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The Trouble With Friendship: Why Americans Can't Think Straight About Race Hardcover – January, 1996


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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 214 pages
  • Publisher: Atlantic Monthly Pr; 1st edition (January 1996)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0871136198
  • ISBN-13: 978-0871136190
  • Product Dimensions: 1 x 6 x 8.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 2.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,695,443 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Social critic DeMott (The Imperial Middle) offers a salutary deconstruction of "friendship orthodoxy"?the new theme of black-white commonality that, he says, prevails in pop culture and revisionist thinking and hampers moves toward racial justice. DeMott's take on ad campaigns, sitcoms, movies such as White Men Can't Jump and such authors as Studs Terkel (who calls for "affirmative civility") is devastating. Then he cites research comparing the U.S. to other "caste-like" societies and declares that caste remains?especially for poor blacks. Worse, "nonscholarly cultural production" has served to erase history, he states, criticizing Roots and the PBS series The Civil War for ignoring the lasting effects of slavery. Though society embraces the palliative words of such black neoconservatives as Shelby Steele, we ignore the fact that their messages of individual pride also acknowledge the need to help the poor. Thus, in a brave and potent challenge to orthodoxy, DeMott calls on the majority society to recognize its responsibilities and to endorse "broadscale programs of development" for blacks.
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A top social critic argues that bringing blacks and whites together is not enough. Excerpted in Harper's September issue.
Copyright 1995 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By HawkWalk on February 6, 2015
Format: Paperback
How can there just be just one review of this book? It's one of the most important racial analyses of the media ever written and, especially given what's happening the US at the moment, a critical and authoritative discussion of why different races in America seem to be living on different planets sometimes.
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It was difficult in the beginning because it was example after example, however, it grows your understanding through those examples, and couldn't have been approached any differently. Given Benjamin DeMott's previous writings, it begins to tie into today's social realms in ways that we thought we knew, but skimmed over because we believe racism is dead, when it's clearly not. Even though the information is twenty years old now, it ties things into our lives to acknowledge, "this is still happening, and what have we done differently?" We cannot move forward as a nation if we don't start with ourselves and stop ignoring the lessons of our past. Therefore, the information is just as good as it was twenty years ago. The trilogy would be a great collection for entertaining an open mind and practices. To change a mindset is probably the hardest thing to do, but it is the action that will make the change become relevant.
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4 of 11 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on February 2, 1997
Format: Hardcover
An amazing book. DeMott's books about race and class really opened my eyes... highly recommended
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