With the premise that abuse begets abuse, the famed Swiss psychoanalyst mounts an eloquent argument against all forms of cruelty to children, especially corporal punishment. Believing that "[o]ur bodies retain a complete memory of the humiliations we suffered, driving us to inflict unconsciously on the next generation what we endured in childhood," she argues that childhood trauma is also manifest in many physical ailments, urging doctors to take "childhood reality" into account during treatment. However, frequent references to her other books, notably the bestselling The Drama of the Gifted Child and For Your Own Good give this slim book an air of preaching to the converted. Miller reiterates her distrust of "sadism sanctioned by religions" from Islam to U.S. Christian schools, and of behaviors that range from genital mutilation and circumcision to corporal punishment. She reserves particular concern for the Catholic Church's failure to outlaw beatings in European schools. Among her most intriguing finding is that children who survive brutality without repeating it generally have enjoyed the affection of a "Helping Witness" in their lives. Adults, too, can free themselves through rigorous analysis that acknowledges early trauma and confronts one's defense mechanisms and behavior patterns. Some forms of psychotherapy may be useful, Miller believes, but she discounts the value of "relaxation training or meditation." Even "power of love" alone can be overestimated, she says. (Sept.)Forecast: Given Miller's stature, this book will be visible, though the publicity may drive readers to her more seminal works.
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This book re-states and elaborates Miller's basic points as stated in The Drama of the Gifted Child and The Body Never Lies. Read morePublished 2 months ago by Anna Lee
Very intense book... Once you start reading it you will start a major cleaning of your past.. I don't know if I ever will want to go back to this book because it caused so many... Read morePublished 4 months ago by Alexandra
One of the most painful and insightful books I've read. It should have profound impacts on parenting, governments, social policy etc. Read morePublished 10 months ago by Nicholas Andrew
It's true...the truth will set you free. And, the truth about the way our culture (in the USA) treats kids needs to be revealed. Read morePublished 10 months ago by Amazon Customer
This book gives great insight in children and parentes dynamics. The book is easy to read. You dont have to be a psychologist to follow the writer. Read morePublished 10 months ago by Andleb Zahara Jafri
Alice Miller has a way of speaking the truth, to those who will listen and hear.Published 10 months ago by Kathy M. Scogna