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Product Details

  • Series: Ultimate Guides (Cleis)
  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Cleis Press; Second Edition edition (August 3, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 9781573443982
  • ISBN-13: 978-1573443982
  • ASIN: 1573443980
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (84 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #486,949 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"Most men want it more, and most women have mixed feelings about it, if not an outright sense of dread about the act. To all of them my advice is the same: Pick up Blue's Ultimate Guide to Fellatio 2nd Ed."
Sarah Estrella
--Examiner National

More About the Author

Ms. Violet Blue is an investigative tech reporter at CNET, Zero Day, ZDNet, and CBS News, as well as an award-winning sex author and columnist, making her the foremost expert in the field of sex and technology. She has authored and edited several award winning, best selling books in eight translations. Ms. Blue is on Twitter @violetblue and her human sexuality blog is tinynibbles.com.

Blue has reported on hacking, cyber crime and personal privacy violations in countries such as Malaysia, Germany, Russia, China, the Dominican Republic, the United States, and Serbia. Her work as a journalist has broken many large stories about hacking and cybercrime, affecting the largest online companies and millions of users. Blue is the journalist who broke the story when Anonymous hacked The U.S. Federal Reserve ("The Fed" Bank), the story in which social sharing app Snapchat was hacked and its user database maliciously exploited, and the story when Comcast was hacked and millions of user accounts were compromised. She is also responsible for breaking several critical stories in which Apple iMessage and Apple iCloud were exploited, and when hackers showed how to hack an Apple iPhone in 60 seconds.

Blue has appeared on CNN and The Oprah Winfrey Show and is regularly interviewed, quoted, and featured in a variety of publications that include ABC News and the Wall Street Journal. She has been a sex columnist for the San Francisco Chronicle.

She has been at the center of many Internet scandals, including Google's "nymwars" and Libya's web domain censorship and seizures--Forbes calls her "omnipresent on the web" and named her a Forbes Web Celeb. She has given keynote talks at such conferences as ETech, LeWeb, and the Forbes Brand Leadership Conference, she received a standing ovation at Seattle's Gnomedex, and has given two Tech Talks at Google. In 2012, Blue presented "Hackers and Harm Reduction" on the featured stage for CCC's 29c3 hacker conference in Hamburg.

The London Times named Violet Blue one of "40 bloggers who really count."

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3.9 out of 5 stars

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344 of 354 people found the following review helpful By girldiver on July 29, 2004
Format: Paperback
I really wasn't prepared to actually learn anything from this book. I truly thought this book would be a recap of what I already knew. I was wrong! Like a lot of women, I was guilty of over-simplifying the male sexual cycle. This book addressed many misconceptions women have about the male sexual cycle and male orgasm. It also touches on the unique individuality of every man; just like women no two men are exactly alike in need and preferences in touch.

This book delves into the act of going down along with the gender on the receiving end of this erotic practice but the book is also littered with other practices and erotic short stories by Alison Tyler. Of course the focus is in fellatio and the art of being able to give delightfully. My favorite chapter was on the technique of deep throating. Personally, I thought deep throating was a myth limited to exploitation on porn flicks but after reading the technique I'm sure to experiment with the technique. Every aspect of going down is covered between the pages of this book. If you ever had a question about going down this book answers it whether it concerns ejaculate, techniques, visual stimulation, toys, and even practicing.

The book is a little dry for my taste but packed full of information that is useful and thought provoking if you genuinely want to please and enjoy giving by practicing fellatio I highly recommend you read this book.

girldiver:)
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287 of 298 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on February 26, 2003
Format: Paperback
This book is very thorough and beginners will find it especially helpful. There's some interesting thoughts on inhibitions, good information on male anatomy and male orgasmic response, and useful suggestions for solo practice, as well as a variety of techniques for male genital massage. The chapter on male anatomy and sexual response will be especially helpful to people with little sexual experience, however they'll need to read it more than once, and will probably find it a little overwhelming. It's very thorough and detailed. Additional information on anal play, fantasies and use of toys rounds out the book. Blue deals with uncomfortable issues in a straightforward way throughout the book, providing thoughts and anecdotes with a healthy attitude toward sex. But the techniques are the heart of the book. I find it indispensable.
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88 of 93 people found the following review helpful By Jenifer M on January 7, 2005
Format: Paperback
I had recently read, "Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing," by Sadie Allison, and I enjoyed it thoroughly. I had tried out some of her techniques and positions -- and I was surprised to find that her suggestions in both areas had worked out much better than I had expected. Given these successes, I was curious to see if another book, "The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio," by Violet Blue, would teach me even more.

The first half of the book deals with basics, like mental preparation, anatomy, STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) and hygiene. As the "Ultimate Guide," this work's treatment of `swallowing,' though, is woefully scattered and unfocused. And I definitely could've done without the section on how to give oral love to a strap-on, which seemed to me like a total waste of time.

Where this book really shines, though, is in the area of deep throating. There's some nice diagrams which really helped me to understand how the gag reflex is triggered - and how it can be avoided. Besides relaxation and practice, Ms. Blue's best advice for deep throating better - is breathing.

The key, quite simply, is to breath OUT when it goes in, and to breath IN when it comes out - which is actually counter-intuitive, and why most of us end up choking. Ms. Blue also suggests doing this on an empty stomach - which would preclude performing this most loving of acts, unfortunately -- after one has been richly wined and dined! (Poor baby!) Lastly, there's some additional instruction offered on sexual positions which again centered on lifting your chin to position your mouth more in line with your throat, (think sword swallowing).

Other little tips that Ms.
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92 of 98 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on October 31, 2002
Format: Paperback
You won't find another sex guidebook that is this smart, interesting and full of useful information. This book never insulted my intelligence; Violet Blue writes in a straightforward but fun tone (the section on male orgasm is fascinating) that gets right to the heart of going down on a guy. This book tells you exactly what to do with your mouth and hands, and how to make oral sex fun for both giver and receiver, plus how to do it anywhere, anytime. The entire chapter on deep throat was an eye opener, especially the anatomical illustration. She gives solid advice about every aspect, and I found her advice for the squeamish especially helpful. This really is the ultimate guide.
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41 of 45 people found the following review helpful By Gordy Kline on March 20, 2003
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Although, I thought our sex life was great before.... after reading this book together, my wife and I are experiencing, just as the title says "mind-blowing pleasure".
The techniques presented in this book work perfectly. The male anatomy lessons, and the information on erectile disfunction have changed our lives. We both feel like teenagers again.
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28 of 30 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on May 16, 2004
Format: Paperback
My boyfriend told me I didn't need to improve my oral techniques as he was quite satisfied; however, I went ahead and purchased this book anyway. Now he is very happy I bought and read this book... he says it made "good sex" into "great mind-blowing didn't know it could be this fantastic sex" and is amazed at the variety of techniques I've shown him. I found this book informative on many levels-- from the finer points of male anatomy to the processes involved in male orgasm. I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to expand their repertoire and keep the fires burning.
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