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  • Series: Good Things to Know
  • Paperback: 137 pages
  • Publisher: Turner (September 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1596525487
  • ISBN-13: 978-1596525481
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.4 x 6.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (17 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #651,268 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged, offered thought provoking insight AND it was a quick read which you can skim in 5 minutes or dive in and spend a few hours with when you are ready to get honest with yourself. It is important to know what you're getting into before you grab that ring. And ladies, too often you shy away from really important questions because you're in love and it just feels so right. Pick up this book, get answers to your questions from your man (and give him the honest answers from you as well) and find out if you two have what it takes for 'till death do us part. You'll be glad you did. - Victorya Michaels Rogers --mantokeep.com/blog

A must read for any couple interested in a long term relationship. Straightforward and easy to read, the author presents information on the big issues like money, sex and kids as well as smaller issues like patience and respect. No one should walk down the aisle and say I do without reading this book. --Barbara Bartlein - Author of Why Did I Marry You Anyway? Overcoming the Myths That Hinder a Happy Marriage

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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful By JognJan on November 4, 2009
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I bought four copies of this little book for my kids and relatives. It is packed with brief, practical nuggets that are useful to consider in any relationship. Some of my favorite chapters were "Beware of the Person of your Dreams" (He/she may actually represent some unfinished or unresolved relationship from your past); "One Hardly Ever Hears 'I Wish I Had Gotten Engaged Earlier'" (You need to become sufficiently annoyed at certain aspects of your partner's personality so that you have a good sense of your partner's strengths and weaknesses.) "Dont express every random thought you have in your head about your partner" (Learn appropriate timing and context.) "Great sex will not save a mediocre relationship" but "mediocre sex can become great sex with patience and determination." This little book is worth the investment and makes a nice little stocking stuffer for close friends and relatives who are dating and/or serious about someone.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Amazon Customer on September 27, 2009
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This book is deceptively simple in presentation, though within the short time it will take you to read it, your view of your relationship may be radically altered- for the better! It certainly caused me to do a bit of soul-searching about my current (and past) relationships. What I liked about it was that it manages, in a much more direct (and at times humorous) style than most, 'to cut to the chase' so to speak and crystalize for the reader some of the key principles behind the establishment of a trusting and loving relationship between you and your would-be spouse. For those already applying this book's principles you may find validation here that you're on the right path. For those not employing some of these principles, well get ready for some serious reassessment of your relationship! While the book is entitIed '51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged' I think it would very helpful even for those in relationships that may not yet be on the verge of tying the knot. Maybe they should rename it "51 Things You Should know Before Getting into Any Relationship Whatsoever!" A wonderful, quick and informative read. Highly recommended!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Victorya Rogers on February 8, 2010
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As a relationship coach I often get sent books by fellow authors for me to check out for my clients. Some are good and some are...well some I don't tell you about because it's not worth your time to read. One of the books I recently read, 51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged, offered thought provoking insight AND it was a quick read which you can skim in 5 minutes or dive in and spend a few hours with when you are ready to get honest with yourself. Whereas I don't agree with everything psychotherapist Michael Batshaw says in this little book, I do agree that it is important to know what you're getting into before you grab that ring. And ladies, too often you shy away from really important questions because "you're in love" and it "just feels so right." Wake up and smell the heartbreak! Pick up this book, get answers to your questions from your man (and give him the honest answers from you as well) and find out if you two have what it takes for "'till death do us part". You'll be glad you did.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Mark C on September 26, 2009
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This is truly a great book. It's amazing how much helpful advice and wisdom is contained in such a compact easy-to-tote volume. Michael Batshaw is an intelligent and gifted writer. He is cleary a skilled therapist who knows his subject matter. He is clear, concise, and insightful.

A great deal of useful information is contained within the book. Each of the 51 chapters is brief, covering just several pages. I found this format to be very helpful, as it was succinct and crisp, enabling me to easily digest key points in a brief period of time.

This is likely to be a beneficial book, not just for those considering getting engaged, but to anyone in a serious relationship.

I highly recommend this book!!!
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful By S. Richardson on November 4, 2009
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This is like the tough yet solid talk you WISH you'd had with a father, grandmother, older brother, or someone supposedly "in the know."

The advice is useful not just in terms of popping the question, but also in terms of conducting any real relationship.

Not a lot of saccharine, there is some very straight talk that you might not want to hear, but really SHOULD know about before jumping into a relationship. It's a book you can use, from which you can grow.

Delivered in short chunks, the book is exceedingly usable. That is, the content is economic, spare, and to the point. He delivers plenty of really insightful challenges and suggestions. You'll find yourself walking away from each short chapter with plenty to ponder.

I wish I'd had this a long time back.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Anthony Aguirre on October 26, 2009
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As this little gem of a book makes clear, most of our heads are filled with a lot of nonsense about what romantic relationships are like, which cause us a lot of trouble when we enter a relationship for the long term. Our society gives us lots of advice (albeit not always so useful) about finding and falling in love. But other than bumbling through it ourselves, where do we come across real and useful advice for how to navigate the inevitable difficulties and challenges that arise in every serious relationship? This book, while small, simple, readable and straightforward, packs a punch and will probably change the way you think about your growing relationship, at whatever stage you are. It is alternately comforting and challenging, wise and playful. If you read this book, what is the value of pain it might save you, and enrichment it might bring to your life? I guarantee you it will be more than 10 bucks worth! You can't go wrong.*

*Well, there is one danger - I recently almost leant my copy to a friend who was debating whether her relationship was worth staying in. But she decided it was too risky to leave lying around the house! Then again, perhaps this is too cautious -- if you ARE going to pop the question, or break it off, the book is small enough to be easily concealed...
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