a little self centered. Would buy book on kindle again.
Published 3 days ago by Denise Litchet
5.0 out of 5 stars Fun, Easy Read
I really enjoyed reading Andrew's travel accounts. I loved how the book followed the opening up of his heart as well as his opening up to the idea of settling down. Read more
Published 4 days ago by Jimmy G. Cross
5.0 out of 5 stars Travel and getting to know Andrew McCarthy
Enjoyed the book a lot was always a fan of Andrew McCarthy as an actor but now also as a writer
Published 10 days ago by rascalete
5.0 out of 5 stars 5-Stars for Discovery, Truth & WIsdom
My hats off to Andrew McCarthy for his honesty, openness and self-reflection in his latest book. I couldn't put it down. Read more
Published 23 days ago by Positive Pam
4.0 out of 5 stars An Interesting Story
Well written and interesting to read about a man who loves adventure and has the courage to pursue his dreams.
Published 23 days ago by Marjorie Hoversten
3.0 out of 5 stars OK read . . . .
I like McCarthy as an actor and he seems to be a good writer, but what I've read so far ( half way through ) it's just his nutshell of life experiences he is sharing. A bit boring. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Dart
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book!
Great story with such descriptive views of the landscapes he visits, it's like you're there with him. A few good life lessons are in there also.
Published 1 month ago by aps
5.0 out of 5 stars The Longest Way Home for me
I really enjoyed this book, it hit home so often with the feeling I get and why I love to travel.
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Published 2 months ago by Kathryn O'leary
2.0 out of 5 stars Slowest Way Home!
Found to be a vacuous, self-serving story about someone unwilling to confront responsibilty. A few good travel insights, difficult however, to plod through the self analysis and... Read more
Published 2 months ago by jab2jr
4.0 out of 5 stars to go far far away
fun to read. have been to a lot of the same places so it was nice to get another perspective on some of the areas. i especially liked his attempted escape to Kilimanjaro. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Rouzbeh K. Kordestani
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