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The Messy Quest for Meaning: Five Catholic Practices for Finding Your Vocation [Paperback]

Stephen Martin
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May 14, 2012
Drawing on lessons learned from Catholic monks and saints as well as his own experience, Stephen Martin has crafted five unique practices to help Catholics and other seekers grapple with life's truly important questions and discover their calling in the world.

The Messy Quest for Meaning is one of the first books to tap into the wisdom of the Catholic spiritual tradition to help readers discern a vocation that will not only provide them with a livelihood but also just might help save their lives.

Martin first tells of his own struggle to find meaning and purpose in his life and then details the five transforming practices that he learned, over time, from the Trappist monks with whom he studied, interviewed, and prayed:

  1. Follow your own desires and discover what really attracts you.

  2. Hone in on what matters most to you and channel your passions.

  3. Let go through an act of humility and accept where your desires lead instead of where you want to steer yourself.

  4. Realize that you are not likely to find or to fulfill your vocation solely by yourself but that you need to find it in community.

  5. Journey into the unexplored regions of your community and, even more significantly, your own heart, mind, and soul.


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"The Messy Quest for Meaning will be very beneficial to people who are looking for help in determining their professional vocation or their calling in any area of life. Although Martin bases his points on Catholic practices, he masterfully explains the five steps in a way that non-Catholics can also apply them. Trying to understand one's vocation or calling is not unique to any particular belief system, and Martin's information will be valuable to anyone searching for guidance and encouragement in his or her own messy quest."--ForeWord Reviews


"The Messy Quest is not a career-guidance handbook, but something more profound, more foundational. ...The book draws overtly on Catholic teaching. Yet, non-Catholics (perhaps especially non-Catholics) might find that this moving story and the process (Martin) chronicles resonates with them. In each chapter, he tells of his life and his discovering of various Catholic mystics and activists, and shows how seekers can integrate the wisdom of the saints into their own journeys of faith."--Comment



"The experience of reading Stephen Martin's The Messy Quest for Meaning is like that of a having a prolonged conversation with a wise mentor, who in response to your droning on about your angst-filled career hand-wringing, tells you stories about how he, and others, have wrestled similarly. Your situation, he communicates, is not so unique, it's actually very typical. We can take great comfort in the fact that others have hoed this row and have shared with us the lessons reaped."--The Englewood Review of Books


"The Messy Quest for Meaning" is a strong pick for self-help collections, highly recommended." --Midwest Book Review

"What distinguishes this book is the author's new, refreshing voice. The honesty and humility with which Martin tells his own story of seeking his vocation shows enough hard-earned wisdom to make him a credible guide for readers of any age. And the surprise of his pitch-perfect humor adds to the book's rare depth, which in this era of 'spirituality lite' makes his words and ideas memorable. Do yourself a favor and read this book." --Karen Sue Smith, Editorial Director, America


"Stephen Martin generously offers us a glimpse inside his own messy quest for meaning in this engaging book. Inclining the ear of his heart to the monastic tradition, while at the same time listening carefully to the practical wisdom of contemporary works on leadership, he gives pilgrims--all of us--a road map for discernment of our vocations. This hopeful book will be a welcome gift to anyone still sorting out who God is calling them to be." --Tim Muldoon, Author of Longing to Love


"What should I do? Who am I meant to become? Deftly using his own life as a springboard to understanding Catholic traditions of 'discernment,' Stephen Martin helps readers discover answers to those two central questions. Invitingly honest, often provocative, and unfailingly useful, The Messy Quest for Meaning is a boon to anyone who seeks answers to questions of vocation and identity, so as to enter more deeply into a relationship with God, the fulfillment of all our longings." --Rev. James Martin, S.J., Author of Between Heaven and Mirth


"Having spent many years learning from and periodically living in monastic communities, I admire how Stephen Martin brings alive, through compelling stories and crisp prose, Trappist practices that can transform our lives. This memorable book speaks directly to the seeker in each of us, offering practical wisdom for moving deeper into our callings." --August Turak, Entrepreneur and Grand Prize Winner, John Templeton Foundation Power of Purpose Essay Contest

"What distinguishes this book is the author's new, refreshing voice. The honesty and humility with which Martin tells his own story of seeking his vocation shows enough hard-earned wisdom to make him a credible guide for readers of any age. And the surprise of his pitch-perfect humor adds to the book's rare depth, which in this era of 'spirituality lite' makes his words and ideas memorable. Do yourself a favor and read this book." --Karen Sue Smith, Editorial Director, America


"Stephen Martin generously offers us a glimpse inside his own messy quest for meaning in this engaging book. Inclining the ear of his heart to the monastic tradition, while at the same time listening carefully to the practical wisdom of contemporary works on leadership, he gives pilgrims--all of us--a road map for discernment of our vocations. This hopeful book will be a welcome gift to anyone still sorting out who God is calling them to be." --Tim Muldoon, Author of Longing to Love


"What should I do? Who am I meant to become? Deftly using his own life as a springboard to understanding Catholic traditions of 'discernment,' Stephen Martin helps readers discover answers to those two central questions. Invitingly honest, often provocative, and unfailingly useful, The Messy Quest for Meaning is a boon to anyone who seeks answers to questions of vocation and identity, so as to enter more deeply into a relationship with God, the fulfillment of all our longings." --Rev. James Martin, S.J., Author of Between Heaven and Mirth


"Having spent many years learning from and periodically living in monastic communities, I admire how Stephen Martin brings alive, through compelling stories and crisp prose, Trappist practices that can transform our lives. This memorable book speaks directly to the seeker in each of us, offering practical wisdom for moving deeper into our callings." --August Turak, Entrepreneur and Grand Prize Winner, John Templeton Foundation Power of Purpose Essay Contest

About the Author

Stephen Martin is a speechwriter, journalist, and award-winning essayist. He directs public relations and executive communications for the nonprofit Center for Creative Leadership and coauthors a regular column on social innovation and entrepreneurship for the Raleigh News & Observer. His essays have appeared in America, Commonweal, Portland, and on washingtonpost.com.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Sorin Books (May 14, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1933495324
  • ISBN-13: 978-1933495323
  • Product Dimensions: 0.6 x 5.4 x 8.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #366,110 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Stephen Martin is a speechwriter, journalist and award-winning essayist who blogs at www.messyquest.com. He directs public relations and executive communications for the Center for Creative Leadership, a global nonprofit. Formerly a business and education reporter for several daily newspapers, he co-authors a regular column on social innovation and entrepreneurship for the Raleigh News & Observer and Charlotte Observer. His essays have appeared in America, Commonweal, Portland and washingtonpost.com. He holds a bachelor's degree from Duke University and a master's degree from the University of North Carolina-Greensboro. He and his wife Dawn and their two children live in Greensboro, NC.


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I've read a lot of "self-help" books over the years, including more than a few designed to supposedly guide you to your passion or true calling. However, Stephen Martin's The Messy Quest for Meaning brings something fresh, and needed, to the genre: It's grounded in a real life that's like the real life that most of us live.

Martin's life is a lot like my own: He's got kids, a demanding career, and has spent many years trying to figure out his true calling. (Full disclosure: I know Martin and worked with him for a couple years.) This is not a book written by a celebrity giving advice from a comfortable position of wealth and privilege. This is the story of a man dealing with college, relationships, kids, a career, health issues and other challenges while also wrestling with faith and searching for meaning.

The author is a devoted Catholic, and there's a lot in the book drawn from Catholic monastic practices and the stories of Catholics from all walks of life (basketball coaches, actors, clergy and more). I was surprised, though, because I'm an ex-Catholic (a very, very ex-Catholic), how grounded, relevant and nonpreachy the book is. The book is not about faith, it's about the search for meaning in one's daily life, regardless of your spiritual outlook. Martin's Catholic approach will be relevant to lots of people.

Here are some specifics that really spoke to me:

1. The role of 'desire' in figuring out your true calling. This sounded a bit odd to me at first, because it seemed almost, well, sinful. However, the idea of identifying those things you truly desire, and have probably always desired, turns out to be very powerful and insightful. It's also helped me come to grips with some of my desires that I realized I'd been avoiding because they weren't in line with what I perceived was expected to me from society.

2. The importance of finding time to reflect, whatever form that reflection may take. Martin talks about journaling as his particular form of reflection, but for others it could involve prayer, meditation, long walks or other activities. Regardless, I realized that's an area where I've shortchanged myself the last few years (in part because of the time pressures of having kids and a full-time job in a two-career marriage).

3. The idea of finding a daily prayer ritual that actually works with your real life. Now, I'm not about to start any kind of daily prayer - it's not in my nature as an ex-ex-Catholic - but Martin's story of finding a 15-minute-a-day spiritual ritual that worked with his life still resonated with me. The idea of finding a grounding daily ritual of some sort has great appeal to me, even if my ritual is unlikely to be religious. I'm still figuring out how to apply this in my own life.

Finally, Martin's book makes me feel a little better. It turns out, despite all those 30-year-old wunderkinds out there that have made their first billion and seem to have it all figured out, that you can still find meaning after the age of 40, with kids, busy career and all.
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I love the subject matter that Stephen Martin tackles in this book. We are all called to a particular path in life, and for many of us that path is meant to help us to discover and reveal gifts, sharing them with the world. It is in this way that we live to the fullest and generously so.

Using a framework that is built around Christian monastic practices, Martin invites us along a different path, a frequently messy one at that. Wanting to help us find our way, the author guides us by revealing so much of his own challenging and - well... messy quest. In fact, instead of cleaning up our acts, we are asked to integrate the messy bits that are part of who we are. In this way we do find order amidst the seeming chaos.

Beginning with a startlingly frank and humble description of his own challenges, Martin reminds us of a jarring truth, yet one that we must face. This truth is something that St. Paul himself wrote of, and that is that our weakness leads us to our strength. It is the one truth that must be gazed at directly and embraced if we are to find out how to be who we truly are.

The discernment process that Martin describes is based on some things that he learned in the company of Trappist monks. It is from here that readers will encounter the five practices that are meant to bring us towards our transformation into the lives that we are called to lead.

Now if this sounds like another feel-good-self-help book, it is anything but. Not only is the author a skilled writer, he culls from a wide variety of sources to encourage us on the journey. Make no mistake, this book is written by a man who is Catholic and we hear a lot about his faith, as well as about other Catholics. With a terrifically catholic approach, , we are given insight from people as diverse as Dorothy Day and James Martin, SJ, to Parker Palmer, Peter Drucker, Ernest Hemingway, and David Brooks, along with other names, both familiar and not-so-familiar.

Aside from being well sourced and grounded, you will also find a book that is at once accessible, funny, charming and humble. That alone is reason enough to buy this book, even if you don't think you want to look at this kind of volume... Do yourself a favor and read this book. You may just find a pleasant and inviting surprise - one that may actually offer some good insights about how we find the work that we are called to do.

This is a great book to read and a great book to give as a gift!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Much more than a career book March 16, 2013
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After sitting down to read this book for the second time, I realized I should probably take a moment to review it online. This little book is so thoughtful and thought-provoking. It provides genuinely helpful advice, based not only on centuries of religious wisdom but also the real-world lessons of one person brave enough to share his own story in order to help others. Whether you're looking for a graduation gift, a way to help a friend struggling with his or her career, or a way to reflect on your own life, pick up this little book -- you won't regret it!
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