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They Were Still Born: Personal Stories about Stillbirth [Hardcover]

Janel C. Atlas
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December 16, 2010 1442204125 978-1442204126
Stillbirth, defined as the death of an infant between 20 weeks' gestation and birth, is a tragedy repeated thirty thousand times every year in the United States. That means more than eighty mothers a day feel their babies slip silently from their bodies, the only sound in the delivery room their own sobs. Eighty stillborn babies a day means heartbroken families mourn the death of children who will never breathe, gurgle, learn to walk, or go to school.

In 2006, Janel Atlas became one of those mothers who left the hospital with empty arms; her second daughter, Beatrice Dianne, was stillborn at 36 weeks. Reaching out for comfort, she realized a dire need shared by so many others like her, and so was born a collection of new essays by writers each sharing their firsthand experiences with stillbirth. Atlas includes selections not only from mothers but also fathers and grandparents, all of whom have intimate stories to share with readers. In addition, there are selections that answer many of the medical questions families have in the wake of a stillbirth and that offer the latest research on this devastating loss and how it might be prevented. Grieving parents will find in these pages the comfort of knowing they are not alone on this painful path, validation of their babies' lives, and guidance from those who have suffered this tragedy. In addition, They Were Still Born both inspires and shows readers how to honor and remember their own babies and stories of loss.

No parent- or grandparent-to-be sets out planning to purchase They Were Still Born. Unfortunately, there will always be readers-devastated, grieving, and searching for voices to help them through-who need it.

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As is true for all obstetricians, I was confronted with the reality of stillbirth early on in my career. Nothing prepares mothers for this potentially devastating experience. The process must be shared and grieved if the wounds are to fully heal. They Were Still Born helps this process enormously. This collection is beautiful, moving, and healing. (Christiane Northrup, M.D., OB-GYN author of the New York Times bestselling Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause )

These courageous, moving accounts from the fierce front lines of infant loss are filled with rare beauty and insistent love. They Were Still Born will help heal the bereaved and illuminate a culture that has for too long closed its eyes to the pain and devastation of stillbirth. A tour de force. (Lorraine Ash, author of Life Touches Life: A Mother's Story of Stillbirth and Healing )

The nearly two-dozen-chapter book's authors include a wide variety of men and women — a bereavement specialist, an obstetrician, a staff writer for The Washington Post, a registered nurse, a professor, an anthropologist, and more, all of whom share their experiences....In addition to the poignant essays, They Were Still Born includes a section called "The Way Forward," which features ideas for honoring and remembering your baby and engaging in creative expressions of grief. It also includes chapters on what doctors currently know about stillbirth, as well as emerging research on the topic. There is also a 10-page listing of resource books for adults and children, support networks, blogs and more. (Delaware Online )

There is useful information about the need for more autopsies following stillbirth and better data collection to assist with research into 'unexplained' stillbirth. Overall, this book should be a valuable resource not only for mothers grieving for a stillborn child, but also for their partners, relatives, and the wider community. (The Lancet )

About the Author

Janel C. Atlas is a freelance writer and editor whose work has appeared in various regional and national publications. Since her daughter's stillbirth, Atlas has written extensively about pregnancy and infant loss and spoken with many leading researchers in the field. She studied English Literature at Messiah College (PA), and now lives in Delaware with her husband and daughters.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 280 pages
  • Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers (December 16, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1442204125
  • ISBN-13: 978-1442204126
  • Product Dimensions: 6.3 x 0.8 x 9.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #337,561 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful Book November 29, 2010
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Whether you had a loss 3 months ago (like myself) or 30 years ago, or even if you have a friend, sister, daughter who had a child born still, this book will touch you deeply. I felt I could have written just about all of the stories that were put in this book. From the ranging emotions after your loss to coping with subsequent pregnancies to dealing with other people unaware with our situation, these stories all ring true. I highly recommend this book!
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars This book will break your heart and open your heart December 15, 2010
By Sally
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I've read a lot of books about pregnancy loss and the loss a child since my daughter died in 2008, but nothing has hit home quite like this book did. Each and every story rang true to me and I nodded along from the first page to the last. Not just a collection of heartbreaking birth stories, where in every situation, the baby is born with no signs of life, this book delves deeper and shows the darker side of the loss and what happens when you come home from hospital without your baby.
For anyone who has lost a baby to stillbirth, no matter what the gestation, birth order or how long ago it was - you will find immense comfort in this touching book.
Comes very highly recommended, though I am sorry for anyone who has reason to buy this book.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Comprehesively and sensitively written November 22, 2010
Format:Hardcover
Excellent for personal reflections to help heal emotionally after a still born and also good references for causes, research and how to be a good advocate for yourself.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect book for a horrible time
My daughter was stillborn and I have never felt such heartache, sorrow, and grief before in my life. Read more
Published 1 month ago by R. Howard
5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful and Cathartic
As the mother of a stillborn, this book was beautifully written and echoed many of the sentiments and feelings I am processing thru at this time. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Julie McSweeney
5.0 out of 5 stars Brought tears to my eyes!
This book touched my heart so much! Myself going trough a stillbirth it was really nice to read other people stories and relate to what they went through!
Published 2 months ago by Laura B.
5.0 out of 5 stars Very well written
It's been just over 2 months since our first grandchild was delivered stillborn. I have read only what is available on this site to read of this book. Read more
Published 9 months ago by babygirl
5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling anthology - Needed a hug afterwards
This book is extremely well-written and organized. The different writers share their stories in their own voices, but transitioning from one account to the next is handled in a... Read more
Published 17 months ago by Deb
5.0 out of 5 stars great book
must-read for anyone who has ever lost a child to a miscarriage or stillbirth. very unique resource for grieving parents that pulls these surprisingly common tragedies out of their... Read more
Published 17 months ago by desertfox
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic resource for bereaved parents
They Were Still Born: Personal Stories about Stillbirth was a breath of fresh air to read. As a counselor who specializes in stillbirths and infant loss, I often find myself... Read more
Published 20 months ago by DEFamilyofFive
4.0 out of 5 stars Writing with White Ink
Famed French feminist Helene Cixous encourages women to write "with white ink." By this she means that women need to write with and about the experiences of their bodies, their ink... Read more
Published on May 13, 2011 by Crystal Nelson
5.0 out of 5 stars They Were Still Born: Personal Stories about Stillbirth
Great resource for grieving parents. Normalizes the wide range of emotions that are experienced during such a challenging grief process and lays the foundation for creating a... Read more
Published on May 11, 2011 by heather suchanec-cooper
5.0 out of 5 stars Highly recommend
Stories are what make an impact...giving truth and life and understanding to an experience. I found this book incredibly encouraging... Read more
Published on January 31, 2011 by R Regier
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