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The 5 Love Languages Men's Edition: The Secret to Love that Lasts [Kindle Edition]

Gary D Chapman
4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (155 customer reviews)

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Book Description

Husbands are commanded to love their wives. But do you know what really
makes your wife feel loved? Are you tired of missed cues and confusing signals?

has a primary love language-quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service,
or physical touch. In The 5 Love Languages Men's Edition, #1 New York
bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman guides husbands in identifying, understanding,
and speaking their wife's love language. Each chapter concludes with ten simple
and practical ideas for expressing that love language to your wife. You'll both
enjoy taking the new love languages assessment and building a lasting, loving marriage.

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My wife Stevie and I had a good marriage, but understanding the five love languages made it even better.  I wish every husband would read this book.
-Darrell Waltrip, Broadcast Analyst, FOX Sports; 3 time NASCAR Winston Cup Champion

About the Author

GARY CHAPMAN, PhD, is the author of the #1 New York Times bestselling The 5 Love Languages. With over 30 years of counseling experience, he has the uncanny ability to hold a mirror up to human behavior, showing readers not just where they go wrong, but also how to grow and move forward. Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University. For more information visit his website at

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122 of 136 people found the following review helpful
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Like a couple of other reviewers I had read the original Five Love Languages. It is insightful and has helped me and my wife communicate much more effectively. If you haven't read that, then by all means buy this book. Unfortunately this book has hardly been changed from its original edition and I believe that there should be some sort of disclaimer. Luckily Amazon accepted the return (I purchased the Kindle edition) as I reported this to them within a day of purchase.
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43 of 48 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Very misleading summary. November 25, 2012
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I previously purchased The 5 Love Languages and thought it was very good. Wanting to learn more, I read about the Men's Edition, expecting it to be different based on what the summary said. But the content is 99% the same as the original, not just the themes of the book but the actual words. I, and probably many others, was totally mislead by the write-up about it and wasted my money. Very disappointing. If you already purchased any of the similar books, do not waste your money on any of the others as they are all the same, as I found out the hard way.
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74 of 87 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Read with an open mind April 13, 2011
By Smack
I think many guys, myself included, are in a box when it comes to loving our wives. I did things my way but neither of us were happy, we stayed together for the kids. One night i decided that the problem must be me. I talked with my wife and told her i was going to change for her. The only thing was that i didn't know how to change. I went to the book store and found this book and read it and it made perfect sense and it was just too easy. I recommend you to read the book but only read it if you are willing to change, if you are not then you are wasting your time and no one can help you. YOU must be ready to give love and accept love.
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Very important - This is pretty much the same book... October 7, 2012
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... as the original. There are times when a book needs to have masculine packaging before some men will pick it up. I believe that is the idea here. So this is a book that you would purchase to give to that guy who could really benefit but would probably not care for the original cover, etc.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars copy of first book March 20, 2013
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I think this is a cut and past copy of the original 5 Love Languages that was not edited well to translate the language over exclusively to men. Buy the original.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
While much has been written about interpersonal communication, many of the existing writings stereotype females communicating with an emphasis on feelings and relationship and males communicating with an emphasis on status and tasks.

Are you feeling "under-loved" by someone important to you? Is someone important feeling under-loved by you? Perhaps you're communicating through different "languages".

Finally, someone (Gary Chapman) is recognizing that we all want to feel loved and suggesting that each of us might interpret "being loved" through different forms of communication--the five languages.

The Five Languages of Love is an intersting and thought-provoking read...comparably applicable to your significant-other, your family, friends and colleagues.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Easy to apply tools - Solid advise March 11, 2014
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I found this book a little slow in the beginning. That said, it gets progressively more interesting as you get into the actual presentation of 5 love languages themselves. The author gives a number of simple methods for applying (or speaking) the languages. He gives some very detail "experiments" as well. So you can get very detailed if you like. I am pretty sure my wife's love language is either "acts of service" or "quality time". So I am going to start testing these out and see how it goes. So far it seems to be working well over the last 3 days. I just finished the book, and I am starting to get her attention. Long run, I am predicting a big change.

Just buy it and give it a try. You've really nothing to lose, especially if your relationship is struggling. If the relationship is great then why not build further. If you are not in a relationship you will need this later, and I think this could be adapted to nearly any relationship. The book is short. The advise is solid, and you'll be able make a positive impact on your wife. He is a Christian author, but he is not preachy (or weird) and there is no reason this advise would not work for anyone who wants a solid marriage.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A must read even if you are dating! February 22, 2014
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This is a great book that every married couple should read. Even if you are dating get to know each other's love language.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Great Read
If you're looking to learn, prevent, or rekindle this is the book for you. Author has good parables that are relatable and keep you reading. Check it out!
Published 2 days ago by Quincy
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful
Gary is the man. Well done, will read again. Thank you Dr. Chapman
Not a lot of biblical context, something todays men and leaders need more of, yet can reach a crowd of non... Read more
Published 4 days ago by Chad DeWitt
4.0 out of 5 stars A relationship must read
It was easy to read and to apply. The test for husband and the test for women told a lot.
Published 4 days ago by Sue E. Boatman
4.0 out of 5 stars Gift
This book was purchased as a gift, based on other reviews. The person who received it seemed to be pleased with it so I gave 4 stars.
Published 4 days ago by V Cooper
5.0 out of 5 stars Great reading
I bought this book for my son when he got engaged, and bought the original one for me and his fiancee. I loved it
Published 4 days ago by chappysmom
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for Newly, Nearly, Married as well as those who have been...
Great book. Everyone has a love language. This book will help you determine what yours is as well as what your spouse's may be. It will help you understand your spouse better. Read more
Published 6 days ago by Old man and a dog
5.0 out of 5 stars Got them
The books were in great condition. Thanks. I have read the oringal version, got this one for my son and his wife. hopefully it'll help them communicate better
Published 8 days ago by C. Knudsen
5.0 out of 5 stars This book delivers
Highly recommend. Some will say the book offers little "new" info or that the anecdotes are unoriginal/unimaginative. Read more
Published 12 days ago by John Compton
5.0 out of 5 stars great read!!!!!!
This is an amazing book!!! It all make sense as to why things became different after two years of being together.
Published 13 days ago by Ebbymarie
5.0 out of 5 stars It's about her, not you
If your desire is to be sure your spouse feels as loved as they possibly can, this is an excellent resource. Read more
Published 14 days ago by William
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More About the Author

Married more than 45 years to Karolyn, Dr. Gary Chapman is just the man to turn to for help on improving or healing our most important relationships. His own life experiences, plus over thirty-five years of pastoring and marriage counseling, led him to publish his first book in the Love Language series, The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Millions of readers credit this continual New York Times bestseller with saving their marriages by showing them simple and practical ways to communicate their love to their partner.
Since the success of his first book, Dr. Chapman has expanded his Five Love Languages series to specifically reach out to teens, singles, men, and children (co-authored with Dr. Ross Campbell).
He is the author of numerous other books published by Moody Publishers/Northfield Publishing, including The World's Easiest Guide to Family Relationships, Anger, The Family You've Always Wanted, The Marriage You've Always Wanted, Desperate Marriages, God Speaks Your Love Language (Jan 09), Parenting Your Adult Child, and Hope for the Separated. He co-authored The Five Languages of Apology with Dr. Jennifer Thomas.
Chapman speaks to thousands of couples nationwide through his weekend marriage conferences. He hosts a nationally syndicated radio program, Love Language Minute, and a Saturday morning program, Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, that air on more than 100 stations. Dr. Chapman also serves as senior associate pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.
Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University.
Dr. Chapman and his wife have two adult children and two grandchildren, and currently live in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.

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