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The Marrying Kind [Kindle Edition]

Ken O'Neill
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Book Description

Wedding planner Adam More has an epiphany: He has devoted all his life’s energy to creating events that he and his partner Steven are forbidden by federal law for having for themselves. So Adam decides to make a change. Organizing a boycott of the wedding industry, Steven and Adam call on gay organists, hairdressers, cater-waiters, priests, and hairdressers everywhere to get out of the business and to stop going to weddings, too. In this screwball, romantic comedy both the movement they’ve begun and their relationship are put in jeopardy when Steven’s brother proposes to Adam’s sister and they must decide whether they’re attending or sending regrets.

Editorial Reviews


"This book made me laugh and made my heart hurt, and I loved the experience of reading it." - Smart Bitches Trashy Books
"A talent to watch in the world of LGBT fiction." - Seattle Gay News

"Extremely funny... Think David Sedaris, only a romance novel."  Sarah's Shelf
"There are so many things that worked in this novel that this little review cannot possibly cover them all.  Highly, highly recommended." Reviews by Jessiewave

"Ken O'Neill puts plenty of humor and quirky characters in his engaging story." Smexy books
"Ken O'Neill has quite a hit with this funny and sweet look at love, relationships, family and marriage and you do not want to miss it by any means. RUN, don't walk, to get a copy." Reviews by Amos Lassen

"With its timely, provocative premise, fabulous characters, and a
wonderfully wry, sly narrative, THE MARRYING KIND is bound to launch
debut novelist Ken O'Neill on a stellar career path!"
-- Wendy Markham - New York Times bestselling author

"THE MARRYING KIND is that rare novel that both prods and applauds our most valuable resource: love. Ken O'Neill makes you laugh, think, and get mad as hell--all within just a few pages. If you believe in hard-won, human romance, this is the book that levels the playing field."
-Doug Crandell, author of  The Flawless Skin of Ugly People 

About the Author

Ken O’Neill was born in Bridgeport, Connecticut, to an Irish Catholic father and a Romanian Orthodox mother, which means that most years he had the good fortune to receive Easter candy not just once but twice.

Ken lives in New York City with his partner and their two cats. When he’s not checking his Amazon rating to see if anyone has purchased his book, he enjoys reading, dancing (though usually when no one is watching), and eating dark chocolate, purely for medicinal reasons.

Product Details

  • File Size: 518 KB
  • Print Length: 264 pages
  • Simultaneous Device Usage: Unlimited
  • Publisher: Bold Strokes Books (May 30, 2012)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0087SCDNO
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Word Wise: Enabled
  • Lending: Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #562,637 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I love Adam and Steven June 13, 2013
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
This is not normally a book I would read, but after the amazing review on SmartB*tches, TrashyBooks blog, I had to get it.

We are introduced to Adam, a successful wedding planner, and Steven, his parter who writes for The Gay New York Times. As Steven narrates, we learn of Adam's growing frustration with planning weddings when he can never have one, and revolts with the help of Steven, writing columns around boycotting weddings as workers and attendees. It gets tumultuous when their siblings get engaged to each other.

I was laughing out loud with Steven as he described his relationship with his mother, crying with him over his inability to talk to his brother after he said he wasn't attending the wedding, and hoping beyond measure that all the Adam and Steve's would be able to marry.

When my g-uncles came to my wedding 11 years ago, it didn't occur to me that it would be hard for them to attend, even though they had been together longer than my fiancé and I had been, at the time. This past year, they said they would get married as soon as DOMA was decided on by the Supreme Court. We were thrilled! Unfortunately, we are still waiting and hoping.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I loved these characters! May 15, 2013
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Think of the most charming, loving, slightly neurotic couple you know and they can't hold a candle to these two guys. The message is powerful: marriage between two loving men or women must be recognized in all fifty of our states. The story is engaging. And the nutty Romanian narrator will make you laugh. I closed this book with a smile on my face. Delightful!
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Fabulous Debut Novel May 21, 2012
By Tyra
This is the debut novel from Ken O'Neill and I for one can't wait for the next. With his mix of humor and realism it has a very autobiographical feel to it that can't help but draw you in and make you want more.

What do you do when you have made a decision not to have anything to do with hetero weddings, and then your sister announces she is getting married? Not only is she getting married but she is marrying the brother of your life partner and has always been supportive to you? Do you go back on your convictions and attend this one wedding, or stand by them and possibly lose everything?

Adam is a successful wedding planner in the throes of the wedding season when a series of events finally pushes him too far. He has been in a committed relationship with Steven for over 6 years and not only doesn't the country or state he lives in recognize it, sometimes even his family doesn't. He is mad as Hell and he isn't going to take it anymore!

Steven writes a column for The Gay New York Times and he was quite the activist while in college but has become rather complacent since then. When he writes a column to support his partners ban on weddings and calls on all others in the GLBT community to do the same he has no idea of the chain of events it's going to set off.

The duo are the heroes of the gay community and are riding high until Adam's sister announces she is marrying Steven's brother. When they refuse to not only plan but even attend, step back because the family fireworks are about to begin!

I LOVED this story.

I felt like I was sitting in a room with Mr. O'Neill and listening to him tell me the story of his family, and even though I have never met or spoken to him I feel very confident it was his voice I was hearing in my head.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I loved this novel August 21, 2013
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This was an excellent, well-written debut novel that made me both laugh out loud and cry. I love the main character, Steven, who was so well done in this novel I pretty much wanted to be friends with him.

This book is a lighthearted approach to a pretty serious topic. The author did a great job of driving his point home while making you laugh. I actually found myself worried about how this book was going to end because I felt Steven deserved a pretty awesome ending, and the author did not disappoint. I finished the book feeling very satisfied. And now, in New York, Adam and Steven can get married, which makes me feel even more satisfied. :)

I look forward to reading Mr. O'Neill's second book.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Really love it June 23, 2013
It's a very entertaining book: sometimes funny, sometimes can make you cry.
I read about this book on a romantic blog, but it's not really a romantic novel, because the main characters are a couple from the beginning.
A journalist and a wedding planner suddenly realised that doing so is like collaborating with the enemy. Why don't we boicott straight weddings until they recognize our right to get married? Well, it's a good option to avoid weddings of people you dislike, but it can be a problem if your brother or sister is getting married.
I really loved the main characters. I understood them perfectly, and I felt very proud that in my country, Spain, with so many things to be ashamed of -corruption, dishonesty, the great differences between rich and poor people- at least has this important thing: you can get married, it doesn't matter the sex of the those who want to say 'I do!'. Gay marriage has been recognized since 2005 and, hey! now we have something to be proud of. Eight years afterwards, you realize that it has been accepted by the majority with no problem.
Part of the funny thing is the family relationships, all the Romanian part is so similar to our Spanish culture... The mother is amazing. IMO, she could perfectly be Spanish or Italian or Greek, as well.
I was afraid sometimes, was the story going to be slushy? Sentimental? It was irritating that nobody straight for a moment thought about their feelings, they did not try to view things from the boys' POV, nobody but the mother of course.
Anyway, I shouldn't have worried.
The end was perfect, with dignity and very romantic.
An A + book, indeed.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars A Little Dated (Fortunately!) But Fun
In the foreword the author notes the story was written before marriage began to be legal. We are on path for that, but there's still more to gain. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Paul Shipman
4.0 out of 5 stars Great Debut
The two main characters in this story are Adam More, a wedding planner, and his longtime partner, Steven Worth, a writer for The Gay New York Times. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Rosemary Feil
5.0 out of 5 stars Grabbed Me and Left Me Wanting More!
I was immediately caught into the narrative by the author, who grabbed me into his world and made me feel as though he was talking directly to me, like good friends talking over... Read more
Published 15 months ago by Mark Guzman
3.0 out of 5 stars Good read
I should start by saying I feel bad for not liking this book. It's true, I hate writing this review because there is talent and wit and romance and everything else you might want... Read more
Published 15 months ago by Carole @ The Romance Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars A funny book, but...
I was excited to read this because of a review that said how funny it was. And it WAS funny, and overall enjoyable, but I've had a lot of trouble putting my feelings on it into... Read more
Published 15 months ago by Michelle Pierce
5.0 out of 5 stars A real education on what it is to be a modern day gay couple.
It is not until the end of the book that you get the truth about what we in the gay community go through.
Published 15 months ago by Bargerat2001
5.0 out of 5 stars a pure fun read
"A pure fun read. Topical, comical and written with a fresh voice.
If you don't laugh out loud while reading this book then you need to go back and reread it.
Published 17 months ago by Eric Andrews-Katz
5.0 out of 5 stars Lovely story
I enjoyed everything about this story, from the day to day life in Manhattan that these two experience, to the asides about Romanian culture, to the relationship and snippy fashion... Read more
Published 19 months ago by Lily
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing Debut!
I've watched the stir about this book on Facebook and was thrilled to be able to get it for my Kindle! Read more
Published 19 months ago by MsBrnEyes55
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More About the Author

Ken O'Neill's novel, THE MARRYING KIND won the 2012 Rainbow Award for best debut. It won the 2013 Independent Publisher Award Silver Medal for LGBT fiction and was a finalist for the 2013 International book award in the Gay and Lesbian fiction category. The book was also included on Smart Bitches Trashy Books list of top three favorite books of 2012.

Ken lives in NYC with his partner and their two cats. When he's not checking his Amazon rating to see if anyone has purchased his book, he enjoys reading, dancing (though usually only when no one is watching) and eating dark chocolate, purely for medicinal reasons.

Also a marriage rights activist and blogger, see what Ken has to say at:

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