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The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships, and Our World [Paperback]

David Gruder
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February 1, 2008 1604150130 978-1604150131
At the beginning of the 21st Century we find ourselves dizzy with resources for conscious evolution. But how do we make sense of all the techniques and traditions? Where do we begin, and what takes top priority? In The New IQ, David Gruder provides a practical roadmap for personal growth that allows readers to move forward with informed integrity.By reviewing the wealth of psychological and spiritual wisdom from across history and culture, secular and sacred aspects of human experience, Gruder identifies the three core human drives: for authentic self-expression, connection with others, and to make a positive difference in the world. Providing more than just a compendious survey, he also streamlines this breadth of information in to a user-friendly version of the personal development process, helping readers to identify which methods are best for them at each stage of their own work.The teachings and techniques are all out there.but not until now have they been organized and reframed for the contemporary seeker.

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"Bold, earnest and heartfelt..." --Roshan R. Billimoria, Former Chair, UN Committee of Non-Governmental Organizations

"Leaders need an integrity check-up and Dr. Gruder is just the man to do it. His simple yet powerful integrity model provides a much-needed shot in the arm." --Ken Blanchard, Co-author of Leading at a Higher Level

"This is the book that can spearhead a massive transformation in our individual, relational and societal integrity and wholeness." --Constance Wells, Senior Vice-President, Walt Disney Studios

"If you only read one book this year about your own development as a truly three-dimensional human being, this is the one!" --George J. Pratt, Ph.D., Chairman, Psychology, Scripps Memorial Hospital

"A profound roadmap for healing the blocks to living a life of joy and integrity." --Margaret Paul, Ph.D., Author of Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You? and Inner Bonding

"The book of the decade!" --Norman Shealy, M.D., Ph.D., Founding President, American Holistic Medical Association

About the Author

Author David Gruder, Ph.D., is Executive Director of Willingness Works' (http://www.willingness.com) in Del Mar, California, though which he lectures, trains, and consults worldwide in his specialty of Integrity Development. For nearly three decades, Dr. Gruder has facilitated integrity enhancement for entities ranging from American Express, to the U.C. San Diego Medical School, to instructing ambassadors and other delegates of the World Trade Organization et al. while concurrently maintaining a waiting-list private psychotherapy practice from 1980 until 2000. In addition to producing over a dozen training manuals and 70+ CD's, his first book, Sensible Self-Help, won two book awards, including Colliers 1997 Mental Health Book of the Year.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 308 pages
  • Publisher: Elite Books (February 1, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1604150130
  • ISBN-13: 978-1604150131
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 0.7 x 6.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #631,986 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Author David Gruder, Ph.D., is Executive Director of Willingness Works' (http://www.willingness.com) in Del Mar, California,
though which he lectures, trains, and consults worldwide in his specialty of Integrity Development.

For nearly three decades, Dr. Gruder has facilitated integrity enhancement for entities ranging from American Express, to the U.C. San Diego Medical School, to instructing ambassadors and
other delegates of the World Trade Organization et al. while concurrently maintaining a waiting-list private psychotherapy practice from 1980 until 2000.

In addition to producing over a dozen training manuals and 70+ CD's, his first book, Sensible Self-Help, won two book awards, including Colliers 1997 Mental Health Book of the Year.

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars This is the hand book for life we were all looking for! February 14, 2008
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David Gruder, has written the book of the decade, if not the century for navigating through our personal lives, our relationships and relating to the world at large.

The way he breaks down the basics of what we take for granted and puts it into perspective in a user friendly (Macintosh way) is priceless!

I've entered into a new relationship that is about 5 months old. I gave this book to her and she and I are going through the book one chapter at a time. Wow, what a difference in our communications after only 5 chapters. We now see how we unconsciously violate our own as well as each others integrity. I can see this is going to make a major difference in my navigation through life, not to mention my new relationship.

I also own a successful business in San Diego. I'm giving my employees all a copy of this wonderful book. I can see with daily practice that our communications skills with each other will dynamically change as well as we relate to our customers.

Our politicians should be mandated to read this as a requirement before they are aloud to represent us. If only that could be true!

I read on average 18 to 20 books per year for the past 20 years, this is one of the top 10 I've ever read.

It's a must read, for anyone who wants a more happy, peaceful and successful life.

Namast'e,
Dana
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
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The New IQ is a self- improvement book about the importance of individual integrity and maintaining balance among the different core drives that are present in every one of us, for greater personal fulfillment and better relationships. When most people hear the word integrity, they think about honesty and genuineness- the dictionary definition of integrity. This definition is fine, and the New IQ doesn't dispute its importance. But what this book is concerned with is something a little different. The concept of "Integrity Intelligence" described in this book involves more than mere honesty. It is a concept that stresses the importance of the three dimensional self and the three important core values (authenticity, connection, and impact) which need to be balanced in order for integrity to manifest itself.

The New IQ is a self- help guide of a different sort and I found its approach more genuine and sensible than many other self- help guides I have skimmed through over the years. Many self- help guides spend too much time talking about a surface concept without digging deeply enough into the root causes of behavior and the necessary actions for self- improvement. Worse, many of these self- help guides over- simplify the situation. A good example is the self- help books that emphasize positive thinking. There is nothing wrong with thinking positively and most agree that positive thinking is better than its opposite. But simply telling someone to "be positive" is not enough. It takes more than that, and the New IQ is one book that offers more. Not only does it explain itself thoroughly, it also offers diagnosis of the problems/reasons why people fall out of integrity and what needs to be done to get the different dimensions back in alignment.

Keeping the three dimensional self and the three core drives in equal or nearly equal alignment is the main goal of The New IQ and the author feels it is critically important to the individual and those around him/her to strive for balance among the three core drives. These three drives of authenticity, connection, and impact are all equally important, but they can lead to many problems for an individual when one of the three core drives dominates one's life/personality. Like the book stresses over and over again, the key to achieving high integrity is to find the right balance between all three of these drives. Those who take one of them too far will fall out of integrity, and this will most certainly have a negative impact on their mental health and personal relationships.

What I like best about the New IQ is that it takes a potentially complex subject and breaks it down into parts that are easy to understand, while still presenting itself in an intelligent, professional manner. Many authors of self- help books communicate like their audience has a third- grade education, but the New IQ keeps things on an intelligent level while also making sense out of everything. The book accomplishes this through the use of diagrams, examples from actual people, self- assessments, and years of professional experience on the part of the author. The New IQ points out that integrity issues are commonplace among all peoples in all walks of life in all parts of the world, but he also points out that improvements in integrity intelligence are possible regardless of the situation or the hand that life has dealt.

Overall, The New IQ is a very good self- help guide about integrity intelligence and the importance of finding balance. Optimal integrity intelligence is desirable for many reasons, and it almost always leads to greater individual satisfaction, better personal and business relationships, and better involvement for the good in one's local community and the global community. The New IQ sets the stage for this development, with clear examples that illustrate the root causes of integrity issues and what needs to be done to eliminate them; making the individual a better person and the world a better place.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Top-Notch Self Help Advice... April 17, 2008
Format:Paperback
Seldom do we find a self-help book that claws away misconceptions the way Dr. David Gruder's book does. In his new tome, The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships, and Our World, the human condition is laid bare, before our eyes.

Ever wonder why we have trouble reaching a relaxed maturity? Dr. Gruder tells us it is because we fail to discard our Childhood Survival Plan. That prevents us from becoming well-rounded adults, by integrating our three core drives--Authenticity, Connection and Impact. When these three are out of balance, Dr. Gruder teaches us, we cannot live a life that is balanced and fulfilling.

In easy to access prose, Dr. Gruder lays bare the essence of the human condition. He teaches us how we can become whole, happy and well integrated within ourselves, our family, and our community.

Every note in Dr. Gruder's book rings true. It is the result of over thirty-five years of experience dealing with the problems we all face, every day of our lives. There is not a single wasted page, not even a wasted sentence in Dr. Gruder's book.

Readers who have embarked on a crusade to make themselves into the people they have always wished to be will find a handy primer here. Dr. Gruder's advice harks back to the Socratic dictum: Know thyself... It echoes the famous Navajo word, Hozho... Walk in balance, walk in beauty. The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships, and Our World is the must read book of the year. (The Midnight Bookworm, Vin Smith)
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This book makes an excellent case for the impact that one's personal integrity has on one's ability to be a successful leader in business and in life. Read more
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Published on September 18, 2008 by Diane Levine
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I just read some of the other reviews and I am chosing to be short and sweet in my review.

David's book is wonderful. Read more
Published on August 26, 2008 by Chris Cuffari
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Published on June 5, 2008 by Charles Ashbacher
5.0 out of 5 stars Dr. Gruder has hit the nail square on the head
Dr. Gruder has certainly captured the need of our time in this era of fallen moral and ethical leadership in our government and businesses. Read more
Published on April 26, 2008 by June Timberlake
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Published on February 14, 2008 by Jamieson Johnson
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