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Is There Anything Good About Men?: How Cultures Flourish by Exploiting Men [Kindle Edition]

Roy F. Baumeister
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Have men really been engaged in a centuries-old conspiracy to exploit and oppress women? Have the essential differences between men and women really been erased? Have men now become unnecessary? Are they good for anything at all?
In Is There Anything Good About Men?, Roy Baumeister offers provocative answers to these and many other questions about the current state of manhood in America. Baumeister argues that relations between men and women are now and have always been more cooperative than antagonistic, that men and women are different in basic ways, and that successful cultures capitalize on these differences to outperform rival cultures. Amongst our ancestors---as with many other species--only the alpha males were able to reproduce, leading them to take more risks and to exhibit more aggressive and protective behaviors than women, whose evolutionary strategies required a different set of behaviors. Whereas women favor and excel at one-to-one intimate relationships, men compete with one another and build larger organizations and social networks from which culture grows. But cultures in turn exploit men by insisting that their role is to achieve and produce, to provide for others, and if necessary to sacrifice themselves. Baumeister shows that while men have greatly benefited from the culture they have created, they have also suffered because of it. Men may dominate the upper echelons of business and politics, but far more men than women die in work-related accidents, are incarcerated, or are killed in battle--facts nearly always left out of current gender debates.
Engagingly written, brilliantly argued, and based on evidence from a wide range of disciplines, Is There Anything Good About Men? offers a new and far more balanced view of gender relations.

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Drawing on psychological and sociological theory in what he acknowledges is an essayistic rather than scholarly work, Florida State psychology professor Baumeister addresses gender roles and equality in a simplistic and even baffling book (as an example of male-female cooperation, he writes, "Most men voted to extend the vote to women," overlooking how long it took before men agreed to cast that vote). The reason men dominate culture and rule the world, he observes, is not that men are superior to women or have designed patriarchy to oppress women but rather that culture grew out of male relationships, which resulted in large structures containing many people (whether to engage in trade or in war), and thus men were always in charge. Whereas women, in Baumeister's view, seek close one-on-one relationships that are not culture-building. The author's belief that future cultures will be better off if they recognize and accept the differences between men and women can sound an awful lot like a "separate but equal" argument. Ultimately, though, Baumeister's repetitious and circular arguments fail to contribute any fresh ideas to the gender debate.
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"[Baumeister] does make the fascinating point that men operate at the extremes, socially and biologically." --Bitch

'Male readers may find some solace in Roy F. Baumeister's "Is There Anything Good About Men?" Mr. Baumeister is less concerned about the wimpification of modern man than about the degree to which men have been historically "exploited." The very cultures that men have built, he says, have considered males more expendable than women... But men, Mr. Baumeister says, are often taken for granted and denigrated as the bane of female existence, with some gender activist insisting that women would be better off without them. In a feisty rejoinder, Mr. Baumeister says that "'if women really would have been happier without men, they would have set up shop on their own long ago."
--Dave Shiflett, Wall Street Journal

"Read this if you're open to a thought-provoking take on so-called battle of the sexes. Packed with counterintuitive but convincing points, the book will reshape how you think about sexism, feminism, and gender differences." Andrea Bartz, Psychology Todayl

"There are some interesting arguments concerning marriage, procreation, and the creation of culture that students and professionals in the field of evolutionary psychology probably
would be interested in discussing further." -- Elin Weiss, Sex Roles

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  • Print Length: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Oxford University Press; 1 edition (July 15, 2010)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B003WT26I0
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34 of 36 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Unique; Highest Possible Recommendation November 28, 2012
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Florida State University psychology professor Roy F. Baumeister has published an excellent, even stunning book that answers the title question, "Is there anything good about men?" with a resounding yes. To explain "why men have dominated culture and ruled the world," the author writes, "[C]ulture grew out of the way the men related to each other, more than out of women's relationships.... Because culture grew out of men's relationships--including competition, trading and communicating with strangers, and ample doses of violence--men were always in charge of it."

Ever the optimist, Baumeister believes "that the hostility between the sexes has been overstated." He points out that "women got the vote because a majority of men, only men, voted to extend the vote to women." In one deft paragraph, the author summarizes Warren Farrell's outstanding book Why Men Earn More and demolishes feminist suggestions that oppression explains the gender salary gap.

The take home for the author is, "If we want to understand gender and culture, we need to have our eyes open to how culture exploits men as well as women." Following in the tracks of Farrell, he ticks off several disadvantages of masculinity--greater likelihood of criminal sentencing and longer sentences, higher levels of homelessness, 92% of workplace deaths happen to men, and of course the male-only conscription systems in place around the world.

Baumeister reminds us of the reasons why men seem to be more expendable in these ways to society: men are in fact literally more expendable, in that "culture needs only a few men but as many women as possible" due to their biologically different roles in producing the next generation.
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53 of 62 people found the following review helpful
By Ham
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This book is possibly one of the most important for men (and women) in the last 50 years of the so-called gender debate. As one of the world's leading psychologists, Baumeister takes an open and inquiring approach into many of the myths and poses the question "are there alternate explanations here?" and in doing so, debunks almost every feminist 'anti-male' myth.

However, this is not a book which is anti-female, if anything, it cleverly explains that we need both genders, and that we both serve different purposes and roles from a cultural perspective. It also dissects the apparent drive (mainly in the US) demanding that men to be more like women, which thankfully, is also debunked. We do not need men to be more like women, nor women to be more like men.

For example, Baumeister illustrates that men have great interpersonal relationship skills (which is not what the feminists claim), and that men use these in a larger social setting, whereas women have great interpersonal skills and tend to use these in more intimate 1:1 setings. Men are considered as more 'expendable' by society, are not treated equally in the workplace, in risky occupations etc...... some real eye openers in this book.

This will challenge your thinking, and is a welcome fresh perspective. Possibly the first book in the gender space to be unbiased, evidence based, and thought provoking. Highly recommended.
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33 of 42 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Is there anything good about this book? November 6, 2010
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That question is easy to answer: yes! This book is an incisive, extended essay about gender differences and the role the play in our society, with positions that are backed up by a great deal of research, done both by the author and others. It also serves as an essay on the perceptions of gender in our culture, particularly among well-educated people. Until reading this book, I never realized how much misinformation about gender is widely accepted. For instance, the fact that the average male sex drive is stronger than the average female sex drive is obvious to many people (and can be proved, as the author points out), and yet textbooks and scholarly writing on sexuality and gender assert that there is no difference at all (or that women have a stronger sex drive), and this mis-perception is commonly promoted and repeated.

The beautiful thing about this book is that it is, for the most part, remarkably unbiased. As a social scientist, the author knows how to interpret data and describe its implications while avoiding value judgments. He points out where implications are clear-cut but multifaceted, and also points out where there are multiple possible causes or effects. Nonetheless, this is destined to be a controversial book. Some of the points in this book support some out-of-fashion traditional beliefs on gender. Others novel beliefs that are at simply at odds with what educated people are supposed to think. And while the author himself steers away from advocating any specific course of action, it is easy to imagine people reading more into his analyses that is actually there, due the charged nature of the topic.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Insights January 5, 2014
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This was one of the most interesting and insightful books I've ever read. One might expect that it would either reinforce my male prejudices or alter my perception of how men are valued in our present culture but it did neither. The effect of reading this book enhanced my appreciation for women throughout history. The ridiculous conspiracy theories peddled by real and imaginary feminists have always seemed too farcical to buy, yet I find I've imbibed a lot more of their Kool-aid than I had expected. Fact is women don't make very good men (and men make worse women), and Though I've always been suspicious of feminist claims about patriarchy and similar nonsense, I still expect women to be more like men, but even worse, to understand manly attributes and the reasons why things are the way they are. Yet how could they? With all the endless drivel, starting with the foolish theory of the superiority of men and then swinging to the opposite extreme today, how could anyone land on truth?

Well I reckon that's just what the good professor has done.

Both sexes ought to be able to appreciate the strengths and weaknesses of the other. And what is in this book? Analysis of the mounds of research that has already been done where the truth sat there waiting to be found, but because of obtuseness, or political correctness, or prejudice, or just plain stupidity, the correct conclusions were avoided like the plague. Yet the conclusions were all there waiting to be teased out. Some of it is so obvious I keep slapping my forehead in disgust that I never saw it before.

The final paragraphs are a plea for all of us to quit thinking of the other sex as the enemy and see that partnership is by far the best policy. I couldn't agree more.
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1.0 out of 5 stars One Star
Could not get into this book at all.
Published 2 months ago by brent b young
4.0 out of 5 stars Men are horrible. Until women need to have their healthcare
Men are horrible. Until women need to have their healthcare, careers and social security subsidized. Read more
Published 5 months ago by NYCGreg
1.0 out of 5 stars The title should be "is there anything good about women
Be warned that the author is a raving sexist. The title should be "is there anything good about women?"
Published 5 months ago by L. A. Graham
5.0 out of 5 stars Educational Read
Easy and convenient read. Very informative and the author did a splendid job with his arguments and having the scientific data to back them up. Read more
Published 7 months ago by dan
4.0 out of 5 stars Boys vs Girls - Women vs Men: Battle of the Sexists
This well written, documented essay discusses the current view held by many that female humans are being subjugated and held back by male domination. Baumeister thinks otherwise. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Frank
5.0 out of 5 stars A masterpiece.
Unbelievably, amazingly good. He manages to talk about gender dynamics in America in such a thoughtful way that even the most ideologically opposed might listen, and even those in... Read more
Published 7 months ago by Andrew
4.0 out of 5 stars A Thinker's Book on Men and Women
Baumeister's book is above all refreshing to read. He casts aside typical arguments about gender inequality and starts from a fascinating hypothesis. Read more
Published 12 months ago by Mike
3.0 out of 5 stars Very interesting, but longer than necessary
Professor Baumeister's book is hard to rate. On one hand it contains very interesting ideas about the differences of the two sexes based on biology and evolutionary psychology. Read more
Published 12 months ago by Tibor Mach
5.0 out of 5 stars Great quality
It came in very good quality. Wish I didn't have to spend so much money though because I didn't end up using it so much.
Published 13 months ago by Madeline
3.0 out of 5 stars Worth the read. first half of the book is good, you can skip the...
It is a good read in terms of understanding he dynamics that go into the different behaviors and wants of males and females. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Efren Castillo
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