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Ladies, read cautiously, take with boulder sized grain of salt
on September 9, 2014
The book tells women that giving "it" away is foolish, and explains how women need to realize the value and power of what is between her legs. It suggests that you go on dates and not feel bad about using a man for free dinner, movies, money, whatever, and the importance of determining and deciding what your "price" is and will be. Its different things for different women. If you have been cheated on in the past, maybe your price is "an honest guy". If you were with a poor guy, maybe its "jewels and cars", or "money". Maybe you have never owned a house, so maybe its a big house on the hill, but (as the book explains), determine what YOUR price will be and don't open your legs until he opens his wallet.
If you are one of these kinds of women, my response is for you to keep what is between your legs and I wish you the best of luck, because I think you will need it. Do not complain that there are no decent men, or that men dump you after spending 10 seconds with you. You see, the guys like me who are decent and honest are not interested in manipulative, abusive women. You know who we are, because we have always treated you and other women you might have known with respect. Maybe you have run into us before--I might be your father, or your grandfather. Maybe a neighbor or teacher, but that doesn't mean that you cannot find one of us who you would be interested in (for a romantic relationship).
We know who we are, and and we are not interested in being your filler date, and we are not concerned with your "price." We will treat you like a queen, give you all we have, and we will love you faithfully, all we want in return is a for you to love adore and value us. One more important thing, we want you to ALLOW us to love you and to treat you like a queen. Don't make it hard for us to love you, only to blame us if you don't think we do. Don't think the games work, like "make him chase you, or never call him." Take the silly panties off that are sold in this book, put your big girl ones on, and act according to your feelings. (You know,-- if you love me and want to call me, do it. If you want to see me, come over.)===I know its complicated and hard to understand, but try it.
I hear that women want their man to be honest with them. OK here goes. We dont need to "buy" you and we wont. If we wanted to "buy" it, we can get it with no strings--(they say fwb-friends with benefits) in many places. The thing is, we are not into any of that and we don't have those kinds of relationships either. I am sure that there are men who won't mind playing your ridiculous games and I'm sure the two of you will get along great for the short time you see each other. See for him he is out to "conquer" and get into those panties then he is done with you. So yeah--from him get as much as you possibly can then go onto the next guy. I hear bars and clubs are a good place to meet these kinds of guys. Thats where they go to look for you.
For what its worth, I paid the price this book is worth, ZERO. It was on the kindle app of a computer I bought so I started looking at it and read it.
UPDATE: I have thought about this review a little and decided to add the following: --and add two stars. First off, I know from having been married for a long time and having daughters that there are some real losers out there who are just after a one night stand and will tell a woman ANYTHING in order to get it. So if you find yourself in one of those kinds of situations, get everything you can up front. Having said that---this book is not going to cure that problem or fix those kind of guys, they are way too stupid but think they are extremely smart. You cannot fix stupid. However, it might help you to reform a diamond in the rough so to speak. So if you see potential, and you think you have a good guy who needs some manners or instruction on how to treat a lady, use this book with moderation-don't run him off. I just took offense to the comments like "ladies don't feel bad if you use a man for dinners, movies, ........etc" You should feel bad. I would feel bad if I used a woman for anything. Then it says, "Dont give out sex until you get your price"===well your price should be a commitment like a ring or a marriage, and then most of these issues will disappear. If they don't, you have the wrong guy, but at least you are not getting burned for one night stands. Maybe I'm just old fashioned and don't think something like sex should be bartered and bargained for, nor should there be a lot of sleeping around---that is the road to diseases and babies without fathers and we have far too much of that already.
I guess the bottom line is this---I don't want any woman to sleep with me because I spent enough money or bought her some necklace or purse she wanted. I want her to be with me because she has feelings for me, and likes to be with me. See I bought the necklace or purse because I have feelings for you and I want to be with you, not because I'm hoping I have paid the price to get into your shorts. That is where I took offense. I know there are no easy answers or solutions, just be careful with this book. Don't take it too literal--there is no telling who you might scare off, he just might have been a great husband and father.