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Thy Neighbor's Wife [Paperback]

Gay Talese
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Book Description

April 14, 2009

The provocative classic work newly updated

An intimate personal odyssey across America's changing sexual landscape

When first published, Gay Talese's 1981 groundbreaking work, Thy Neighbor's Wife, shocked a nation with its powerful, eye-opening revelations about the sexual activities and proclivities of the American public in the era before AIDS. A marvel of journalistic courage and craft, the book opened a window into a new world built on a new moral foundation, carrying the reader on a remarkable journey from the Playboy Mansion to the Supreme Court, to the backyards and bedrooms of suburbia—through the development of the porn industry, the rise of the "swinger" culture, the legal fight to define obscenity, and the daily sex lives of "ordinary" people. It is the book that forever changed the way Americans look at themselves and one another.


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Editorial Reviews

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“Every man who reads it will recognize himself. Every woman will discover, perhaps for the first time, the secret fantasies and public privations, the loneliness and passionate lusts, of most men.” (Chicago Sun-Times )

“A sexual Pilgrim’s Progress...Few writers have lived so long, traveled so far, on the frontiers of the sexual revolution.” (Atlantic Monthly )

“Talese does not proselytize, he informs...Readable and thoroughly entertaining.” (Vogue )

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"Engrossing and provocative." Library Journal

Bestselling author Gay Talese's exploration into the hidden and changing sex lives of Americans from all walks of life shocked the world when it was first published in 1981. Now considered a classic, this fascinating personal oddysey and revealing public reflection on American sexuality changed the way Americans looked at themselves and one another. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 608 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Perennial; Updated edition (April 14, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061665436
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061665431
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.3 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (23 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #337,388 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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It's romantic, sexy, and extremely detailed. Elizabeth Martinez  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
The depth of the personal interviews related to the Sandstone community was excellent. F. Orion Pozo  |  2 reviewers made a similar statement
The generation that wanted to "get rid of all that guilt" gets this book. Daniel Berger  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
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42 of 43 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Polyamory, pornography, and the 1970s sex industry February 23, 2003
Format:Hardcover
Gay Talese spent the 1970s studying the Sexual Revolution in the USA. He was no detached scientific observer in a white lab coat like Masters and Johnson. He threw himself into his work with enthusiasm. He lived the life he studied and the results of his work are in this book. But this is not just one man's report from the sexual frontier. As a disciplined reporter, he conducted countless interviews, but as a participant he was able to obtain trusting relationships. This is not Sociology; he reports on the people making money from the Sexual Revolution and their customers. It is primarily a book about men using women's sexuality to make money from other men.

This is not an exhaustive history but rather a look at selective people and their impact on the times. John and Barbara Williamson's Sandstone Retreat, a sexually open community in the hills near Los Angeles, is one group that Talese focuses on. Through interviews with many of the participants he explores the effects polyamory (openly maintaining multiple sexual relationships) has on the couples who belong to this group.

A large portion of the book examines the publishing pioneers who, after World War II, risked fines and jail to sell erotic books and magazines in the US. The Post Office laws against sending sexual materials through the mail was the core legal restraint in the US and Anthony Comstock was the chief enforcer of this law. Some of Comstock's more famous exploits are recounted. Talese also reports on the Supreme Court, its decisions, the Presidential Commission on Obscenity and Pornography, and the Nixon White House's response to the loosening sexual climate. Hugh Hefner, one of the most famous people in sexual publishing, is also studied in some detail.

Feminism was another revolution developing in the 1970s, but Talese only gives it passing mention. The only feminist mentioned is Betty Dodson, whose drawings of female genitalia and visits to Sandstone are discussed.

Talese also looks into the history of sexual expression and repression in the US. John Humphrey Noyes and the Oneida Community is looked at as a precursor to the open sexuality of the 70s. The community was built on Noyes' concepts of Perfectionism which included communal sharing that extended to sexual relationships.

These are just the major themes. A 20 page alphabetic Index ends the book with entries from Abortion to Emile Zola. I found the history of sexually explicit publishing most interesting. The depth of the personal interviews related to the Sandstone community was excellent. So much has changed in the past 25 years in terms of sexual expression and the sex industry. This book is a wonderful study of this period and the people involved.

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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars My Favorite Non-Fiction! January 12, 2000
Format:Mass Market Paperback
Gay Talese does a brilliant job of narrating the evolution of sexuality during the 20th century. By thoroughly including all the movers and shakers in the development of censorship legislation, sex shops, massage parlors, communes and sexual revolutionists in enthralling detail, Talese manages to create a riveting tale of human sexuality. By infiltrating the sexual revolution of the 60's and 70's, Talese offers first-hand accounts. He artfully balances his keen observations as a slightly removed journalist with indulgent, self-purposeful experimentation, then masterfully conveys his findings to his audience. Like "Honor Thy Father", Talese invests a great deal of time and risk in researching his material and the result is a page-turner. While he tends to mention numerous names of people who shaped 20th century sexuality, the result is not overwhelming but instead may inspire you to keep a list of names as you read through the book with the intention of researching these people yourself. Indeed, this masterpiece flows with gripping narrative style, introducing characters that seemingly have no relationship to one another, until you read further and find that their influence is intricately commingled. This book will fascinate you with its exploration and understanding of American sexual identity. A must read!
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12 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars "...I know it when I see it..." May 8, 2000
Format:Mass Market Paperback
Talese's history of the sexual revolution in America reads like a Jackie Collins novel or plays like a Robert Altman movie where all of a sudden, the characters stories have crossed paths and their lives after were irrevocably changed. You will read the page turning account of how Hugh Hefner came to create Playboy Magazine--a story which indeed has been often told, but not like this--interspersed with various obscenity cases of Screw Magazine publisher/editor Goldstein, the coming of the age of Larry Flynt and Bob Guccione, and the story of our gal Betty...Talese outdid E! entertainment by two decades. It is a great rendering from one of our most talented writers.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Important But Overdone
I have the same problem with this book, only unfinished recently, that I have with all of Talese's work. Read more
Published 2 days ago by Bartleby (scrivner)
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant
In a brilliant history and analysis of the sexual revolution in this country, Talese deftly exposes the sanctimony of the American political Right, and to a lesser extent, the... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Charles Kuehn
5.0 out of 5 stars A great overview of American sexual attitudes
Talese' writing style doesn't scintillate, but the reporting is xlnt. I'm almost done with it and I'm enjoying it so much that I wish it were just the first volume of a series.
Published 2 months ago by Rex Payne
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing book
It took nine years of Gay Talese's life to complete this work, and it payed off. It's a incredible piece of journalism, with a rich research about sexuality in America and it's... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Stefanie Gaspar
4.0 out of 5 stars Unusual, But Eye-opening, Read
This book, obviously very well researched (9 years), is a bit of a strange read. It covers the spectrum of both the free love, porn industry and the business pursuits of people... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Frederick Neun
4.0 out of 5 stars REQUIRED TEXT FOR THE NEW SEXUAL REVOLUTION
Americans think that the only wheels that turn are those of their own invention. When writing in THY NEIGHBOR'S WIFE of, and to, Americans, Gay Talese once says that currently... Read more
Published 11 months ago by Christopher A. Fulkerson
5.0 out of 5 stars EXCELLENT BOOK AND AMAZING AMAZON SERVICE
RECEIVED ON TIME AND AS EXPECTED AND IT WAS IN AN EXCELLENT SHAPE - GREAT SERVICE FROM AMAZON AS ALWAYS
Published 16 months ago by Reem
3.0 out of 5 stars A revolution that didn't age well
My, how the decades fly. During my teen years in Tulsa in the 1970's, I heard that something called "the sexual revolution" allegedly happened in the previous decade, and that it... Read more
Published 16 months ago by M. A. Plus
5.0 out of 5 stars Can Gay Talese please write a book about today's sex world?
A classic to be sure, Talese's 1980 book explores the sexual revolution that began in the 1960s. He shows it didn't really begin in the 1960s: 19th century sexual communes and 20th... Read more
Published on January 6, 2011 by Daniel Berger
5.0 out of 5 stars THE NEIGHBOR'S WIFE
I LIKE VERY MUCH GAY TALESE , MY ENGLISH IS NOT VERY GOOD BUT TO REED HIS BOOKS IT IS A GREAT PLEASURE.
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Published on November 14, 2010 by Maria Jesus Ezcurra Eugui
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