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The Tiger Ladies: A Memoir of Kashmir [Hardcover]

Sudha Koul (Author)
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May 14, 2002
For those who associate Kashmir with the violence that has claimed tens of thousands of lives, Koul's lovely elegiac memoir The Tiger Ladies shows that the isolated vale in the Himalayas was a heaven before it became a hell...Koul succeeds through sensuous detail in summoning the vanished Kashmir, the one of rainbow days and clear mountains and Hindus living peacefully with Muslims.
—Bryan Walsh, Time Magazine (Asian edition)

The first memoir about a woman's experience in Kashmir, one of the most volatile and alluring places on the globe

The Tiger Ladies presents Kashmir through the lives of four generations of women. Skillfully interweaving the story of her family with the story of the gods and goddesses, myths and history of this rich and unique society, Sudha Koul reveals how the women of her region have attained their extraordinary power and place in their culture—and what a fascinating culture it is.


Like Indira Gandhi and her father, Jawaharlal Nehru, Koul is a Kashmiri Brahmin, traditionally the highest caste of Hindus. The Hindus, though a tiny minority of Kashmir's population, lived in great harmony with Muslims, leading intertwined lives in the same cultural fabric. Kashmiris were isolated in their valley and enjoyed a culture so dissimilar to any other in India that they were largely unaffected by what was happening in the world around them. The 1947 partition of India and the rise of fundamentalism has turned Kashmir, once called "Paradise on Earth" by Moghul emperor Jehangir, into a religious and political inferno.


Koul grew up immersed in the colorful legends and rituals of Kashmiri life, now imperiled for Hindus and Muslims. Her story is that of a lost Eden, full of the textures, tastes, and magical tales of a distant, at times contradictory world. She looks forward to an arranged marriage while completing her graduate education, even as she becomes a magistrate; and, in the end, Koul's marriage proves both loving and enduring.


As she makes clear in this memoir, it was not her Muslim neighbors who tore her valley apart but "outside" political forces and religious ideologies, reflecting the tragic developments that have marked so much of the world's unrest in recent decades.

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Koul recalls a charmed childhood in the Kashmir valley in this smart and poignant coming-of-age tale. The daughter of Hindu Brahmins, she was born in 1947 in India's version of Shangri-La the city of Srinagar, cradled by snow-capped Himalayan mountains. Hindus were a minority, but lived in peace with their Muslim neighbors through much of Koul's happy youth, which was full of the ordinary lessons of growing up, as well as those particular to her region. At an early age she learns how to sit with a "kangri," a small portable firepot, under her bent knees, and she listens rapt to her grandmother's apocryphal stories about the region. Yet there are subtle signs of the segregation that will later explode into sectarian violence, forcing many to flee the valley or live in a state of siege. Muslims are among her best friends, but she cannot marry them. Some of her Hindu relatives won't eat in Muslim houses, so the host sends a package of uncooked lamb to their home. These shadows barely touch Koul's life, however she becomes the first Kashmiri woman to join the civil service, gets married in her early 20s (after her relatives have given up hope for her betrothal) and follows her husband to Philadelphia soon afterward. Koul (Come with Me to India on a Wondrous Voyage through Time) calls her newest book "an epitaph to a way of life." Many readers, too, will mourn the loss of her Kashmir when they finish this simple, resonant tale.
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

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For Koul, Kashmir was paradise, a place of supreme beauty and harmony cradled by the divine Himalayas. Calling up distant memories, she describes, in sensuous detail, her golden childhood within a tightly knit Brahmin family. Called pandits, the group from which the prime ministers Jawahar Lal Nehru and his daughter, Indira Gandhi, hailed, they were a small but respected Hindu minority with close ties to Muslim neighbors and friends. Women were revered in light of the pandits' worship of Durga, the mother-goddess, often depicted astride a magnificent tiger, and Koul lovingly portrays the tiger ladies in her life, especially her maternal grandmother, lingering over recollections of the exquisite wool shawls they treasured, the food they savored, and the stories they told. But these gentle reminiscences of mid-twentieth-century Kashmir depict a vanished world, and as Koul recounts the first stirrings of the militant Islamic movement and the violent struggle between Pakistan and India over her homeland, her tale, like Tamin Ansary's memoir of Afghanistan, West of Kabul, East of New York [BKL Mr 15 02], turns wistful, even haunting. Donna Seaman
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press; F edition (May 14, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807059188
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807059180
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.9 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,777,766 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars a Paradise Lost to war, October 1, 2002
This review is from: The Tiger Ladies: A Memoir of Kashmir (Hardcover)
In Sudha Koul's beautifully written memoir of her youth and young adulthood in Kashmir, she brings the reader a vivid sense of her wonderful years spent there, and the bittersweet memories she revisits upon her return to a war-torn nation. Not having known much about the regional conflict, this book helped me understand who the people of the Kashmiri valley are today, and who they were before conflict came to rule their daily lives.

Ms. Koul's many stories of her grandmother, Danna, are a touching tribute to her grandmother's memory. Danna had her own particular ways of running her household. Many of these traditions have been passed down from mother to daughter through several generations. It is this sense of continuity from which the author draws her resolve and ambition to be both a respectful Brahmin daughter, and a successful 20th-century woman with a career outside the marital home.

There are many great stories to be enjoyed in this gem of a memoir. It is one of the best of its kind, and one of my favorite books this year.

I look forward to enjoying her other works.

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Tapestry Tenderly Woven and Torn Apart, June 24, 2002
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This review is from: The Tiger Ladies: A Memoir of Kashmir (Hardcover)
Against the backdrop of the lives of three generations of Kasmiri women, Sudah Koul weaves a tapestry of life in the beautiful valley beneath the Himalayas which remained somewhat isolated and serene despite the political realities which would eventually tear it apart. I would disagree with the editorial review as far as the "subtle signs of segregation that later explode into sectarian violence...". On the contrary, Koul explains throughout the book, that the Kashmiris she knew in her community shared relationships of respect and acceptance despite their religious differences. The conflict that touches her life and the lives of those around her in the latter part of the book does not come from within this community where all are regarded first as Kasmiris. The lack of intermarriage between Muslims and Hindus, as well as cultural differences related to religion, are not a source of conflict and are no more elements of segregetion in Kashmir than they were at the same time in any other region in the world. The conflict comes from other sources (outside influences, broken promises, and political fragmentation and perceived imbalances in power)and Koul deals with them fairly and honestly, I believe. It is far too easy to oversimplfy the conflict in and over Kashmir, but Koul avoids that, providing the reader with the necessary historical background without detracting from the focus of the book which is the sharing of the richness of Kashmiri life as she experienced it. Sudha Koul's life blends threads of Kasmiri traditions, colonial remnants, and modernization into a work of light and color, and much like the climate, a contrast of warmth and biting cold.

Koul's writing pulls the reader into the tapestry, recognizing similar textures and colors from one's own experience despite the geographical location of one's youth. There is a universality to it as well as a uniqueness. I enjoyed it immensly and well never again think of Kashmir or its people in the same way.

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars The Tiger Ladies: A Memori of Kashmir, July 31, 2002
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When antagonisms between India and Pakistan erupted again this spring, I figured that if I was going to die in a nuclear war over a tiny place like Kashmir, I might as well learn more about it. And The Tiger Ladies is a sad and delicate visit to this land that has been decimated by a conflict that seems to have nothing to do with the people who live there, but external forces. The details of life during her grandmother's days intrigued me the most, and then the sadness of how war has destroyed this magical place seeps through the narrative. It is not sentimental or maudlin, but an impressionistic tale of loss and memory.
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