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You Can't Choose Your Family, December 30, 2005
It is said that you can choose your friends, but can't choose your family. In THEY TELL ME OF A HOME, the main character, Tommy Lee Tyson has learned just that. At eighteen, he left his small town of Small Creek, Arkansas and vowed that he would never return. Ten years later, armed with a doctorate degree, he has accepted that he cannot simply run from his past and his family demons, and as the book opens, he is exiting a greyhound bus just a walk away from his childhood home. This childhood home carries a lot of ghosts; a physically and emotionally abusive father, a mother that could never show him love, and a brother with whom he felt very little connection. The only positive memories of his childhood stem from his younger sister, and it is his need to reconnect with her that, at least in part, is his motivation for returning. When he returns however, he learns that his sister died, and he spends the rest of his visit trying to uncover the facts behind her mysterious death. In his search for answers, he quickly learns that the secrets surrounding his sister's death are only the tip of the iceberg.
I have had the privilege of reading quite a few first time authors over the past year, and Daniel Black is definitely at the top of my list. He has crafted a story that is timeless, intelligent, and brilliantly written. Even though I knew from the book's description that Tommy Lee would learn of his sister's death, the scene left me in shock and speechless because it was written with such heart. The characters were vibrant and colorful and the plot was realistic and engaging. Black captured the essence of black southern life in a multi-dimensional fashion, from the secrecy, to the humor and sense of community. The book touched on a variety of themes and social issues, all of which are explored through the main character's search for answers and more importantly, the search for his place in his family and community. While THEY TELL ME OF A HOME deals with issues such as abuse, incest, religion, and other very serious topics, the story never gets weighed down by them because the author also includes moments of camaraderie, friendship and humor to balance it out. This is a book to savor, one that made me laugh, cry, and call my friends to share certain passages. Painful, yet graceful, emotional, yet humorous, timeless, yet relevant; THEY TELL ME OF A HOME is a fantastic accomplishment by a debut author.
Reviewed by Stacey Seay
of The RAWSISTAZ™ Reviewers
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
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Sins of the Father Visit the Children, October 11, 2005
Daniel Black's debut novel, They Tell Me of a Home, is the story of twenty-eight year old Tommy Lee (T.L.) Tyson who returns to his rural hometown of Swamp Creek, Arkansas after a ten-year hiatus. Tyson left behind an abusive father, emotionally detached mother, sullen older brother and a loving younger sister, Cynthia. T.L. adored Cynthia and she was his reason for living and wanting something better than his humble, backwoods beginning. It is because of his sister that he is now returning home after completing ten years of higher education and receiving a Ph.D. in Black Studies-which leaves his father wondering why he wasted good money on learning about Black Folks-when he could have told him everything he needed to know! His sister,who was not even 10 when he left home,was his pride and joy, childhood friend, spiritual confidante and was his only reason for wanting to stay connected to folks who obviously had no commitment to him. However, ten years is a long time to be gone and to have very little contact with family, so much to his surprise and chagrin, he learns upon returning home that his sister is gone-she died. No one notified him of her untimely death and no one wants to talk about it nor tell him how she died.
In his tantrum and angry quest to find out what happened to Cynthia, T.L. will rip open the dysfunctional fabric that holds his family together. He will discover that the glue that seals them together includes generational secrets, incest, adultery, emotional annihilation and self-hatred. Going home will also bring him face to face with his favorite teacher who is dying and who has a few secrets of her own. She also has a demanding request of T. L. that he is not sure that he can honor. Since returning home, the baggage of the past is suffocating him and stifling his reason for being-and now that his sister is gone he is in more of a hurry to return to his beloved NYC. But can one ever really emotionally or physically leave the place they call home?
They Tell Me of a Home is a powerful, universal story of a young man returning home and coming to the realization that " my coming home was because I had missed the most critical lesson any student can learn-that transforming the world begins with love of one's own people." Black delivers a poignant message as we journey with T.L. and he discovers that just maybe being from Swamp Creek isn't so bad and drives home an even greater message that many folks of color still need to hear today-" that until we teach ourselves, we will always hate ourselves' -and continue to run away from the situation rather than to deal with what ails us.
Filled with wit, wisdom, social messages, folklore and rural southern black folk and their ways, Tyson's debut novel is creatively crafted and a page-turner. Beautifully and lyrically written, colorful characters including secondary characters that felt like family and inclusion of my two favorite topics-African American History and religion quickly moved this read into my Top 10 for 2005. Anyone who has ever spent time in the South or still has family there will identify with at least one of the characters in the story. They remind us of folks that we would not choose if given a choice but because of blood relations these are the same folks that we lovingly and sometimes grudgingly call family. I highly recommend this book to anyone seeking a refreshing and wonderfully crafted story featuring an African American male protagonist who endearingly worms his way into our hearts and leaves a few unforgettable gems of nuggets for us to chew on-as only a Southerner can do!
Reviewed by Yasmin
APOOO BookClub
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They Tell Me Of A Home, April 27, 2008
This review is from: They Tell Me of a Home: A Novel (Paperback)
This is the story of T.L. - a man who is raised in the south but leaves home to seek change. After obtaining his Ph.D., T.L. returns home to find that as much as he has changed, life in his small town has pretty much remained the same. However, one thing has changed, his beloved Sister is now dead and is buried in the family backyard, but no one seems to know how Sister died. In his efforts to find out the truth about Sister's death, T.L. also uncovers some other truths - about his life, his perception of his family, and his real feelings about Swamp Creek, Arkansas - the town that really has remained the same.
Having grown up in the South, this novel immediately transported me to that time and that place and stirred up many memories of my life in a small, southern town. I laughed, I smiled, and felt as if I was actually "there" as the words brought the images in this story to life. I knew the answers to many of T.L.'s problems - all except one - which reminded me of another book I'd read with the same issue. A wonderfully written book that I will surely recommend to others. Can't wait to read this author's latest novel.
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