The Pre-Marital Planner [Hardcover]

Vikki Ziegler (Author), Esq. (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: May 1, 2012

Sound advice from one of America s top family attorneys. When couples wed, they promise to stay together till death do us part but in reality, almost 50% of marriages end in divorce. How can you beat the odds and successfully nurture a long-lasting, happy, and healthy relationship? Proper pre-marital planning is the answer. Vikki Ziegler has seen it all and has extensive experience guiding couples emotionally and financially. She created this planner in order to share the lessons she s learned. There s plenty of wisdom here on how to facilitate discussion on every crucial pre-marital concern, from whether marriage is the right choice to whether or not to have children and what to do about money. Ziegler goes through the basic rules that must be followed to create a thriving union, discusses the important emotional attributes that keep a couple together, and explains how to develop good communication and listening skills. She navigates through the sensitive topic of intimacy, as well as the tough issues surrounding anger and conflict resolution. And because clashes over money can torpedo a marriage faster than almost anything else, there s plenty of in-depth attention devoted to finance, with charts and lengthy questionnaires that can eliminate nasty postnuptial surprises. Filled with interactive charts and questions for couples to answer together, plus tips and tools, The Pre-Marital Planner provides smart answers to the fundamental matters that need to be addressed before you enter into the most important relationship in your life.

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About the Author

Vikki Ziegler is not only one of America s preeminent attorneys specializing in matrimonial law and civil litigation, but she s also a media personality known for her commentaries on high-profile cases; an active volunteer for women s and children s charities; and the innovator of a unique and realistic approach to divorce management and litigation. Ms. Ziegler currently chairs the IX Ethics Committee in New Jersey and is a member of the New Jersey State Bar Association and the District of Columbia Bar. She frequently appears on Fox News Channel, FOX 5, CNN, CNBC, Fox Business Channel, CBS, and many other media outlets to discuss high-profile celebrity cases relating to marriage and divorce. She is an adjunct professor at Fordham Law School and the CEO of divorcedating.com, a website that serves as a resource for information and to assist newly divorced singles as they navigate the dating environment.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 192 pages
• Publisher: Imagine, a Charlesbridge Imprint (May 1, 2012)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1936140683
• ISBN-13: 978-1936140688
• Product Dimensions: 6 x 1.3 x 9 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,211,383 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  • #55 in Books > Law > Family Law > Marriage

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0 of 1 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars I wouldn't be divorced if had read this book before I got married May 16, 2012

By Ronaldo

Format:Hardcover

So many of the points in this book seem fundamental or common sense, but actually they are more important than you'll ever know. Starting with communication. In my own relationship I didn't bring up certain issues because I was afraid of confrontation or hurting his feelings. Ultimately the little things we didnt talk about ended up being the very issues that broke us up. After reading this book I feel ready to do the work on my relationship before it's too late. I am going to give this book to everyone I care about. Thank you!

0 of 1 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Vikki Ziegler GETS IT RIGHT..so you can TOO! May 11, 2012

By NYC011

Format:Hardcover

WOW! I have seen other guides but this one by well known family attorney Vikki Ziegler gets it all out in the open!
Her many years of experience show through as she guides each partner individually and as a couple through the REALITY of MARRIAGE, COMMITMENT, and LIFE EVENTS. I have seen her on shows like Dr. Drew, Nancy Grace, and Jane Velez-Mitchel...she is smart, direct and hits all the points necessary to get to the real issue. I have already purchased 3 copies, one for myself, my niece and my sister who is divorced and in a serious relationship. Being in love is great, being prepared to go forward into commitment with the right awareness and tools for a successful partnership, and a happy life together is just a click away...BUY IT! READ IT! LOVE IT!

0 of 1 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Don't Get Married Without This Amazing Book! May 8, 2012

By N. Raimondo

Format:Hardcover

This thought provoking book is filled with very useful tips, questions and practical advice from Vikki Ziegler a successful divorce attorney who has seen it all. If you are married, or thinking about getting married this book is a must read. It will help you both put the important issues on the table and set yourself up for a happy marriage. From how to handle conflicts, healthy ways to communicate, money, children to your dreams and goals. This book covers it all and will insure your marital bliss. Get this book for everyone you know, they will thank you for it!