About the Author
I.- Any relationship is a contract.
Two individuals promise to help each other satisfy their needs. Thus, to support healthier relationships, we need to help people find new ways to identify and meet their personal needs in ways that will serve them and others in the long term. We teach you how to identify, explain and negotiate your personal satisfaction with your partner.
II.- Human beings need interpersonal conflict in order to grow.
Not everyone will tell you this. We fight in order to individualize and keep learning other lessons, but also to get the other person's attention. It is through relationships that people either rise to the most creative possibilities, or fall into the immobilizing trap of fear and stop growing.The key is to find the hidden need causing the confrontation and hurt, and apply more satisfactory ways of getting personal needs for love and connection solved.
III.- Hate and anger will poison your life, even if the person "deserves it."
You can even physically harm yourself by harboring too much negativity. The old hurts of abuse and neglect project a long shadow on our adult lives...So, learning to deal with inner and outer conflict can literally save your life by freeing you from stress.
NORA FEMENIA, Ph.D
Kindle Author, Conflict Coach, Public Speaker