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Tiger Babies Strike Back: How I Was Raised by a Tiger Mom but Could Not Be Turned to the Dark Side Paperback – April 30, 2013
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“An inspiring take on mothering -- and daughtering. The book is smart, creative, and thought-provoking.” (Linda Small, author of Wimpy Parents: How Not to Raise a Brat)
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“Full of feisty humor. . . . Smart and sassy.” (USA Today)
It’s awesome to find such deep truth that makes you laugh this hard. (Beth Lisick, author of Everybody Into the Pool)
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I do feel sorry for the author's unhappy childhood, which she presents as an example of the costs of the "tiger parenting" promoted by Amy Chua in her controversial Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. Keltner's mother had high expectations and wasn't very affectionate. Keltner also participated in various extracurricular activities, like piano lessons and Chinese school.
I couldn't help feeling that this was a much lesser version of tiger parenting, though. One of the most striking things about Chua's parenting style was the results that it accomplished: she pushed her children to the point of performing at Carnegie Hall as teenagers, and she did this in part by attending all of their music lessons along with them, taking notes and then guiding their intensive home practice sessions as well. I suspect that this method of developing prodigies is a large part of the reason why people were so interested in her book: both the methods and the results are extremely dramatic.Read more ›
It is refreshing to read an honest and authentic voice that is unafraid to shine a light on the places culture and convention often ignore. Her conversational tone and ease with insightful anecdotes makes for a delightful and entertaining read.
While her struggle with leaving her hometown of San Francisco struck a very personal cord with me, I was especially taken with her "battle hymn" of those who opt for experience over quantified results, unconditionally expressed love over stoicism, and cloud-watching over needlessly packed schedules.
In all, this is a clever response to the Tiger Mom movement in both structure and content. The ultimate way for a child pushed to conform and produce the results someone else desires is to tell her own, very personal, story. I must say, though, that while Wong Keltner may still be stinging from her experiences as a Tiger Baby, her Tiger Mom must have done something right to help put such an interesting, compassionate, and creative soul out into the world.
Framed loosely as a response to the "Tiger Mom" book from a couple years back, "Tiger Babies Strike Back" offers a different take on strict/controlling parents -- namely, the point of view of the child who has survived this kind of upbringing. Now that she's a parent herself, Keltner revisits the choices her own mother made -- rejecting many of them but also coming over time to understand where her mother was coming from. More memoir than manifesto, "Tiger Babies" is a humorous and touching exploration of family relationships and whether "success" is more important than living a happy and fulfilled life.
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This is a great look into what it's like to be raised by a tiger mom! The author survived and became an even better parent who had great empathy for her child. Read morePublished 9 months ago by Prettypenny77
If like me Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother filled you with cold rage and sadness for the two daughters, this book will fill you with warmth and laughter as a mother raises her... Read morePublished 13 months ago by Calum
The book immediately drew me in, and held me captive until the last pages. I could relate to the author's descriptions of her relatives, of people in San Francisco, and of her... Read morePublished 16 months ago by Tony Talarico
The writing was horrible, she contradicted herself, it was rambling. It was like an angry, stream-of-consciousness email that nobody proofread.Published 22 months ago by Theresa
This the good book to read to know how the opposite of tiger mom is and how they raise their kids.Published on January 22, 2014 by Amazon Customer
Totally agree with her sentiments & thoughts but she expressed them with such humor and poignancy. I laughed and was enlightened at the same time. Read morePublished on November 22, 2013 by SC
I got this book because I thought it would be an intellectual counterpoint to Amy Chua's Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. It simply wasn't. It was a big whine-fest. Save your time. Read morePublished on October 10, 2013 by baberighteous
After reading the book, I cried and then chose to re-read some of the chapters. It was truly inspirational and very touching. Read morePublished on October 7, 2013 by ch88ss