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Things I Want My Daughters to Know [Kindle Edition]

Elizabeth Noble
3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)

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Book Description

How do you cope in a world without your mother?

When Barbara realizes time is running out, she writes letters to her four daughters, aware that they'll be facing the trials and triumphs of life without her at their side. But how can she leave them when they still have so much growing up to do?

Take Lisa, in her midthirties but incapable of making a commitment; or Jennifer, trapped in a stale marriage and buttoned up so tight she could burst. Twentysomething Amanda, the traveler, has always distanced herself from the rest of the family; and then there's Hannah, a teenage girl on the verge of womanhood about to be parted from the mother she adores.

But by drawing on the wisdom in Barbara's letters, the girls might just find a way to cope with their loss. And in coming to terms with their bereavement, can they also set themselves free to enjoy their lives with all the passion and love each deserves?

This heartfelt novel by bestselling author Elizabeth Noble celebrates family, friends . . . and the glorious, endless possibilities of life.

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From Publishers Weekly

Noble (The Reading Group) hits her stride in her tearjerker fourth novel. Before Barbara Forbes, a mother of four, succumbs to terminal cancer, she leaves words of wisdom for her four daughters in the form of letters to each of them. In the year following Barbara's death, her daughters draw strength from her words and from each other as they move forward with their lives. Lisa, the eldest, is advised to "let someone look after [her]" for a change. Jennifer, "fragile and hard to reach," struggles with an unraveling marriage. Free-spirited Amanda is thrown for a loop by a family secret, and teenaged Hannah, experiencing her first taste of rebellion, is reminded that she still has a lot of growing up to do. Though Barbara's life-is-short aphorisms are nothing new, her sharp wit and distinctive voice is a nice complement to the four nuanced stories of coping with death. (Apr.)
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From Booklist

The terrible impact of bodies falling from the sky, the shrill thwack of a golf ball hit out-of-bounds, the elusively tender caress upon a faithful dog’s head. Such tactile, sensory imagery infuses Amend’s lustrous collection of short fiction that celebrates the forlorn and isolated, the disgruntled and misunderstood, the least guarded and most apprehensive among us. With sly humor and subtle insight, Amend traces the uncertain trajectory of love from devotion to deception, blossom to breakup, through relationships both casual and deep. An inner-city schoolteacher tries desperately to break down the barriers between insensitivity and empathy in “Dominion over Every Erring Thing,” while a writer of cybererotica is surprised by a callous lack of loyalty in “The People You Know Best.” In a world where husbands begrudgingly support wives and sisters inexplicably betray brothers, where lovers appear and disappear at whim, Amend’s dialogue is crisp and pure, her observations nuanced and keen, her understanding of the human condition buoyant and clear. --Carol Haggas

Product Details

  • File Size: 619 KB
  • Print Length: 402 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 006168659X
  • Publisher: HarperCollins e-books; 1 Reprint edition (March 17, 2009)
  • Sold by: HarperCollins Publishers
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0015DWIZ6
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17 of 18 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Likable but not lovable April 8, 2008
Although I liked "Things I Want My Daughters to Know," I didn't love it. As a daughter who lost my own mother at an early age, some of the story felt too artificial to me and the pat, happy endings for all the main characters were just a tad too unrealistic for me. Where I feel the author went wrong was by commencing this book in medias res (in the middle of things), after the mother has already died. As a result, the reader never gets the opportunity to genuinely experience the bond between mother and daughters. Therefore, an emotional disconnect exists.

What Noble does extremely well, though, is develop believable characters. In each of the daughters I could see shades of myself and how I dealt with the grief of losing my own mom. Lisa, the oldest, is "too strong for her own good" and afraid to let anyone love her. Jennifer, "proud and intent on emotional independence," strangles herself in love relationships that have long run their course. Amanda, the free spirit, uses travel as a means of escaping the real world. And Hannah, the teen who loses her mother far too soon, struggles to become a woman without her maternal role model to guide her.

In summation, "Things I Want My Daughters to Know" is a good book to pass a lazy afternoon, but it's not one I'd put on my list of all-time favorites.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
As the once full-of-life Barbara Forbes is being treated for terminal cancer, she begins a journal of things that she wishes to share with her four daughters. She also writes each of her daughters an individual letter to be opened only after her death. There is Lisa, the oldest and most like her, full of life yet stubborn, too; Jennifer, married but obviously unhappy although refusing to talk to anyone about it; Amanda, the daughter who Barbara always considered her "own," as no father was around to raise her; and Hannah, Barbara's late-in-life baby, now left alone with her father, Barbara's grieving and lost second husband, Mark.

The book opens on the day of Barbara's funeral, and so the reader gets to know Barbara only through her writings. The story is told from varying perspectives in turn, including that of Mark in addition to each daughter. Initially, everyone seems to be coping as well as can be expected with Barbara's death (which was anticipated, after all) but it doesn't take long for the delicate surface to begin to give way. Each daugther must wrestle with her own demons, negotiating her own way without her beloved mother for advice and support. Eventually--and with the help of Mark, who plays a crucial role--the family is able to survive their various conflicts and emerge on the dawn side of grief. In the end, the message of this book is a simple one, if a somewhat cliched one: that love conquers all, whether it is a mother's love for her daughters, the love between sisters, or the romantic love that binds two people together forever. Overall, a worthwhile read.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
There should be a sophisticated, respectful term for novels that are for and about women but that don't belong to the cynical-singles, brand-name-plastered shop-and-shag genre often dubbed chick lit. Although both types tend to have pastel covers, the books I'm talking about (call them sisterhood lit) are like THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA's older sibs: more mature, less brittle --- though not necessarily less fun.

Fun is an odd word to apply to Elizabeth Noble's new work of fiction, THINGS I WANT MY DAUGHTERS TO KNOW, given the lugubrious-sounding setup. Quirky, beautiful, high-spirited Barbara contracts a terminal disease and dies, leaving Mark, her devoted second husband, and her four girls to fend for themselves. But wait. Like everything Noble writes, this novel is comfort food in book form, reassuring even when it is desperately sad. By the time you've spent a year in the company of Barbara's family, you've laughed as well as wept, and when the characters achieve a sort of closure about their loss, so do you.

Female bonding has been Noble's territory from her first book, THE READING CLUB, and on through THE FRIENDSHIP TEST and ALPHABET WEEKENDS (okay, in that case the main friendship is with a guy, but many of the same principles apply). Here she focuses on four sisters (shades of LITTLE WOMEN!) who exemplify the intimate joys and rivalries of an (almost) all-female household. Each struggles differently with the conundrum of how to carry on after Barbara's death, yearning for love but also apt to run away from it.

Lisa, the eldest, has a terrific boyfriend but is suspicious of commitment. Jennifer, married but unhappy (and rather a wet blanket when we first meet her), isn't sure that she wants to have kids --- or even that she still loves her husband.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Touching book! May 29, 2008
This is a great book. I could not put it down. As a mother, I was moved by Barbara's need to leave something for her girls. The characters are very complicated and the author gives great insight to each of them.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Love this Book! May 2, 2008
This is definetly one of those books that you don't want to put down. Enjoyed reading it very much. This story has inspired me to keep a journal for my children to give them years to come.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars It was ok. i could have been written a ...
It was ok. i could have been written a bit more creatively.
Published 5 days ago by C Fraser
2.0 out of 5 stars "Then Amanda held out both hands to Jennifer and Hannah ...
"Then Amanda held out both hands to Jennifer and Hannah. Hannah grabbed onto Lisa, and Lisa gave her other hand to Amanda."??? Read more
Published 6 months ago by Leigh West
5.0 out of 5 stars Best book I've read in a long time
This was a great read and I found it hard to put it down. Great story about sensitive issues that was very well written.
Published 7 months ago by Jan Ingram
5.0 out of 5 stars Things I want My Daughter's To Know.
Having two daughter's myself I thoroughly enjoyed the book. I don't, however, agree with some of the decisions Barbara made.
Published 12 months ago by Barb
5.0 out of 5 stars Love it! A must for mothers with daughters.
If you have grown daughters this book is very touching. A very enjoyable read! It was different from other books I normally read.
Published 13 months ago by vicki
5.0 out of 5 stars OUTSTANDING!
I was researching this title to see if it already exist because I am considering writing a book something like this! I though it was really outstanding! Read more
Published 22 months ago by sammy
5.0 out of 5 stars A good read.
As a mother of three daughters I related to many of the stories. Also, gave me thoughts that I should keep in mind as I grow older.
Published on March 11, 2013 by readreadread
3.0 out of 5 stars Disappointing as potentially it was a great idea.
Despite having read three of Elizabeth Noble's earlier novels and having had two titles sitting on my bookshelves for a few years this is the first time I have read one, since I... Read more
Published on December 14, 2012 by LindyLouMac
3.0 out of 5 stars Not Brilliant, but Quick
I picked this up at my local library for some (hopefully) light reading. Although the subject material (the death of a loved one ) is quite heavy, the book was easy, quick and... Read more
Published on December 26, 2010 by DayleyA
2.0 out of 5 stars Liked it, Didn't Love it
Elizabeth Noble's newest book "Things I Want My Daughters to Know" had an overused plot (mother/father dying leaves letters for family she/he leaves behind). Read more
Published on April 19, 2010 by Obsidian Blue
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Elizabeth Noble is the internationally bestselling author of The Reading Group, The Friendship Test, Alphabet Weekends, and Things I Want My Daughters to Know. She lives in New York City with her husband and their two daughters.

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