Here is the long-awaited revision of the classic The Joy of Gay Sex,one of the touchstones of emerging gay consciousness. Since its original publication, not only has homosexuality gradually become assimilated into American society, but the gay community has undergone a great transformation as a result of the AIDS epidemic. These changes are reflected in The New Joy of Gay Sex,an essential reference book for every gay man.Dr. Charles Silverstein, a noted psychologist who has worked with gay men for more than two decades and coauthor of The Joy of Gay Sex,has collaborated with critically acclaimed novelist Felice Picano on this revised edition. Invaluable as a resource, in building self-esteem, and as a coming-out guide for young gay men, The New Joy of Gay Sexupdates all the entries of its predecessor and includes many new ones. The book has three goals: to educate gay men about safe sex and save lives by showing the varieties of sexual behavior still available; to address the many emotional and relationship-oriented issues that arise in gay life, such as long-term couples, one-night stands, loneliness, and growing older; and to serve as a general home reference on a number of diverse topics, from living wills to a short history of condoms.With eight color paintings and fifty line drawings by noted illustrators Deni Ponty and Ron Fowler, The New Joy of Gay Sexis a necessary addition to every gay man's bookshelf.
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As the authors suggest in their introduction, some readers, gay and straight, will be offended by this book's nonjudgmental, even accepting attitude toward "the kinkier aspects of erotic life." These activities include sex with animals, sadomasochism and "intergenerational love affairs" such as the relationship between an 11-year-old boy and a 21-year-old man. These repugnant sections of this revised edition of a 1977 guide to male/male relationships mar an otherwise useful volume, with new and updated entries reflecting the AIDS crisis, safe-sex practices and the upsurge of gay political activism. An uninhibited, no-holds-barred sex manual illustrated with 60 explicit line drawings and eight pages of color paintings, the book is also intended as a guide to coming out for closeted gay men. The alphabetically arranged entries conversationally urge readers to delve into psychosocial aspects of gay life and to explore such topics as body image, fidelity, homophobia, jealousy, parents and racism in the gay community. Silverstein, a clinical psychologist, coauthored the original edition with Edmund White. Picano ( The Lure ) is a novelist.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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Charles Silverstein is a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist who practices in New York City.
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28 of 35 people found the following review helpful
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What does a gay man have to benefit from this book? I have asked myself this many times as I sat and flipped through this book, laughing aloud, feeling silly (having bought it only because I wanted to shock the old woman at my book store who adored me and talked poorly about gay men).
Having bought this book years ago, when I was 22 -- I knew what I needed to know then. This seems like a crash course for those outside of the gay community, to those closeted types who need to do research, to know more about who they are, or those bisexual couples merely wishing to explore.
At this book's worst, it's there to hold up and shout "freaks". Funny, when I flipped through the Joy of Sex for heterosexuals I don't ever recall seeing a chapter on SEX WITH ANIMALS!
It seems this book is not so much a book on how to enjoy sex, but a rudamentary book of what gay life is : insurance, wills, choosing a doctor, marriage. If as gay men we were instructed about our lives and the choices we were to make later on, this is the stuff we'd learn starting with our first sex ed book in grade school on up through high school. Nothing more than a bore to shock the libraries.
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Readers who hope to find in this book a how-to manual of gay sex will be very sadly disappointed. Rather it tries (unsuccessfully in my opinion) to be an "encyclopedic" reference from A to Z (with the emphasis on zzzzzz) on the "joyful" life of gay sex, and even then, the book turns out to be only alphabetized, not encyclopedic. Even on those terms it fails. E.g., how can a section about wills be part of the "joys". If anything, wills are a problem about being gay, and irrelevant to gay sex, joys or not. I would say that this book is not at all directed towards gays, who I'm sure will know much , much, much more about the subject than has been written here, but towards those who have a prurient interest, are mere gawkers, or who are timidly venturing towards it. If that is the case, none of these groups would be well-served by this book.The text is antiseptic, pedestrian, and boring, and the illustrations are grotesque, not to mention degrading.
9 of 11 people found the following review helpful
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I have to give this book a ten. It was one of the first things I read on the subject when I was going thought that PAINFUL coming out process as a teenager in 1984, and it made my life much easier. Re-reading it a few years ago, I realized that, while some aspects of it are outdated (HIV and AIDS info, in particular), it still conveys the joys of being gay. It's follow-up, "The New Joy of Gay Sex" does a lot to make up for these lacks. And, of course, if you and your partner get into a rut, you can try some of the interesting positions described (the "crab" comes to mind). Enjoy. Michaelw
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Ehhhh, encyclopedic view of gay sex without the romantic aspect.
Unfortunately, books like this one give the "right" side of the political spectrum ammunition against committed, loving gay relationships. It's not all about sex, sex, sex. Read more
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I loved it, it opened a world of new things. Great!
Published on July 28, 2002 by Steve McAman
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HAHAHAHAHAHAH IT WAS HORRIBLY BAD, I WISH I NEVER READ IT, THE WRITING WAS SOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD. Though the pictures were great.
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ONE WORD: EXTREMELY UTTERLY AND DISGUSTINGLY HORRIBLE, THERE WAS LITTLE OR NO PLOT!
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Recently my girlfriend Cookie and I needed some new sexual positions. Well low and behold, there was "The Joy Of Gay Sex" it opened a new world to us, such as oral and anal sex. Read more
Published on July 27, 2002 by Steve McAman
Groundbreaking gay love manual
Just the title of this book used to get me off, to say nothing of the subtitle. The first (certainly mainstream) how-to-book for homosexuals made history. Read more
Published on June 20, 2002 by Dr. XXX
Gay Sex 101
I know where *I* was when I first read this book. I devoured it! Finally, it was OK to have sex with another guy. Read more
Published on May 28, 2002 by D. L. Paulson
The ultimate gay sex guide gays all over the world!
I first read this book in 1983-1984 and it was a complete eye-opener. Silverstein and White wrote what I would call the ultimate gay sexguide. Read more
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- Man to Man: Gay Couples in America by Charles Silverstein in Front Matter, page 44, and page 48
- Late in the Season by Felice Picano in Front Matter, and Back Matter
- Christopher Isherwood by Wilde on page 78
- Dancer from the Dance: A Novel by Andrew Holleran on page 181
- The Caregivers' Journey: When You Love Someone With AIDS by Mel Pohl on page 89
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- The Violet Hour: The Violet Quill and the Making of Gay Culture (Between Men~Between Women: Lesbian and Gay Studies) by David Bergman on 5 pages
- The Gay and Lesbian Psychotherapy Treatment Planner by J. M. Evosevich in Back Matter (1), and Back Matter (2)
- The Intimacy Dance: A Guide to Long-Term Success in Gay and Lesbian Relationships by Betty Berzon on page 144, and Back Matter
- Boys Like Us by Patrick Merla in Back Matter (1), and Back Matter (2)
- Male On Male Rape: The Hidden Toll Of Stigma And Shame by Michael Scarce in Back Matter (1), and Back Matter (2)
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