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The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships [Kindle Edition]

Mali Apple , Joe Dunn
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Book Description

2012 International Book Awards Gold Medal Winner in the "Relationships" category
2012 Living Now Awards Silver Medal Winner in the "Relationships/Marriage" category

Create the Love of Your Life--Keep the Life in Your Love

Since it was first published, The Soulmate Experience has helped thousands of people around the world create relationships that are intimately connected on all levels--emotional, intellectual, sexual, and spiritual--and a continual source of love, inspiration, and joy.

This "practical guide" is really two books in one:

Part 1 gives both singles and couples powerful tools for creating extraordinary relationships. Chapters like Loving Your Body, Reducing Your Baggage, and Raising Your Soulmate Potential will help you let go of anything that might be preventing you from experiencing deep connection and intimacy.

Part 2 shares the secrets for keeping the love and passion in your relationship fully alive, every single day. Through chapters like Turning Expectations into Invitations, Transforming the Energy of Jealousy, Exploring the Edges, and Connecting on a Soul Level, you will learn how to approach even the toughest challenges in ways that actually bring you closer together. And Playing Leapfrog will show you how to lovingly guide each other to unlock your full potential in every area of your lives.

Whether you're single and searching for your "soulmate," or want more excitement and connection in the relationship you already have, the groundbreaking ideas in this book--and the inspiring stories of real people putting them into practice--will open you to a whole new world of possibilities. Because The Soulmate Experience is more than just a book. It's a great way of living life.

About the Authors
Mali Apple and Joe Dunn are relationship coaches, lovers, and best friends. They have dedicated their relationship to discovering how to keep the magic in any relationship alive. They take great joy in helping singles and couples create and sustain their own "soulmate experiences."

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"What a beautiful book! Written without the trappings of spiritual or psychological jargon, The Soulmate Experience is a user-friendly guide to a completely authentic way of being. In a simple and personal way, Mali and Joe usher you into a new paradigm of relating where the truth of unconditional love can actually be known and lived." ~Tobin Giblin, author of The Art of Mindful Living

"No matter how many other relationship books you've read, this is the book that gives you the tools to attract a soulmate, and find solutions to the challenges of relationship that will allow that soulmate experience to blossom." ~Joanne Sprott

"Reading this book is like listening to your best friend who knows you better than anyone else and loves you unconditionally." ~Laura Alavosus

"I just need to keep reading this book over and over again. It's made a huge difference in meeting new people." ~Deborah Newton

"Buy this book even if you don't think you need it. The messages in it will transform your life and your relationships." ~Jean Marshall

"I'm in awe by how much this book has changed my life." ~Gabe Hanson

"A truly wonderful book: easy to read and digest, practical, lighthearted, full of compassion and encouragement. One of those books you can pick up for a few moments and transform your day." ~Ed Tucker

"The planet needs this book as soon as possible." ~Diane Knorr

"This book demonstrates what soul-level connection is all about and how it can be cultivated--with lots of suggestions and ways for couples to get there together." ~Monty Perry

"As a married couple, we are delighted with this book. The Soulmate Experience is a must-read for all those desiring to bring love to themselves and healing to the world." ~Carole Christe and Buzz Foote

"You give me hope that it is possible for me to find my second soulmate." ~Maria Auten

"This is a great guide to follow if you want a soulmate relationship--not only with that special someone, but with everyone you will ever meet." ~Matthew M. Watson

"Mali and Joe light the path for others to not only dream, but to follow those dreams into reality. It is because of The Soulmate Experience that I have found a new `Soul Companion.'" ~Laura Brewster

"What a pleasurable book to read! The language is so natural, the stories so easy to identify with, and the advice so practical--I felt like I was sitting around a kitchen table having a conversation with the authors." ~Diane Hart

"Mali and Joe offer inspiration and affirmation along every step of the path." ~Beth Middlecamp

"This book is not just about creating soulmate relationships with others. It's about loving yourself enough to be open to receiving and giving love. I just want to buy up a million copies for all of my friends!" ~Katie Le Normand

"Love the ideas and concepts--and especially the tons of easy to understand, practical suggestions." ~Deanna Dudney

"I wish I could bottle up the magic golden soulmate dust that Mali and Joe project into the universe. It might just heal all that is wrong with our world." ~Leslie Gibford Escoto

About the Author

Mali Apple and Joe Dunn are relationship coaches, lovers, and best friends who have dedicated their own relationship to discovering how to keep the magic in any relationship alive. Their greatest joy is helping singles and couples to create and sustain profoundly connected, exciting, and deeply rewarding relationships. They have just released the second book in The Soulmate Experience series, The Soulmate Lover: A Guide to Passionate and Lasting Love, Sex, and Intimacy.

Product Details

  • File Size: 3207 KB
  • Print Length: 294 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 0984562206
  • Simultaneous Device Usage: Unlimited
  • Publisher: A Higher Possibility (April 26, 2011)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B004Y5OJUY
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #55,269 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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109 of 116 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars POWERFUL, POSITIVE, TRANSORMATIVE April 27, 2011
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
You will never see me in the "self help" section of a bookstore..just not me. You will find me in fiction, non fiction, military history in a book store. You may have seen me in the Veterans Administration Mental Health Clinic as this old warrior struggles with his PTSD. You may have seen me in divorce court.
About 9 months ago I recieved a dear john email from my second wife, I was deluded as I thought she was my soulmate. Devastated, wanting to end this life, my best friend, a psych Nurse told me to go to the Facebook page "The Soulmate Experience". Not only did I go there, I daily go there and am active and interactive with a community of souls from across our beloved mother earth. Hard to articulate what this site is....part support group, part soul and sole work. To paraphrase the Venerable Thich Nhat is "Transformation at the base!" I was stuck in the mud of failed relationships, loathing self, baggage, shame and fear...what occured during the past 9 months is again to quote Thich Nhat Hahn..."Out of the mud, a lotus blossoms". I did the work daily at the site. My profession oft times drains my soul. By using the tools at the Soulate Experience daily, I fill my soul back up. Finally Mali and Joe have published this lovely book. I am over halfway through it. It is for me akin to polishing a beautiful diamond. For my diamond eye NOW knows: Boundaries, Limit Setting, Openess, Positive self talk reverberates around my brain. Affirmations that help keep my soul grounded with a sense of love and awe. My baggage...over it, for my baggage is now viewed as positive things in this journey called life. I first learned to let go and essentially unlearn past habits. I then started to work on loving myself, grey hair, wrinkles, a few extra pounds and guess what..
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45 of 47 people found the following review helpful
... because that is not what you will get. However, if you are looking for a way to become a better person, thus having deep, meaningful relationships, this book will change your life as it did mine. The Soulmate Experience compels you to be a magnificent person. It is easy to read and loaded with simple tools and techniques to learn to love the people in your life even BIGGER. It will change you for the better.
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68 of 75 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars How can I be a soulmate? April 7, 2012
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"The Soulmate Experience" is an engaging read. The authors believe that you can form a soulmate relationship with the person you are already with. Instead of thinking that you should find your soulmate they make you consider how you could be a soulmate. This is a more unique way of looking at the situation.

I liked the idea about treating your partner like a guest in your life instead of like a prisoner. Too often we become possessive and demanding when we fall in love. True love is much more freeing. The authors also make the point that people who have low self-worth can become abusive to feel in control.

I also enjoyed the chapter on how to transform jealousy into more loving feelings. That is worth the price of the book.

More religious people might not agree with the advice to go to a clothing optional spa or to take a naked yoga class. For most people this would be uncomfortable and embarrassing not to mention go against some of their deeply held beliefs.

Also there is a section that talks about accepting the fact that your partner is going to look at other people and find other people attractive. You will need to be very secure in your love to practice pointing out beautiful people for your partner to observe. My advice is to never tell your partner that anyone is more attractive than they are. This is just trouble in the making. My husband and I play a little game where I say someone it attractive and he tells me that they are not. Let's just say he gets points for this behavior.

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29 of 30 people found the following review helpful
I loved this book. It goes way beyond the scope of lovers, as the principles can be applied to ANY relationship--platonic, family, best friends, and even people you interact with in business.

Part 1 is about how to create the soulmate experience. The book begins with a chapter on clearing your mind and letting go of beliefs that interfere with relationships. Examples are "I'm not good enough," "I don't' fit in," or "Men can't be trusted." We are taught how to identify the belief, examine and question it, craft a replacement, and reprogram the old belief.

Plenty more wisdom follows. The next chapter deals with loving your body and reaching a state of self-acceptance. But the chapter I especially like is "reducing your baggage." Baggage can be addictions, the ego's mask, and resentments. I just love how the authors explain the different lenses we can use to view every situation clearly. I have always stated that "Everyone is doing the best they can," and the book has an entire section on this! If we truly realize this, we can view other people's actions with compassion instead of judgment and resentment. Most remarkable, we can transform relationships even if the other person isn't willing to reduce THEIR baggage. We are also taught how to "raise our soulmate potential."

Part 2 is about keeping the soulmate experience alive. This section is so important because, as the authors relate, very few of us have had relationship education! We learn how to become free from expectations of others; this is sure to destroy the joy of relating sooner than anything. Expectations are turned into invitations, a much healthier viewpoint. We discover in this section that a partner is not there to make us happy--that is OUR responsibility.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This book's ideas, if followed, will change you.
Exceptional insights and progressive ideas .
I plan to read more of authors' books. Don't miss out on this opportunity to show compassion for you and those in you... Read more
Published 12 days ago by D. Swanson
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book!
Best self help book I've ever read. Valuable information to help improve all of your relationships.
Published 14 days ago by Lindsey Craig
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I love this book. I recommend it to everyone and have given it as a gift. It is not a book to sit and read in one setting; it is a book to read and learn from each part. Read more
Published 21 days ago by Maegan Meacham
5.0 out of 5 stars A transformative and inspiring book
This book is so much more than a “how to” guide for couples committed to (or seeking) a happier romantic relationship. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Joanna Gawn, Author of The Lazuli Portals
5.0 out of 5 stars Makes you think
This book really challenged me to look at my relationships and determine how I could make them better. The author provided action steps to succeed and get more out of life.
Published 2 months ago by Kate H
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Great read!
Published 2 months ago by Patricia Pinto
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book! Everyone in a relationship should read this
Great book! Everyone in a relationship should read this!
Published 3 months ago by Kay Carleson
5.0 out of 5 stars Touching, Inspiring
I started reading this book when I was dating a guy who I'd been with for almost 2 1/2 years. While in the process of enjoying the first few chapters, my relationship unexpectedly... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Maggie Warren
5.0 out of 5 stars Inspirational, Practical & Beneficial - A Five Star Self-Help Guide!!!
It is important that every “couple” read The Soulmate Experience. Why? Because it will not only change your life, it will help you determine if you are truly with your soulmate. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Dr. Ree
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Fabulous book if you want to learn about yourself. Highly recommend
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