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The Truth Will Set You Free [Paperback]

Alice Miller
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December 10, 2002
More than twenty years ago, a little-known Swiss psychoanalyst wrote a book that changed the way many people viewed themselves and their world. In simple but powerful prose, the deeply moving Drama of the Gifted Child showed how parents unconsciously form and deform the emotional lives of their children. Alice Miller's stories about the roots of suffering in childhood resonated with readers, and her book soon became a backlist best seller.In The Truth Will Set You Free Miller returns to the intensely personal tone and themes of her best-loved work. Only by embracing the truth of our past histories can any of us hope to be free of pain in the present, she argues. Miller uses vivid true stories to reveal the perils of early-childhood mistreatment and the dangers of mindless obedience to parental will. Drawing on the latest research on brain development, she shows how spanking and humiliation produce dangerous levels of denial, which leads in turn to emotional blindness and to mental barriers that cut off awareness and the ability to learn new ways of acting. If this cycle repeats itself, the grown child will perpetrate the same abuse on later generations--a message vitally important, especially given the increasing popularity of programs like Tough Love and of "child disciplinarians" like James Dobson. The Truth Will Set You Free will provoke and inform all readers who want to know Alice Miller's latest thinking on this important subject.

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From Publishers Weekly

With the premise that abuse begets abuse, the famed Swiss psychoanalyst mounts an eloquent argument against all forms of cruelty to children, especially corporal punishment. Believing that "[o]ur bodies retain a complete memory of the humiliations we suffered, driving us to inflict unconsciously on the next generation what we endured in childhood," she argues that childhood trauma is also manifest in many physical ailments, urging doctors to take "childhood reality" into account during treatment. However, frequent references to her other books, notably the bestselling The Drama of the Gifted Child and For Your Own Good give this slim book an air of preaching to the converted. Miller reiterates her distrust of "sadism sanctioned by religions" from Islam to U.S. Christian schools, and of behaviors that range from genital mutilation and circumcision to corporal punishment. She reserves particular concern for the Catholic Church's failure to outlaw beatings in European schools. Among her most intriguing finding is that children who survive brutality without repeating it generally have enjoyed the affection of a "Helping Witness" in their lives. Adults, too, can free themselves through rigorous analysis that acknowledges early trauma and confronts one's defense mechanisms and behavior patterns. Some forms of psychotherapy may be useful, Miller believes, but she discounts the value of "relaxation training or meditation." Even "power of love" alone can be overestimated, she says. (Sept.)Forecast: Given Miller's stature, this book will be visible, though the publicity may drive readers to her more seminal works.

Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

About the Author

Alice Miller has achieved worldwide recognition for her work on the causes and effects of childhood traumas. Her books include The Drama of the Gifted Child, Banished Knowledge, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware, and For Your Own Good. She lives in Switzerland.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Basic Books; Reprint edition (December 10, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0465045855
  • ISBN-13: 978-0465045853
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (23 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #121,790 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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96 of 98 people found the following review helpful
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Format:Paperback
Alice Miller goes into a facinating and undoubtably true acount on how we are often are own worst enemy. We often poison ourselves with comfortable lies that end up causing more damage than we realize both spiritually and physically.
The Truth will Set you Free, is a wonderful title for the books content. As someone who has been meditating almost daily for the past several years I have grown to develop an awareness of myself that I did not have in earlier years. So I put Alice Miller to the test. After a meditation session I stayed sitting and relaxed and began to think Aloud the following statements pausing for 3 minutes between each one. 1- He was the best father in the world and he loved me very much growing up. 2- My father never loved me and wouldn't have cared if I died. 3- Though he did care and provide, my father was a pathetic man who loved himself much more than he ever loved me. When I said the first two statements, I felt an inner tension in my gut and upper spine. When I claimed the last one the tension released completely. That's because the last statement was the true one, regardless of how hard it might be to admit. But such tension is subtle and not detectable by most people at first. Alice Miller states that we often take the lies told to us by society and family and embody them, but our bodies/subconscious CANNOT be lied to. And our bodies carry around the toxic lie until finally we find ourselves getting sick. Facing truth may hard for your mind to bear initially, but it's the only thing that alleviates pain in the soul and body in the long run. The only problem I have with this book it offers almost no practical guideline as to what someone can DO to get to the truth. It mentions therapy briefly. Meditation I know works too, but it took me a long time before I grew to an awareness of subtle little shifts in emotion and the body like what I experienced in the 'experiment.' The type of people who would buy this book most likely have already faced their emotional blindness on some level and are looking to learn ways to enhance that- and that practicality is what this book is missing. Still a fascinating and potentially enlightening read.
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29 of 31 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars a re-tread of her wonderful and classic point of view October 17, 2001
Format:Hardcover
It's hard not to give anything by Alice Miller five stars, because I think she's the greatest psychology writer out there today - at least the one who's influenced my personal growth and my work as a psychotherapist the most - BUT... But, this book just isn't her greatest, and I found the same problem with it that I found with her last few books...that they're really just a re-tread of her old themes, and her ideas just aren't expanding that much further than those presented in her early classics (For Your Own Good, Drama of the Gifted Child, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware). Granted, this book has its little gems, little case studies here and there in which she expresses her point of view from a slightly new angle, little lines in which she hits the nail right on the head, but if you read her classics and you avoid this book you won't be missing much.

That said, if this is the first (or only) Alice Miller book you come across, you really won't be let down. And perhaps that's her point. In each of her books she presents a concise version of her whole point of view, as if to make sure you don't miss it. And since her point of view is truly classic, so is each of her books regardless of its repetitious nature...this one included.

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52 of 60 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent! August 20, 2004
Format:Paperback
I cannot recommend this book highly enough. It covers what Miller calls "Poisonous Pedagogy" that stems from parents and religious teaching. If you truly want to free yourself from a toxic and traumatic past buy this book - your mind will undoubtedly be opened to the horrors of accepted childcare and religious teaching practices.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Abuse Information With Answers
Alice Miller is an amazing writer, on subjects, that few are able, or willing to tackle with her relentless honesty.

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Published 4 months ago by patricia stewart
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellant Psychology Book
Another excellant psychology book which I had read before.and wanted to share with my daughter who is now studying psychology.
Published 4 months ago by Sophia Briggs
3.0 out of 5 stars A good book for people who were spanked, slapped, beaten or abused as...
I have read some of Ms Miller's other books, and they were extremely helpful in sorting through the impact my less-than-perfect childhood had on my adult behavior and life in... Read more
Published 5 months ago by LizardLips
5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely the most honest book I have read
I recently came upon Ms. Miller's work about the effect of childhood abuse on the psyche and how that affects how we live and the emotional issues that won't be silenced until they... Read more
Published 7 months ago by Life Is Good
4.0 out of 5 stars Help to Set you Free!
Interesting book but not terribly insightful. I will always be appreciative of Miller's focus on childhood drama and trauma, but I did not learn much from this particular book. Read more
Published 11 months ago by Phyllis Antebi Ph.D
5.0 out of 5 stars the truth will set you free
A fantastic book, that should be given to all perants as soon as they become pregnant, Give's a clear and precise account of how one can carry in an subconouse level the hurt's... Read more
Published 11 months ago by joe muri
4.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all parents
After having read another of Alice Miller's books (Drama of the Gifted Child) I thought I'd see what else she had to say and in The truth will set you free I was not disappointed. Read more
Published on May 13, 2010 by Jillian Millar
5.0 out of 5 stars Subliminal and insideous trauma
What Alice Miller does better than anyone else is uncover assaults to the soul that are generally unrecognized. Read more
Published on February 4, 2010 by M. Livote
5.0 out of 5 stars a book with great insights regarding humans personal matters
The book is very well written and interesting. It is of great help to all adults of narcissistic parents / families. Read more
Published on December 23, 2009 by silk
5.0 out of 5 stars Break through the family curse
This is a great book to help me understand myself. From my grandma to my mother, and to me, our personal life seem repeat the same fate of the earlier generation's. Read more
Published on September 11, 2009 by Jie Bo
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